Need help on what to say?

[Joey23]

i currently go to high school and my main reason holding me back from being successful with women is that i just dont know what to say next, then i say something very dumb and i think to myself (Why the hell did i say that)
there is this girl she is very pretty she knows i exist but i just cant spice up the conversation out convos are very brief. Whenever i come in the classroom she always say Hi to me in a loud voice i was wondering how do i address the situation rather then always saying hi do i say something else??? Also i read somewhere to be successful you must take one of your flaws and turn it around in a confident way i am 16 years old i have grey hair many people always say that but its from my genes my father had grey hair at a young age had it to so how do i address's that situation in a confident way i would really appreciated the help thanks

 

[Racecar]

Do or say something that will separate you from other men. Few people realize "how are you" is an invitation to entertain. Never give one-word answers!

HB: Hi! How are you?
DJ: I'm doing well except for this problem I have. See, I found five dollars on the ground yesterday and I've been wondering how I should best use the money. At first, I wanted to (Blah blah blah)... What would you do with the money?

If you don't want to tell a made up story, draw on your daily life experiences. Use the power of OBSERVATION. Did your mother cook something that you didn't like but were afraid to tell her? Did a weird show catch your eye on TV? Did you run into an impossible boss while playing a video game? Have a funny dream? Tell her about it!

Being a good storyteller or comedian is all about observing the world and sharing experiences that the audience can relate to. This is the secret to comedy and to a lesser extent, charm. Once you master storytelling, you can then work on David DeAngelo's ****y comedy and eventually Jon Sinn's sexualized storytelling.

As far as the grey hair, you need to make a decision: ignore it or embrace it!

 

[FairShake]

Be interesting. Be cool. I just read that on a RooshV site and I'm not sure I could sum up my opinions any more succinctly.

What's interesting? A combination of following your own passions and having an interest in what everyone else likes. Being a leader and a follower. So if you like rock and roll and volunteer firefighting that's great but make sure you like gossip and drinking and fvcking cellphones too.

What's cool? Being socially savvy. Unfortunately the quest to be interesting sometimes runs all over the quest to be cool. Hence why you don't know what to say. You are worried it won't be interesting or cool. But here's a little secret...alot of what people say isn't that interesting. And being kinda socially awkward and nervously geeky won't hold you back too much if you are a cool person underneath. So be uninteresting and uncool. Just be mellow about it. Eventually you will stumble into coolness and interesting conversation.