Several weeks ago, I posted that I was a 27-year-old virgin who hasn't been on a date. Like I said before, I've read the DJ Bible and realized how badly I've screwed up with the opposite sex for most of my post-pubescent life. So please don't think I'm blaming it on God for my lack of success with women; I take full responsibility for my failure.
I want to apply the DJ Bible's lessons and this forum's advice wherever and whenever possible. The problem: I haven't been able to meet any women with whom I can apply this advice. Although I work for a large company, precious few of my female colleagues are single and within my age group. Whatever women there might be attracted to me would probably never consider going out with me, as they would probably worry that their friends would ridicule them for going out with a guy who makes much less than they do and doesn't have a respectable job. So I don't think work is a target-rich environment.
Most guys seem to be able to meet single girls at clubs or bars. I'm not sure if this would be a viable option for me, since being friendless means I would have to go alone, and I don't think women would want to go out with or be approached by a loner, unless he's wearing a Rolex. Again, a woman would probably worry about what her friends think of her, or she would think there is something wrong with me for not having friends by age 27. When I go to the movies, I am almost always the only person there by himself, and people sometimes look at me as though I must be a psycho about to go on a killing spree. Should I still go to clubs and bars by myself?
I'm at the end of my rope. I spend a considerable amount of time in bookstores and coffee shops. The love gurus are smoking something when they say these places are teeming with single girls; I rarely see any attractive women there. At coffee shops, it seems that whatever attractive women go there just take their coffee to go! I need a new theatre of operations. Also, I have belonged to the same gym for many years, and almost all the women there are menopausal. I'm seriously thinking about switching gyms, so I've got that base covered.
By the way, I admit I tried a certain online dating service that advertises on the radio. I discontinued use of that service after a few months when I discovered that most of my matches were non-subscribers. In response to my request for a refund, the customer service representative/bot informed me that matching subscribers with non-subscribers was "essential" because it allows subscribers to know what it feels like to be matched. No, I didn't get a refund.
I can only envy the guys here who worry that their girlfriends think they have small penises. I wish I had that luxury. :crackup:
I want to apply the DJ Bible's lessons and this forum's advice wherever and whenever possible. The problem: I haven't been able to meet any women with whom I can apply this advice. Although I work for a large company, precious few of my female colleagues are single and within my age group. Whatever women there might be attracted to me would probably never consider going out with me, as they would probably worry that their friends would ridicule them for going out with a guy who makes much less than they do and doesn't have a respectable job. So I don't think work is a target-rich environment.
Most guys seem to be able to meet single girls at clubs or bars. I'm not sure if this would be a viable option for me, since being friendless means I would have to go alone, and I don't think women would want to go out with or be approached by a loner, unless he's wearing a Rolex. Again, a woman would probably worry about what her friends think of her, or she would think there is something wrong with me for not having friends by age 27. When I go to the movies, I am almost always the only person there by himself, and people sometimes look at me as though I must be a psycho about to go on a killing spree. Should I still go to clubs and bars by myself?
I'm at the end of my rope. I spend a considerable amount of time in bookstores and coffee shops. The love gurus are smoking something when they say these places are teeming with single girls; I rarely see any attractive women there. At coffee shops, it seems that whatever attractive women go there just take their coffee to go! I need a new theatre of operations. Also, I have belonged to the same gym for many years, and almost all the women there are menopausal. I'm seriously thinking about switching gyms, so I've got that base covered.
By the way, I admit I tried a certain online dating service that advertises on the radio. I discontinued use of that service after a few months when I discovered that most of my matches were non-subscribers. In response to my request for a refund, the customer service representative/bot informed me that matching subscribers with non-subscribers was "essential" because it allows subscribers to know what it feels like to be matched. No, I didn't get a refund.
I can only envy the guys here who worry that their girlfriends think they have small penises. I wish I had that luxury. :crackup:
) were opening ME. Literally all night long women were approaching me. I got propositioned, asked to dance, you name it. It was nuts. No girls approached my friends. I'm not any more good looking. I was just projecting great body language. People LIKE you when you have good body language.