Need help fast: She asked "Do you say these things to other girls?"
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Trickster_guy_2001
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"Only when I think I'm going to get lucky."
"I only say these things to the women I really like... and then there's you."
No... I'm kidding...
You could say... "only the ones I'm attracted to (if you find her attractive)"... but leave out that "then there's you" part. You're not dating yet as far as I understood from this post, so you can be honest with her... to a degree. Don't tell her you're some kind of master manipulater or player, but letting her know that you have a few other options can't hurt.
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*Shrugs*
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what do you think
a) tell her you tell them to everyone - you are desperate and it is the only way you know of getting women.
b) no she is the only one - you are desperate and you are a total afc and have a mega oneitis on her.
c) somewhere between the two, without demeaning her or telling her she is the only one in your life.
a) tell her you tell them to everyone - you are desperate and it is the only way you know of getting women.
b) no she is the only one - you are desperate and you are a total afc and have a mega oneitis on her.
c) somewhere between the two, without demeaning her or telling her she is the only one in your life.
Ballistik
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Yeah, Trickster's advice sounds good. I like the "only to women I find attractive" line.
Heartmaster
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Take your pick:
(1) "Ha. Do you ask that of all the guys?"
(2) "Actually I prefer saying them to guys."
(3) "Yes. In fact, six of my other current girlfriends will be receiving a copy and paste of my side of the conversation, just as soon as we're done."
Or you could mix n match
My preference would be (1)... followed by, "Seriously though, the answer is" (3).
(1) "Ha. Do you ask that of all the guys?"
(2) "Actually I prefer saying them to guys."
(3) "Yes. In fact, six of my other current girlfriends will be receiving a copy and paste of my side of the conversation, just as soon as we're done."
Or you could mix n match
My preference would be (1)... followed by, "Seriously though, the answer is" (3).Hollowpoint
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Ulex - If you don't mind, can I see some of these "beautiful things" you have been writing to this woman?
I am quite a fan of well written poetic type stuff.
I am quite a fan of well written poetic type stuff.
some of these responses are stupid and will make the girl think that you're some idiot. Go with what you can do with your best c+f and make sure it's not something she'll be testing you again later. YES, She is testing you with this question, be careful.
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Her: "I feel you are a very special man. Do you say these things to other girls?"
Me: "Of course not, crazy! Hold on one sec...(Act like you are crossing a line in the palm of your hand like a checklist)"
This is just too easy.
Me: "Of course not, crazy! Hold on one sec...(Act like you are crossing a line in the palm of your hand like a checklist)"
This is just too easy.
[B\I write beautiful things to this woman by email, and she asked me "I feel you are a very special man. Do you say these things to other girls?"[\B]
Classical (and typical) sh!t test from a chick.
Anything remotely resembling defending yourself would mean that you have failed.
She wanted you to say that you don't say that to all the chicks and that she is special. However, saying what she wants to hear will lower her attraction level for you because she will think that you are saying what she wanted to hear.
Strange I know, but that's how it is.
So you can't say what she wants to hear. You have to say something that will either:
1. make her laugh; or
2. ignore the whole thing and switch the topic;
I would tell her yes, I say that to all the chicks to try and get in their pants and that particular line has worked 100%. For some reason it didn't work on you, what's wrong with you? Are you weird or something?
Classical (and typical) sh!t test from a chick.
Anything remotely resembling defending yourself would mean that you have failed.
She wanted you to say that you don't say that to all the chicks and that she is special. However, saying what she wants to hear will lower her attraction level for you because she will think that you are saying what she wanted to hear.
Strange I know, but that's how it is.
So you can't say what she wants to hear. You have to say something that will either:
1. make her laugh; or
2. ignore the whole thing and switch the topic;
I would tell her yes, I say that to all the chicks to try and get in their pants and that particular line has worked 100%. For some reason it didn't work on you, what's wrong with you? Are you weird or something?
Obviously you're romancing each other so C+F won't be appropriate here. I would've answered "only to the ones I like" or something along those lines. It comes out natural, you don't have to twist your tongue, you're honest, and you tell her that you like her.
Don't say "the ones I'm attracted to" instead say "the ones I find attractive"... it carries the same meaning but in the second you're the one who's in control. In the first, she attracted you to her and she's in control. The second, you found her attractive and you're going for more. That's to be used with those immature girls who are out of control and in effect want to control you. With the afc or innocent girls it doesn't matter how you say it. If she likes you she likes you.
Anyway...
Don't say "the ones I'm attracted to" instead say "the ones I find attractive"... it carries the same meaning but in the second you're the one who's in control. In the first, she attracted you to her and she's in control. The second, you found her attractive and you're going for more. That's to be used with those immature girls who are out of control and in effect want to control you. With the afc or innocent girls it doesn't matter how you say it. If she likes you she likes you.
Anyway...
"Sure. You're the 34th girl this week. Do you bug every guy who says something nice to you? "
Obviously you will have made that number up. She'll know you're joking, but still won't know what the hell to believe. You will be more mysterious while dodging the question.
"Obviously you will have made that number up. She'll know you're joking, but still won't know what the hell to believe. You will be more mysterious while dodging the question.