Ok This is how the story goes:
I work at the mall, theres this chick that works in another store there... I always thought she was cute but never approached. Last week I was walking by and she was standing at the door of her store...So I made a comment about how she should be smiling and blah blah. She laughed and I introduced myself and she told me her name. Then I just kept walking.
Couple days later I'm just sitting there and she comes up and says "How come YOU are not smiling?" i told her "Coz i dont look as cute as you do when you smile" she laughed...well we talked for a little bit and she gave me her number and told me I should "come over" or hang out with her sometime...We found out that we go to the same college so she tells me to go see her after class...
next day comes... i call her and she tells me she'd love to hangout with me but she has a paper due at 12 that night and that she just wants to focus on it....So by this time I'm just telling myself "she blew me off, NEXT"
couple days later she shows up at my work and tells me how she is sorry that she couldnt be with me and blah blah...then asks me if we can do something the next day, I tell her sure ok.
Next day comes, I get off my last class...call her, she tells me to come over to her place...I go over and we just chill for a lil bit with her roomate then we went to get some food and came back to her place...By this time the roomate had gone to work so it was just me and her.
We pop in a movie and we just talk through the whole thing not paying attention....she keepts getting closer to me so i decide it's time to lay down the law...I kiss her and then we end up in a 3 hour makeout session, in every position youc an imagine...
I had things to do so I told her I had to go, she tells me she doesnt want me to go...then as I leave she tells me see you at work.
So yesterday I'm at work and she never comes....then when I was closing she comes and tells me that she didnt get a break and that she wanted to tell me something but she had to get back to the store. We kiss goodnight.
Later that same night she calls me and tells me that she doesn't want a relationship right now because she just broke up her 10month relationship 2 weeks ago...and asks me if we can be friends and that she'd still like to hangout with me. I told her "sure...i guess" (damn I dont know why I didnt pull the "I have enough friends" routine). She tells me....Ill come by when I get off.
Now... this is where I need advice, what can I do to turn this around? I'm sure that a week from now she'll have a bf...(the i dotn want a relationship now thing is BS...all women say that and then next time u see them they're with some idiot)
Is there anything I can do to salvage this? and if not...how do i tell her that I'm not going to be her emotional tampoon? that I don't do the "friend" thing?
How should I act around her now?
Sorry for the long read......
I work at the mall, theres this chick that works in another store there... I always thought she was cute but never approached. Last week I was walking by and she was standing at the door of her store...So I made a comment about how she should be smiling and blah blah. She laughed and I introduced myself and she told me her name. Then I just kept walking.
Couple days later I'm just sitting there and she comes up and says "How come YOU are not smiling?" i told her "Coz i dont look as cute as you do when you smile" she laughed...well we talked for a little bit and she gave me her number and told me I should "come over" or hang out with her sometime...We found out that we go to the same college so she tells me to go see her after class...
next day comes... i call her and she tells me she'd love to hangout with me but she has a paper due at 12 that night and that she just wants to focus on it....So by this time I'm just telling myself "she blew me off, NEXT"
couple days later she shows up at my work and tells me how she is sorry that she couldnt be with me and blah blah...then asks me if we can do something the next day, I tell her sure ok.
Next day comes, I get off my last class...call her, she tells me to come over to her place...I go over and we just chill for a lil bit with her roomate then we went to get some food and came back to her place...By this time the roomate had gone to work so it was just me and her.
We pop in a movie and we just talk through the whole thing not paying attention....she keepts getting closer to me so i decide it's time to lay down the law...I kiss her and then we end up in a 3 hour makeout session, in every position youc an imagine...
I had things to do so I told her I had to go, she tells me she doesnt want me to go...then as I leave she tells me see you at work.
So yesterday I'm at work and she never comes....then when I was closing she comes and tells me that she didnt get a break and that she wanted to tell me something but she had to get back to the store. We kiss goodnight.
Later that same night she calls me and tells me that she doesn't want a relationship right now because she just broke up her 10month relationship 2 weeks ago...and asks me if we can be friends and that she'd still like to hangout with me. I told her "sure...i guess" (damn I dont know why I didnt pull the "I have enough friends" routine). She tells me....Ill come by when I get off.
Now... this is where I need advice, what can I do to turn this around? I'm sure that a week from now she'll have a bf...(the i dotn want a relationship now thing is BS...all women say that and then next time u see them they're with some idiot)
Is there anything I can do to salvage this? and if not...how do i tell her that I'm not going to be her emotional tampoon? that I don't do the "friend" thing?
How should I act around her now?
Sorry for the long read......
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