Need advice on handling a girl

[fyzix]

Friday night I hit a very good meat market-ish bar in town to pick up some girls. I went into the night expecting to take a girl up to the attached hotel, most girls I meet in the bar have terrible personality or aren't the my dating type. I started talking to a girl and her friend on the dance floor and we kept the conversation rolling for about an hour, with a few short breaks. I offered to buy her a drink, but she refused, told me she could not return home drunk. She's innocent and I assume a daddy's girl. I've never encountered a girl like this, it's a refreshing change. My only worry is, I'm not sure how to handle this girl. Any advice would be greatly appriciated. Thanks.

 

[squirrels]

Did you get the digits?

All girls are "innocent" on the outside.

 

[Legend]

you may think she is innocent.....they never are

Treat her like you have been treating all of your other pass girls you had.

 

[Player_Supreme]

The Three Types of Women: The Ho, The Freak and the Good Girl



"Once you have the ability to discern what a woman's true personal core consists
of, you know on what basis to interact with her. This is the root to handling a woman to
your satisfaction - knowing her basic type before you get involved. If you don't realize
her true type, you automatically are at a disadvantage in your involvement with her - you are off-base and unable to properly evaluate her actions according to her true type.

Here is an example of why this is so fundamentally important. If you are
involved with a woman who has a penchant for being flirtatious with other men there are completely different reasons for her being that way, depending on her basic type. If she is a Ho, she's being flirtatious with the idea of making some money in mind. If she's a Freak, it's because she desires to "play," or to reassure herself as to her desirability. If she's a Good Girl, she could be attempting to arouse in you feelings of jealousy, which will reassure her that you care for her. If you show jealousy to a Good Girl, she feels more yours, more secure in your relationship. If you show jealousy to a freak, it shows her that she has you under control, and weakens your control over her.

And if you are the one being flirted with, not being able to discern the type of
woman flirting with you could have negative ramifications. If you read into a Good Girl's
flirtation that you can "get something done" with her, if you mistake her for a Freak and think she actually, if persuaded properly, will have
sex with you, you will be badly disappointed when she draws a line she will not
cross with you as far as intimacy goes. If you react to a Freak's flirtations thinking she is a Good Girl, you will be considered "too serious" for her, or not sexually adventurous enough and she is turned off. And if you don't realize a Ho is a Ho, and her flirtations with you are to get you to spend your money, and not because of you per se, you run the risk of getting your feelings hurt-along with your wallet."

So, you can see the importance of being correct with your observations. Your
proper diagnosis of a girl's true basic type could prove as beneficial to your mental health as a doctor's proper diagnosis to your physical well-being.
Properly determining a girl's basic type is possible by thorough knowledge of
each type's main characteristics, and mentally evaluating a woman much the same way as a baseball scout would evaluate a prospect for the team; close observation of not only
major or overt actions but also small details, habits, idiosyncrasies and mindset exhibited.
Through continued practice and experience, you will be able to "scout out" good, hot
prospects for your team."

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It's hard to leave a point not at least detailed enough that it makes
some type of mutha ****in sense
Some of
this stuff is like the Mercedes-Benz safety innovations - too important to keep under
patent. Such a simple clarification in your mind as to what type of girl you are dealing
with - Ho, Freak or Good Girl - makes all the difference in the world sometimes between
great success or abject failure. Not distinguishing this is the number one cause of mutha ****a’s
getting the "you're too nice for me"

Which TYPE of Biatch are you ****ing with?

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When you look to get married, you are not going to retire from the battle of the
sexes; you are going to select your lifelong opponent!
Woe to the man who loses control of the woman after married. To those who
are reading this and have already felt the pain of the legal dissolution of an emotional
commitment -divorce- you have my heartfelt sympathy, but too bad ya shoulda known.

They weren't inadequate - they were just simply dealing with a Freak or a Ho
instead of a Good Girl! And some *****es will hide the type they know they are on purpose!
Learn the details of the Three Basic Types, and make sure You are not
the one played for a foo…!

Let's detail the Three Basic Types of Women.

It is absolutely necessary to know the type of a woman - Ho, Freak, or Good
Girl - you are targeting for your pimping attention.

No woman is 100 % of any one type - for example, you can catch a Good Girl's
attention with a display of wealth (that’s your clout), but her bottom line is that she's at least going to have to feel she can grow to love you over time, because a Good Girl will not marry you just for your money. But a Good Girl is the type that will marry you even if you don't have anything but love for her. This is the type of girl that gives a man inspiration to achieve in life; she makes it worth going out into the world for, and enjoyable to come home to.

If a man mistakes her for a Freak, whose bottom line is the new and exciting,
usually sexual experience; the type to whom the worst fate imaginable is to be bored - if
he misplays the Good Girl because he's been told that all women are the same, or, worse, he hasn't been told that they are NOT all the same and in exactly what way are they different - and just focuses on her sexually, then eventually his money is not going to be enough to keep her; finding love is a Good Girl's bottom line.

A Ho may marry a man for his money (a lot of Hoes have only one client - their
husband!) and even if he is old and frail and unable to perform sexually, she will not
jeopardize her position for mere sexual satisfaction by cheating on him; the Ho's bottom
line is wealth and/or status. A lot of cheerleaders in high school are hoes-in-training,
selling out to the top athlete in order to gain the currency of popularity.

 

[Player_Supreme]

And of course we here on the pn know about the common ordinary street ho and her motivations.
A freak is where we want to put our aspiring pimpin attention to!
A Freak may be attracted to a wealthy man, or a man who shows a lot of clout and even if he is, Bling Bling, and she is married to him, she still would risk getting
divorced because of the excitement of having sex with the bodyguard under a boardwalk
pier. To a Freak, the new and exciting, usually sexual, is her bottom line. That's why
boredom is so intolerable to this type girl, and she will risk danger to experience the
taboo or forbidden simply because to her it's exciting, and "something to do".
But even Freaks have a sense of convention and a female desire for security -
remember, no ***** is 100 % of any type - it is the bottom-line choices that she makes that shows her true type.


"About the age of twenty-five or so, a Freak will start to look for someone to
settle down with. She almost always desires a "symp" (a male who allows the woman to
be dominant mentally), not a man, because a symp will allow her to continue her freak
way of constantly seeking male attention. This explains why you see beautiful girls
married to average-looking guys - she can easily control him - she can easily control him, and therefore the relationship, by making him feel his ass
is "lucky" to have her because other beauty. She may not necessarily have sex with
another man after she's married, but neither she nor that po..fool, can ever be truly sure
she won't. This is the type that is susceptible to the office or work affair. Over a period of time the nature of the Freak and her actions have a corrosive effect on the male's ego. If you do divorce the biatch, your prenuptial may keep your wallet intact, but it does nothing for the damage to your ego and pride. If you have money and are going to allow a woman to marry you for it, better a Ho than a Freak. Both choices, however, are bad.

"But, lots of times guys are willing to sacrifice their pride and control over the
woman they **** with in order to obtain one that is extremely beautiful and attractive. Not us mutha ****a’s of course!
This is a personal decision a male must make for himself. A Freak is capable of
innocently, by her nature, conducting herself with other men in a way that is
borderline "come-on". In other words, she is capable of giving off the impression to other
men that, although she is with you, she is still available sexually to them if the right
buttons are pushed. Again, she may not actually be available, but her nature requires her to give that impression in order to receive the level of male attention she needs to verify her desirability.

"Freaks are sometimes able to learn Ho behavior, but it is against basic type and
usually results in psychological conflict. Eventually she may cease from actually giving
access to her sex for money, but is comfortable with such things as posing naked for
photography, or doing strip routines in nightclubs, things that are sexually provocative
but do not require her to actually have impersonal sex for money. Girls who are
"****teasers" are Freaks. She might "give it up", she might not. How much do you want
her and what are you willing to do for it to reaffirm her desirability is her criteria for
deciding.

"That attitude is at the crux of the Freak's nature - her need for personal
recognition and a constant reaffirmation other femininity.
When you attempt to get more than what a Freak gives sexually, by trying to turn the
relationship into a deep emotional commitment, not only will you be unsuccessful, but
also you will spoil the sex you're getting, because it will be time for her to move on and
find someone else to "fall in love" with. Or worse, she will allow you to get deeply
emotionally involved so that she can enjoy the thrill of going through the wedding
process, itself something new and exciting "to do". Unfortunately, lots of times when this
particular new thrill wears off, so does the marriage."

One of the main sources of frustration men have with women is one they create
for themselves by treating a woman against type. If, early in the interaction, you treat a
Freak as a Good Girl, a woman who wants love and loyalty, that's when you get the
brush-off as "a nice guy" or "too serious" or "I just want to be friends". It wasn't that you
were too nice, it was that you were too nice with the wrong type girl! Your approach
would have worked perfectly with a Good Girl, who herself wanted a nice guy who was
serious.

Beware of any advice that does not specifically address the basic types of
women in how you approach them. Not all women are the same, so all techniques do not
work the same on all women! Unless the technique and strategy you are being told about is specifically directed toward one of the three types of women, how can it be guaranteed to be effective?

It's amazing how easily handling women becomes if you know her true basic
type. Like sports, a solid grounding in the fundamentals will get you results if you learn
the right techniques to make you effective. This is why we here at pn network gotta get our skilz together and learn all that we can about handling *****es and reversing the game

 

[Player_Supreme]

Holding Out for a Hero
Women, even the most independent of heterosexual women, tend
to respond very, very powerfully to a primitive archetype: the powerful man. When women get involved with men they don’t view as “powerful”— when they date “nice guys” and “good providers,” it’s often because they’ve been hurt by guys they’ve found more exciting. And that fantasy of the powerful, exciting man is almost always latent, and therefore something you can tap into.
Mr. Powerful is the guy you find in romance novels. Of course, in
romance novels he’s always rich and handsome, tall of stature, deep of
voice, and broad of shoulder, but those, for our purposes, aren’t his most important attributes. The important attributes are products of belief and behavior, and therefore, things you can adopt and demonstrate, in a way that excites the women you meet.
What are the attributes of the powerful man?
First, independence.
The hero doesn’t need her. Moreover, he frequently rejects her in subtle ways. He often leans away from her and moves away from her, out of arm’s reach. His body language, facial expression, and vocal tone frequently deliver nonverbal messages of “I don’t need you; you need me” or “You’re not important” or “You’re not good enough” or “You’re disappointing me.”
Second, the hero has plans and objectives, a path he’s chosen for
himself. These things don’t center around her. As far as the hero is
concerned, she can stay or go. Whatever she does or thinks or feels won’t sway him from his path. If she’s really, really lucky—if she proves again and again how worthy she is—maybe he will let her have a place in his life.But she will never be the center of his life.
Third, the hero is determined. The hero knows what he’s doing,
knows where he’s going, and goes after what he wants until he gets it.
Nothing sways him, and he doesn’t ***** or whine about mistakes or errors.
Make it absolutely clear that your aims are the only things that really matterto you.
Fourth, the hero is greater and more special than she is—he
doesn’t put her on a pedestal; instead, he occasionally lifts her up to his pedestal, and usually just allows her to fantasize him doing it. The rule is this: He must always demonstrate that he regards himself and his aims as more important than her aims and her needs. While women love intimacy,when it comes to love, they usually want intimacy with someone they see as greater, rather than someone they see as a mere equal.
Fifth, he challenges her. In practice, this sometimes means
undermining her confidence--and as we’ve mentioned, when you do this,
when you subtly or not so subtly reject or downgrade her, she’ll often find it stimulating and energizing. Use the following formulas: “Too bad you aren’t/don’t X” and “If only you were/could X”.
When you challenge her or criticize her, she’ll often become
motivated to prove her worthiness. You should occasionally point out her shortcomings, and most importantly, contemptuously point out her behavior when she tries to play games.
You can also be challenging by being a) volcanic and/or b) remote.
To achieve the effect of Amorous Vulcanism, you should raise your voice, make melodramatic physical gestures, be impatient, smolder, glower.
Occasionally act very angry. Your intensity will reinforce her sense that, in being with you, she’s part of something exciting.
To be remote, use silence a great deal. Silence, in combination with
eye contact, is very powerful. After you deliver a script, make eye contact and hold it silently—this will usually encourage her to process what you’ve said even more thoroughly. Also, don’t talk about yourself very much, except in relation to your plans and your objectives.
Your silence lets her project her romantic fantasies all the more thoroughly. Don’t talk about your doubts or errors. Silence can have the cruel but useful effect of heightening her anxieties. And in worrying about whether she’s about to lose you, she sees your value grow. And in seeing your value grow, she feels prouder of the relationship and more fulfilled.
Perhaps the best approach is to alternate Angry Intensity with Cold
Inaccessibility. These behaviors, of course, are the sticks—the carrots, which should form the basis of your relationship, are the good feelings you create through regular verbal stimulation. As much as possible, say only things that will induce strong states in her—induce strong positive feelings, negative feelings, positive feelings—and not much else.
Pump up her emotions, and then give her lots of silence. Ignore her. When you do venture something personal or reveal vulnerability, it’ll seem like a reward, and a mark of how Deep your relationship is becoming.
Bear in mind, though, that when women complain about a lack of
communication, they’re usually upset at the lack of pleasurable verbal
stimulation—that is, the lack of those kinds of experiences which this report has taught you to create. When you provide regular verbal stimulation and feed her plenty of bubblewords, “communication” will seldom be an issue.

One might think: Hey, you’ve pretty much just recommended
behaving like a Neanderthal.
Yes. Bear in mind that if you ask a woman about the sort of behaviors
described above, she’ll almost surely describe them as reprehensible and very unattractive. What does she like? Well, she’ll probably say, she really likes nice, patient, respectful, loyal guys who treat her really well…
On the other hand, if you simply manifest the sort of behaviors
described above, she’ll tell all her friends what an exciting guy she’s met.
Review
Women find you more attractive when you display the following attributes:
1. Independence. You don’t need her; she needs you.
2. Focus. Your goals are more important than anything else, including her.
3. Determination. You persist in the face of obstacles.
4. Superiority (to her and others). You’re the elusive prize; she should feel
that not losing you is a challenge in itself.
5. Alternating Intensity and Coolness. On occasion, be rude, challenging,
provocative, and/or frustrating—it’s much better to piss her off than to
bore her.

 

[Player_Supreme]

This is from a popular (I think) dating site, "High Status Male" or something like that. People send me shyt all the time in my ebox:


1) Remain Focused on the Game -- The art of attracting
women is all about knowing how to engage them with a natural curiositythat shows you are at least a little bit interested in *their* world(WARNING: too much = a slick phoney, so be careful).

Look forLifeLines (anything that she's hinting she would be open totalking about) and stay committed to working them. Forgetabout yourself. Fade out your own ego. There'll be plenty oftime in the future to gab about your own amazing life.Remember this: you are NEVER desperately looking for an "earto bend" -- you are always looking to draw HER out instead.Only those lost souls with limited social contact hungrily cravethe attention of any person they can corner into listening to theirnon-stop yabbering (stargeek) (I'm not trying to sound cruel here, justhonest).Tune out the surrounding world and focus in on her as if youwere the only two people in the universe. If done properly(without any subservient whimpering), this kind of attention isflattering to her in an almost breathtakingly way.

2) Stay Calm -- Above all else, act like you're familiar with thiswhole process. Seduction always begins as a low pressureevent. Place her at ease with your laid back demeanor, and lether slowly begin to feed off of it. Be a lighthearted flirt. Don't beobvious -- keep your interest vague so as to give everyone an"out" to protect all egos involved (both yours and hers). She willappreciate your tactful approach immensely, and be impressedwith your consideration and charm.

3) Demonstrate Charisma (Likability) -- Sometime during thecourse of the evening, offer a single simple compliment about
something unique to her style and presentation about herself.No canned "You have such beautiful eyes..." compliments.Don't go overboard or make a big deal about ANY complimentsthat you pay her. Make them seem casual and unplanned (asudden pleasant thought that just popped into your head andslipped out before you could stop it...), then IMMEDIATELY moveon to other topics. Trust me, she heard it.

 

[Player_Supreme]

4) Touch Her To Seduce Her -- Use any excuse you can dreamup to get a hand on her. Of course I mean only in theappropriate places... an arm, shoulder, a hair brushback.Do not grope her like a desperate fool. Touch is extremelyimportant because it demonstrates a sexual, "manly" interest inher and keeps you away from the deadly "nice-guy-friend"category. Just make sure you always keep it classy.


5) Risk Taking Is A Turn-On -- Take a chance... a boldcomment, break the speed limit, whatever... Stay unpredictableand keep her a little off balance. Men are powerful and at easewith themselves , right? (see item #2...)


6) Be A Man, Not A Boy -- Keep your apartment styled in amature fashion -- avoid the frat-house look even though yourfootball buddies will probably declare you a big puss. A fewREAL house plants (the kind you actually have to water...yee-gads!), and dark solids everywhere. A few *paintings*(don't spend a fortune, just hit the flea markets) instead of thePam Anderson poster. Got it? Also (very important) junk the"bunk" and get yourself a double-sized bed (because youentertain female company from time to time, that's why)Time to bury the Star Wars bed sheets too. Keep a few bottlesof wine in stock and the kind of goodies hiding around the housethat a girl would like (popcorn, cheese, ice cream, etc.) for when you want to veg out in front of the tube and get her loosened up.

7) Nurture The Trance Of Romance -- Take her out to see amushy chick flick by surprise... make a dinner and light a sillycandle on a "spontaneous" whim (nothing is spontaneous to areal Seducer...). Do the things that trigger those romanticthoughts and dreams that attract women naturally by pulling upall their fuzziest memories. You'll score major points forcreativity

!8) Project The Attitude Of The High Status Male -- You mustNEVER allow yourself to act like a fawning "nice guy"... but youalways want to SEEM like one ...((end))

 

[fyzix]

Of course I got the digits. I would definately classify this girl as a good girl. I remained very dominant and cool throughout the night, and steered the conversation in the direction I chose. I'll get back to you guys after I take her out. Thanks for those posts Player.