gspshields2 said:
with her bf 2 weeks ago, and is not really ready to start dating.
Sorry for leading you on.
Advice?
Your mistake was grabbing the bait.
This is another reason why beginning in LJBF is good. They have NOTHING TO REJECT. As an LJBF, you could have offered support, friendship with no sexual pressure, and been IN. But nooooo.....
Even as an LJBF, I'd have said to her "Yeah, right, in a week you'll meet some guy and say it "just happened."" Doing this as an LJBF won't make you look jealous, esepcially if you follow up with your own "war stories."
The idea isn't that she'll think you aren't interested. In fact, she'll KNOW you're as full of crap as she is, but by treating her lie like the truth, she winds up checkmates.
One of these days you guys will get it: if ONE chick REJECTS you, it's no big deal. Keep her as an LJBF, and PURSUE OTHER CHICKS. This will help you not only with the other chicks, since you aren't bogged down by oneitis, but walso with the LJBF, who will feel rejected by your lack of pursuit, since she will know the ONLY reason you don't want her, is that you already haev someone hotter.
