MichiganMan1111
Don Juan
Quick background: I am 33. Like most men (I think) my relationship pattern has been to have sex with a new girlfriend somewhere between the 1st and 3rd dates. I even banged my ex on the first date and we were married for 4 years.
Well...
I have been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks. Probably about 12 dates. Even two road trips. She even took me to meet her family. However, we do nothing but make out, cuddle, and hold hands. She is VERY affectionate, even in public...but we don't go passed kissing and some occasional, over-the-clothes touching. I tried once to go a bit further, but she used body positioning to block me. She tells me she has never felt this way about anyone. I also know that she is not a virgin.
She is very educated and has an advanced degree. She is also younger than me (she is 26).
Normally, I would pull the strings on a girl like this...but you know what: I find that the waiting is actually making me want her more. I think this might be her plan. I did some reading online and it said that if a girl is taking it slow and there is little affection, then things are going nowhere. However, this girl calls, texts, and stops over all the time. Plus she always wants to cuddle, hold hands, and watch movies.
I feel like this could potentially be the most legitimate, normal relationship I have ever developed. Just don't want to get burned....
Any experiences or thoughts?
Well...
I have been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks. Probably about 12 dates. Even two road trips. She even took me to meet her family. However, we do nothing but make out, cuddle, and hold hands. She is VERY affectionate, even in public...but we don't go passed kissing and some occasional, over-the-clothes touching. I tried once to go a bit further, but she used body positioning to block me. She tells me she has never felt this way about anyone. I also know that she is not a virgin.
She is very educated and has an advanced degree. She is also younger than me (she is 26).
Normally, I would pull the strings on a girl like this...but you know what: I find that the waiting is actually making me want her more. I think this might be her plan. I did some reading online and it said that if a girl is taking it slow and there is little affection, then things are going nowhere. However, this girl calls, texts, and stops over all the time. Plus she always wants to cuddle, hold hands, and watch movies.
I feel like this could potentially be the most legitimate, normal relationship I have ever developed. Just don't want to get burned....
Any experiences or thoughts?