First of all, I'm 19 and just finished my freshman year in college, so right now I'm living back at home. So I met HB9 a couple weeks ago at a party, and then saw her again at another person's house. I got her number and I'm supposed to take her out tonight. I suggested we go to Adventure Landing, a place with minigolf and go-karts and stuff, but she didn't really want to go, and didn't seem very enthusiastic about playing pool either. She told me to figure something out.
So I was thinking of taking her out for ice cream since I figure HBs have the sweet tooth like everybody says. Then I was going to take her to the top of this small mountain in the country, which has an incredible view of the city and neighboring counties. I ran the idea by a couple people (one was a girl) and they liked it.
My one friend though thinks it's a bad idea because it's too romantic for a first date. He thinks that she will think I am just trying to get some (I plan on trying to kiss her but that's it), and she may not like me that much. He wants me to take her to this guy's house that some people are going to. I absolutely do not want to do this. The only two times I've seen her it's been in that kind of situation, and I need some one-on-one time. My attitude is, if she doesn't like me that much and gets weirded out by going to that spot then I should probably next her. She's given me alot of signals and seemed enthusiastic but she did cancel on me once before.
Thoughts on this? I can't think of another outdoor type of spot, and I'm not going to try to take her on some other kind of action date because unfortunately I question her flexibility (bad sign). My friend is not a complete AFC, he has a hot girlfriend of several months, so I don't want to completely write him off. I need to make a decision by maybe 5PM EDT at the latest.
So I was thinking of taking her out for ice cream since I figure HBs have the sweet tooth like everybody says. Then I was going to take her to the top of this small mountain in the country, which has an incredible view of the city and neighboring counties. I ran the idea by a couple people (one was a girl) and they liked it.
My one friend though thinks it's a bad idea because it's too romantic for a first date. He thinks that she will think I am just trying to get some (I plan on trying to kiss her but that's it), and she may not like me that much. He wants me to take her to this guy's house that some people are going to. I absolutely do not want to do this. The only two times I've seen her it's been in that kind of situation, and I need some one-on-one time. My attitude is, if she doesn't like me that much and gets weirded out by going to that spot then I should probably next her. She's given me alot of signals and seemed enthusiastic but she did cancel on me once before.
Thoughts on this? I can't think of another outdoor type of spot, and I'm not going to try to take her on some other kind of action date because unfortunately I question her flexibility (bad sign). My friend is not a complete AFC, he has a hot girlfriend of several months, so I don't want to completely write him off. I need to make a decision by maybe 5PM EDT at the latest.
Go out for a drink in a bar where you both know nobody else, and figure it out from there. If it's going good, finish up the date, and tell her you'll call again.