Name me one technique that gives me power over women.

[Philippe Schlichting]

There is this saying in the community that pickup gave you power.

Name one technique that gives me power over women.

What I mean is: Which technique, ie, what you do or say right now, gives you power over women. The question stems from realizing that women by their sheer existance get attention and sex. I am asking for a technique that offers the same power with the same effort being put in.

I am not asking this for the record, I don't want you to list every useless fact that comes to mind, but to mention something to use against women next time who display their female power against you. For instance it is very easy to be seen as lower value by women. It seems as if they were waiting for something they could see as lower value in you.

 

[Jair213]

indifference

 

[PlayHer Man]

What kind of power do you want? I'm assuming you mean "leverage" in a relationship.

There are three things that will give you power:

1. Having something she finds valuable (status, money, looks, utility, etc.)

2. Making her BELIEVE you have something she finds valuable (see #1)

3. Fear (Bio clock, you are the best she can do, etc.)

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

Jair213 is 100% correct. Indifference gives you total and complete control. Once you start caring, if you're not careful, you end up snowballing out of control for the woman and then it's too late.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Jair213 is 100% correct. Indifference gives you total and complete control. Once you start caring, if you're not careful, you end up snowballing out of control for the woman and then it's too late.

This is a half-truth. "Indifference" does not give you power over a woman. It just keeps her from having power over you.

 

[bigneil]

Having better women.

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

This is a half-truth. "Indifference" does not give you power over a woman. It just keeps her from having power over you.

I was assuming the OP is confident enough in himself and his abilities to court a woman successfully. If the girl is into him, and he shows indifference to most situations, he will almost always gain power over her.

 

[Mike32ct]

I think indifference is good but overrated as a technique for most guys. With all her options today, indifference only works for very high value men.

I'm not saying one should ever be needy. But expecting that an average guy would get laid from indifference? I doubt it.

PlayHerMan is also correct. It's more for you than her.

I'd love to hear Zekko's thoughts on this one.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

What I mean is: Which technique, ie, what you do or say right now, gives you power over women. The question stems from realizing that women by their sheer existance get attention and sex. I am asking for a technique that offers the same outcome with the same effort being put in. Indifference requires huge efforts.


Indifference or in other words: "Forcing yourself to not react" does not give you power over women.

"Having better women." is no technique.

"Having something she finds valuable" is no technique.

"Making her BELIEVE you have something she finds valuable (see #1)" is no technique.

"Bio clock, you are the best she can do" Those are good.

Name others.

I am not asking this for the record, I don't want you to list every useless fact that comes to mind, but to mention something to use against women next time who display their female power against you. For instance it is very easy to be seen as lower value by women. It seems as if they were waiting for something they could see as lower value in you. If they perceive you as lower value they won't care about your indifference.

 

[goundra]

i've got this secret formula for a pill. all you have to do is take the pill, and all women will prostrate themselves for you, nude. What a flake.

 

[Who Dares Win]

What I mean is: Which technique, ie, what you do or say right now, gives you power over women. The question stems from realizing that women by their sheer existance get attention and sex. I am asking for a technique that offers the same outcome with the same effort being put in. Indifference requires huge efforts.


Indifference or in other words: "Forcing yourself to not react" does not give you power over women.

"Having better women." is no technique.

"Having something she finds valuable" is no technique.

"Making her BELIEVE you have something she finds valuable (see #1)" is no technique.

"Bio clock, you are the best she can do" Those are good.

Name others.

You should define better what you are looking for, what you mean by "technique"? something like "ground and pound" to make sure she cannot piss you off or leave?

Some old man is pretty good in backhands but I guess those are not the "techniques" we are looking for.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

You should define better what you are looking for, what you mean by "technique"? something like "ground and pound" to make sure she cannot piss you off or leave?

Some old man is pretty good in backhands but I guess those are not the "techniques" we are looking for.

I overheard that statement.

 

[VladPatton]

The technique to plow forward to the next girl, regardless of disinterest, ṣhit tests, and dismissal. Stop caring.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

The technique to plow forward to the next girl, regardless of disinterest, ṣhit tests, and dismissal. Stop caring.

That is no power. If you leave, all you do in her eyes is give up. Power is related to how others perceive you.

 

[FinalWay]

That is no power. If you leave, all you do in her eyes is give up. Power is related to how others perceive you.

The only power we have is to better ourselves , and that includes dropping useless women...what do you wanna do? Win her over? I say fvck that, and screw her best friend lol.

 

[evan12]

There is this saying in the community that pickup gave you power.

Name one technique that gives me power over women.

What I mean is: Which technique, ie, what you do or say right now, gives you power over women. The question stems from realizing that women by their sheer existance get attention and sex. I am asking for a technique that offers the same power with the same effort being put in.

I am not asking this for the record, I don't want you to list every useless fact that comes to mind, but to mention something to use against women next time who display their female power against you. For instance it is very easy to be seen as lower value by women. It seems as if they were waiting for something they could see as lower value in you.

being high masculine man/strong give you power over woman , most women get blinded by highly masculine men and strength . that is why they go after gangsters , she cant help but her animal side push her to breed with you .

 

[Fly By Night]

Honestly, I think she has to be interested in you to give power to you.

Think about it, if some big, muscled, aggressive dude came up to you and told you to clean his shoes, you would probably check the possibility that he would deck you in the face for saying no. If he was a skinny shrimp, I doubt you would worry about that happening.

1. Having something she finds valuable (status, money, looks, utility, etc.)

Got money? Financial Power.
Got looks? Sexual Power.
Got utility? Useful Power.
Got personality? Social Power.

 

[Randomer]

You want techniques? Buy The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. There's no one way but if you pay attention to her and act accordingl, you should be able to start developing succesful seductions *through technique*

 

[evan12]

Honestly, I think she has to be interested in you to give power to you.

Think about it, if some big, muscled, aggressive dude came up to you and told you to clean his shoes, you would probably check the possibility that he would deck you in the face for saying no. If he was a skinny shrimp, I doubt you would worry about that happening.


Got money? Financial Power.
Got looks? Sexual Power.
Got utility? Useful Power.
Got personality? Social Power.

Although I agree these types of power is essential in getting hot/good women , but the OP asking of personal traits that may give you power over her , some poeple on PUA forums including DJ dont want to believe money can get women , may be they are too lazy to get money .

 

[Fly By Night]

Ok... I would have to say having sex with a woman will give you power over her, because you now have the power to tell other people she was "easy" or "she has a nasty wart down there."

There's your technique. :l