MySpace Pic: Shirtless or not?

[ILikeGirls<3]

Frankly, my face is about a 5, but my body is a 7-8, sportin a pretty visible six pack and decent muscles for a shorter guy. But I am worried it will make me look insecure, and this is because when I browse the successful guys on myspace, those who have hot girls in relationships and friends, they are usually doing some other creative photo pose. I only see a few gangster type guys go shirtless. What do y'all think?

 

[spax]

fag

 

[bob88]

If you're gonna do shirtless, take it while doing a sport or swimming or something else.

 

[Craig Reeves]

NEVER, and I mean, NEVER, have a shirtless MySpace pic - it's TRYHARD and is a turn-off to women...even if you the ideal body.

 

[romangod]

fag

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[(JJ)]

myspace pic's aren't about communicating how much you work out. show how fun and cool you are by either having a picture of you with friends, showing you do something you enjoy (sports for me), or coming up with something creative. friend of mine made a pic of his face photoshopped on tom's body. he got like a thousand comments on that thing lol

 

[muscleman]

Show off what you're good at. If you have a good body show it off. Stop doing or not doing what everyone else is and put more of "you" into it.

PS. I have shirtless pics on mine and I've yet to hear a girl complain.

 

[saber]

shirtless myspace pics are a winner for sure

do you think a girl is tryhard when she has a pic of her dancing around in some skimpy outfit?

there are a lot of different options for a pic but don't short change yourself by hiding you best assets...maybee show a little confidence by writing

"both hands on the keyboard" as the caption lol

 

[D_Master]

I would say the difference is, saber, that the girl is trying hard, it's just that we guys don't care. In fact, we are turned on by that. I know for a fact that some girls will get tons of messages and friend requests off of myspace, so much so that many times they will ignore it. I had a beach pic on my profile for awhile and had tons of hot girls add me if I requested them. The problem is that I didn't really know what to do after that. That is where myspace is tricky b/c some girls are just using it for friends or just for the attention, while some really are looking for someone. I would say the key to meeting people isn't in your picture, but what you do after she adds you.

 

[MICO]

Uhm no way it won't work. Girls don't work the way guys do. A guy would drool over a girl who is flaunting her stuff but I don't think it works the other way. Plus, D Master is right, what would you do after all of them add you?

 

[saber]

ive done some myspace dates and laid a girl off myspace...my friends have as well

it has potential but I am still working on the kinks in my own system

i have some tips if you want but am feeling lazy so lemme know if interested

 

[D_Master]

I think we'd all be interested to see what you got saber.

 

[muscleman]

Uhm no way it won't work. Girls don't work the way guys do. A guy would drool over a girl who is flaunting her stuff but I don't think it works the other way. Plus, D Master is right, what would you do after all of them add you?

Maybe you should really listen to what girls say to each other.

A hot guy is just as much of a turn on as a hot girl. Granted girls do have additional requirements for intimacy which vary from girl to girl, but having a solid physique and showing it off is only going to help you. Trust me on this one. I lift 5x/week for a reason :rockon:

 

[saber]

there are four key rules to myspace sarging...that i follow

#1 attract -this is raising value with pics and pic comments

my pics are me in front of my friends mini-mansion,riding a motorcycle, hanging woth girls and just looking plain sexy...lol

she sees rich, fun, good with women and sexy

#2 reduce disqualification always overlooked by most guys

EVERYTHING that is not raising value can be the reason a girl doesn't message you. no one cares that you have the funniest cartoon or most bad ass song. ive seen girls next guys cause of this trivial **** all the time....minimalist flash profiles are the best imo...if its not a strong point then eliminate...

dont give her a reason not to talk too you...she is double checking for one

#3 fun/interesting

keep the convo light and fun...use roleplay, push/pull and ignore her questions when chatting...keep her interested

convo is important but is completely useless if you appear to have no value

#4 close properly
Although I can get numbers pretty easily i have trouble here too
the best advice i ever received was to get the number and date a.s.a.p.
invite her to a group type thing so she is comfortable meeting a stranger...invite her and a friend to meet you and wingman somewhere

im not claiming to be an expert (see my last thread) but I don't do to bad

 

[LostAndConfused]

Go for the shirtless pic. Be original though. Sometimes when I put a body pic on less popular websites similar to myspace just for the hell of it, I've noticed that often girls will add you just because you look good, but not because they are interested in you. You just end up being eye candy for sleepovers, haha.

Check out saber's advice to build interest it seems to work.

 

[tsmith2334]

i think shirtless pics are silly, most unfit guys probably do. girls on the other hand might like it, so try it.

 

[AFC Savior]

dont listen to nerds who cant get pvssy from myspace cuz they dont have hot enough bodies.

please go look at some hot guy's page whos got shirtless pics, and just LOOK at the comments that hot girls leave him.........their comments are basically like "WOW you are so gorgeous" which means that all he has to do is say "hey whats your number? we'll chill sometime" - and its a done deal

absolutely post shirtless pics, it will get you hotties that wanna fcuk u

 

[The Deacon]

A shirtless myspace pic makes you look desperate. The only circumstance I would ever put a shirtless myspace picture on is if I was an actual model for a big-shot modeling company and the picture was professionally done by a photographer. No wait, I take that back. That would still make you look desperate.

Just go between these two extremes and wear a muscle shirt or something (if you have nice arms), and more importantly, stop thinking so much.

 

[Supremo]

It's kinda gay to pull the shirtless pic if you are just taking it of yourself in your bathroom.

But yeah just do it at a swim party or doing something active where you AREN'T posing just for the fact to have a shirtless pic (or at least, it doesn't look like that's what you're doing).

AFC Savior's right though. All the pics where my shirt was off got about five times the comments from other ones from chicks saying how "hot" or "sexy" I was.

 

[thirtyplus]

No no no no no no no no no NO.

The connection between a shirtless pic on myspace and pulling A$$ = NOT THERE.

If you are a cool confident alpha guy...you can put whatever you want on myspace and you will get A$$...IN REAL LIFE.

getting it off myspace, you might still suck at.

If you are a needy desperate guy with no game...I DON'T CARE HOW RIPPED YOU ARE...you will not be able to pull very well off myspace.

Game is what matters, NOT whether you are nekkid in your myspace pics are not.

You need to think about why you're asking for OTHER MEN'S advice on an internet forum about your myspace pics....not the pics themselves.

HTH.