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Sasha

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This is the way I see it.

I have been reading ALOT. I have been reading the bible, pimpology, forums, brisol liar, become a player, david d. stuff etc and finaly I have realized I should have stopped long before. The reason is simple. I cant practice the advanced stuff If I haven't got down the basic. And I havent.

So I go around reading about how to talk to chicks, how to dress, how to act etc etc but in the end I have forgotten the most imortent part. Once again, the basics! And the basic thing is approach! I just don't got it. Sure it helps to know how you need to act and how to be a man when you first are in a convo with a girl but that won't help me become dj.

I am stupid and I know it cuz I realized this first when I started reading Weapons of mass seduction. (For some reason I have allways jumped over this one) And after the first chapter, I put the book down and hit my self in the head for like 10 min!

There are some basic things in there. Everybody knows this. (Except for my self until now) You cant start leanring Gunwich method if you cant approac. You cant do jack if you can't approch.

So the weapons of mass seduction have this line of things to know for the basic part.

1. Eye contact
2. Talk to strangers
3. - Talk to (ugly) girls
- Talk to (hot) girl
4. Intresting convo
5. Kino
6. Making connestions
7. Learning to f_ck properly
8. Becomeing the life of the party

Beside nr 7 and nr 1 I realy don't have the other basics down. I can talk to strangers but I just don't. Meaning I have to work on it. First when it's second nature to me to talk to strangers just out of the blue then I can move on to talk to girls etc etc.

I know this is sh_t most of you know. I just didn't relized it before. I can look anybody straight in the eyes. Hot or not. I have decent smile. I smile, some smile back. Eye contacts are second nature for me now. Next I must make talking to strangers a second nature to me.

(I have no clue why I wrote this down.)
 

Dj Tiesto

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Hey Sasha.

I know exactly what u mean, because I'm at the same boat as you are. Reading advanced stuff like Gunwitch Method or how to do Kino properly will provide no use for you now.

Therefore, if I were u, I would just concentrate on "Get a Boost" posts from the bible, u can use them to do the basic things which are provided in "Weapons of Mass Seduction" for example (EC, talking to starngers).

There is no need to go so far; your life will be much easier if you just concentrate on the basic stuff, which for u right now is talking to strangers. I've learned that trying to jump levels and taking bigger steps only draws me back and I end up feeling depressed and feeling like the worst AFC. You gotta master step by step and consequently create reasonable goals for urself. For me, that is the only way to success.

Good Luck dude.
U can do it! :up:
 

zerocelcius

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But you two are great DJ's who talk to gils every day after your sets and have HB10's throwing them selfs at you.

I have seen it. Sasha I saw it when you played with Digweed in Kansas City, and Come on Tiesto You are number 1 DJ in the world!!!!!!
 
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