My thoughts on todays community

[ScottMustaine]

Reading through many posts of members I can say that many of them are plainly consumed by hatred towards women.

Failure because of failing with some female doesn't mean it's her fault for not being attracted to you , nor it's your fault. Simple as that.

Even if you are George Clooney or some other popular male, doesn't mean the girl would spread her legs. At least not the quality one.


Looking through the past posts of Pook era, community was a lot more positive. Now it's crowded with complaints how this world is not fair.

Boo-hoo, guess what, it's probably more unfair to a starving kid in Africa than you.


Society is changing, moral code is being shaped all the time, and thus you have two options:

1) Cry like a baby.

2) Shut up and live with it and IMPROVE yourself. NOT because of WOMEN, but because of YOU.


Women this , women that, did you for once in a while thought that there are morons everywhere ? You do know us men are more 'free' to cheat and **** around than women ? What makes you think there aren't idiots who can't put it with their own promise?

We had a case of a guy abusing his girlfriend few weeks ago, thank God nobody said it was her fault.



End of a rant.

 

[muscleman]

Pook posted a decade ago. A lot has changed. Texting didn't exist. Facebook didn't exist. The 'community' was much smaller. Flaking has gone up, for instance. It's no surprise, but considering that a lot of guys who 'hate women' are really just fresh out the matrix egg, it's totally expected. I went through the same stage of disliking the way women generally act ... and then I found ways around it so I can still get what I want, whether that be ONS or a relationship or whatever.

 

[pdx1138]

agreed.

Once your eyes are truly opened and you learn how they think and respond, it's actually kind of fun, since the behavior and reactions for the most part are highly predictable.

I came back here after a long time, a broken afc who just had his arse handed to him from a BPD. After doing a lot of reading I began to notice her behavior was highly predictable to a point it was laughable.

Like most things in life, you adapt or you're out on your can.

 

[The Gambler]

ScottyM gets a rep for this post. Many of us wonder why some of the guys who post here even stick around... I know these guys are trying to warn us of the impending doom of the male species, but come on... this is a site to help guys better THEMSELVES personally and maybe learn to communicate better with women (and men) in the process.

The Gambler

 

[betheman]

ScottyM gets a rep for this post. Many of us wonder why some of the guys who post here even stick around... I know these guys are trying to warn us of the impending doom of the male species, but come on... this is a site to help guys better THEMSELVES personally and maybe learn to communicate better with women (and men) in the process.

The Gambler

He doesnt get a rep from me, he sounds like a self righteous prick!
he is 18 ffs, he hasnt lived and yet here he is, in the very priviledged position of having this site at his fingertips at 18!!! imagine that? at 18 you have this goldust? and he comes here....to b!tch about guys who have seen and been through...sh!t!

 

[Solomon]

Reading through many posts of members I can say that many of them are plainly consumed by hatred towards women.

Failure because of failing with some female doesn't mean it's her fault for not being attracted to you , nor it's your fault. Simple as that.

Even if you are George Clooney or some other popular male, doesn't mean the girl would spread her legs. At least not the quality one.


Looking through the past posts of Pook era, community was a lot more positive. Now it's crowded with complaints how this world is not fair.

Boo-hoo, guess what, it's probably more unfair to a starving kid in Africa than you.


Society is changing, moral code is being shaped all the time, and thus you have two options:

1) Cry like a baby. espeically the MRM guys who are **** clutching phaggets!

2) Shut up and live with it and IMPROVE yourself. NOT because of WOMEN, but because of YOU.


Women this , women that, did you for once in a while thought that there are morons everywhere ? You do know us men are more 'free' to cheat and **** around than women ? What makes you think there aren't idiots who can't put it with their own promise?

We had a case of a guy abusing his girlfriend few weeks ago, thank God nobody said it was her fault.



End of a rant.

Fixed but OP is right and will be repped

Good post

 

[Scars]

Pook posted a decade ago. A lot has changed. Texting didn't exist. Facebook didn't exist. The 'community' was much smaller. Flaking has gone up, for instance. It's no surprise, but considering that a lot of guys who 'hate women' are really just fresh out the matrix egg, it's totally expected. I went through the same stage of disliking the way women generally act ... and then I found ways around it so I can still get what I want, whether that be ONS or a relationship or whatever.

Gotta agree with muscleman here. The days of Pook were long, long ago. The game has changed considerably. I'm not saying that you shouldn't be positive, quite the opposite, but guys fresh into the Matrix ARE going to be bitter and pissed off. It's one of the phases, and for most, it passes. I think some of the men have dwelled on it a little longer than they should, but we're all at different levels of development. I may KNOW a women is a scheming ho-bag but I would never tell that to her face, or anyone else, because I know better now. Law 38: "Think as you like but behave like others." I think this forum and the PUA community might be some mens only outlet. I don't think they go around hating women. You might see someone post a facebook post with some feminist garbage on it, and we laugh about it, then we move on. Rants happen, obviously you needed to rant too. We're all human. I agree we should stay optimistic, but be aware at all times. Know where you are, and what women are capable of. I think the constant reminder helps a lot of guys. If we didn't remind ourselves all the time we might all be married with kids and miserable, or divorced and scraping pennies just to live.

-Scars

 

[backbreaker]

iThe most frustrated that I have ever been in my life was when i was 20 years old.

With the business I had started it was about.. a few months before I turned 21, that things really, really started to take off. Company was hiring employees, moving into a new building, i was driving a lexus albeit used lol, eventually, I had went from walking around with holes in my shoes to having a nice business attire wardrobe that consisted of DKNY/Hugo Boss suits.. at 20 ****ing years old I was a ****ing boss and I knew it.


however, the opposite sex lol, had not yet came to this conclusion lol. Beucase of all the sacrifices I had to make to get where I got, from an outside perspective, I still had a ways to go. I was quite overweight. **** you eat 1 dollar pizzas and **** off the taco bell dollar menu for 2 years and see how your body holds up. i was pushing 200 and I am not a big dude. 5'8, in HS was 140 soak and wet. I didn't have game attire yet, hadn't got to that part yet. I still lived with my business partner, hadn't moved out yet.

and i would remember walking into say, subway to get something to eat, beucase eventually i started hitting the gym quite hard, but at 9pm and you've worked since 7, **** cooking.... and trying to look at the girl behidn the ****ing subway counter and she not pay me the time of day.. you know how pissed off **** like that used to make me? like i'd go grab something to eat and no one would even look at me and i would want to say look.. i'm better than every ****ing guy here. i mean i don't expect you to throw your numbers at my feet but **** give me a break. i'm a ****ing catch lol. give me a few months i will get in shape, i will get all this other **** that you broads oogle over but girl's i'm giving you HB 6's and **** an introductory rate. I mean i couldn't get 6's to ****ing give me the time of day.

and that **** pissed me off. with all i had just been threw? i knew i was a catch. **** my oneitis saw what was coming on the horizon and promtoy got in line lol. she was prudent enough to put in the time with me before i hit "DJ" mode beucase she saw what was about to happen.

anyway, i was pissed. and i think a lot of guys here are like that, like i was then. i knew i was a catch and girls didn't realize that and i wanted them to. lol like in little rock, every business office is leased by a management group called flake and kelly. 20 years old i'm on a first name basis with both, lol i'm on a first named basis with the guy whoose company owns this ****ing shopping center's land your chili's is built on, but yet the guy who is 21 and is in shape you are all over.

anyway, eventually, i did get in shape. and the funny thing is, when i started gaming women and women started talking to me, none of them woudl tell me "damn you are hot". oh you are so ambitious, you are so smart.. i wanted to say ***** where were you 5 months ago lol? I mean yes i'm all that, i agree but, that's not why you are here.

my entire point being, the quicker you can learn that it's just not fair, the better off you will be. it isn't.

 

[BeDJ]

^ No sh*t, would you approach Oprah if you didn't know who she was?

Most guys simply have to lose a few pounds to get over the attractiveness threshold. Being a fit with no game is better than being chubby with game.

 

[Down Low]

We had a case of a guy abusing his girlfriend few weeks ago, thank God nobody said it was her fault.

Breaking news! Police just arrested local high school student Scott Mustaine for abusing his girlfriend. "Thank God," she said to the arresting officer, "nobody said it was my fault."

Mustaine was booked at the downtown jail and remains in custody pending one hundred thousand dollars bond. Mustaine is being questioned about a string of rapes that occurred in the same area last year. Police are confident that they have found the suspect they've been looking for. According to police, "we had a case of a guy abusing women some weeks ago, and he fits the profile."

In a related story, serial killer Porto D. Mustaine's gravestone in Shady Rest Cemetery was reported defaced just hours after Scott Mustaine's arrest. A crew is on the way and will have a video report later in this broadcast.

 

[BeDJ]

In related news, internet diva "Pook" has come under heavy criticism for his blog Be A Man as a motive used my Moustaine. "Pook" was unavailable for comment as he was an imaginary god in Moustaine's alleged internet community, SoSuave.

 

[Trump]

Reading through many posts of members I can say that many of them are plainly consumed by hatred towards women.

Failure because of failing with some female doesn't mean it's her fault for not being attracted to you , nor it's your fault.

Then who's fault is it?

Come on bro, the worlds women aren't all lovey dovey creatures who are delicate flowers. They screw with your head and emotions, they take your soul, they make you crazy, they falsely accuse and you go to jail for 5 years, the kill for money, as my brothers wife did, and remarry their lover.

And their sense of entitlement has gone thru the roof. And then you wonder why we are angry? You can improve yourself all you want but you can't change the world. There are evil women out there who screw you up more than you can imagine, just be thankful you haven't met one yet.

 

[Packers2010]

^ No sh*t, would you approach Oprah if you didn't know who she was?

Most guys simply have to lose a few pounds to get over the attractiveness threshold. Being a fit with no game is better than being chubby with game.

this is me right now i think.. i have learnt enough game not to be chodey but not enough to over come my lack off physical attractiveness.


btw nice thread!

 

[JohnnyStorm]

Surely the reality is is that no one in this life has it automatically easy. There's always someone else out there ready to explain away your successes through hard work to, "Oh it's because your good looking" "Taller" "Have more hair" "Didn't have a ex-gf like mine" etc. etc. ad infinitum.

All of that is just bs. No one has it easy. Good looking women do not get their own way all the time or have an easy life because of it either.

Personally I think any kind of hating is a waste of time. Why get yourself worked up because a girl didn't text you back, **** happens, if you can't handle that in your life, then how are you going to deal with the things that really matter.

 

[ScottMustaine]

He doesnt get a rep from me, he sounds like a self righteous prick!
he is 18 ffs, he hasnt lived and yet here he is, in the very priviledged position of having this site at his fingertips at 18!!! imagine that? at 18 you have this goldust? and he comes here....to b!tch about guys who have seen and been through...sh!t!

Once again the same old story " He is privileged , he's 18 and when I was 18 I couldn't find this and that"

Come on man, life is just like that. I don't b1tch, mind you, I'm expressing my thoughts about guys here putting all the blame on women.

There's too many factors in every individual person to simply generalize to say that women are EVIL.

Because you know what ? Women in my familly during the first and second world war were going with my ancestor men in battle, ready to die for them.

When I heard stories in my familly what were women like, and capable of doing for their husbands, I snapped out.


Look a bit more, everyone has it's own likes and dislikes, and you just can't simply categorize people like you categorize files on your computer.

A girl who's easily an HB 8.5 , 17 year old is in a 4 year relationship with a guy who is by standards on sosuave, complete AFC.

On top of that, he is bloody ugly and easily a 5/10, and FAT.


But something works for him, some girls seem to dig bigger guys and that's it man.



I can agree with one thing, the society today is demoralizing, moral code is changing and people are acting more like robots playing mind games and trying to use everyone. This is for both GENDERS.



I'm off to bed now, I got high fever, just had to say this.

 

[betheman]

" He is privileged , he's 18 and when I was 18 I couldn't find this and that"

Come on man, life is just like that. I don't b1tch, mind you, I'm expressing my thoughts about guys here putting all the blame on women.but obviously when other guys 'express their thoughts' they are b1tching?

There's too many factors in every individual person to simply generalize to say that women are EVIL.

Because you know what ? Women in my familly during the first and second world war were going with my ancestor men in battle, ready to die for them.

When I heard stories in my familly what were women like, and capable of doing for their husbands, I snapped out.


Look a bit more, everyone has it's own likes and dislikes, and you just can't simply categorize people like you categorize files on your computer.

If you are going to quote, at least get the quote right and the source!
who has said women are evil? they have sh!tty behaviour and attitudes at times sure, however Ill let you experience this sh!tty behaviour for yourself in order for you to learn FIRST HAND rather than through the 'b1tching' or rather opinions of others!

Ive seen women change, their behaviour, attitudes, the women who were around when I was growing up, are quite different to today, that is what I have witnessed

 

[marmel75]

Too much trying to figure out what it means when a girl does this or that, not enough worrying about kino, escalation, sexual talk and fvcking...

Stop wasting time playing tiddlywinks with women and actively go after what you want. Too many guys afraid to escalate due to caring too much about the outcome or getting rejected.

Newsflash, if the girl is out with you she is attracted at some level. Its your job to turn that smoke into a fire...

Stop looking for what the women is or is it doing and wondering what her interest level is and handle your business like a man.

 

[VladPatton]

When one person says you're drunk you may be, you may not be...drunk.

When 100 people say you're drunk....buddy you're Ƒucking drunk!

Not all of these guys on SS are crazy to say women Ƒucked their lives up. Thing is, it's reality, and they do. Listen to the guys with experience, you're 18. A lot of us have 15+ years on you.

Take it for what it is, realize it's not always the guy's fault, and be objective to both sexes. BOTH men and women cheat. BOTH are insane.

Just make sure YOU'RE not in the end.

 

[ScottMustaine]

You guys are taking it way too personal, let me say something before I continue with rant.

I respect your will to share experience with other men among this board. This board helped me immensely. Since the times are changing constantly I thought to drop out my 2 cent of thoughts.

I got multiply ****ed up by girls. In elementary I was accused for beating girl, which was not true, but all of them shat around ( I wasn't in school when incident happened), and I got detention. But I somehow managed to save my arse.

Then I got cheated by my oneitis since 14th year. Yes. I worked my arse out to get out of 4 year old friend zone, to get cheated by her getting railed by two other guys. Did it hurt ? YES.

Then in last relationship, I got, once again lied about some sh1t to find out she's drunk as hell on some party. Broke relationship, it did hurt, move on.


I still can show you examples of girls who are faithful as hell to their boyfriends. The girl who sits in classroom with me is like that.

She doesn't use Facebook, doesn't go to parties (unless it's with boyfriend), doesn't drink, knows how to cook, a HB7 ( never puts make up).

She's in love with this guy for like... 8 years... Since bloody puberty. And he is one of those guys that get spitted on by everyone, called goofball, who doesn't dress properly, doesn't take shower for days nor washes hair, and puts no effort in his life. Only thing he likes is to skip classes to play basketball. And that's it.


I don't disapprove the fact their lives got fcked up, mine got to the point of suicide. Most likely because I let my emotions control me. It taught me a valuable lesson.



Now, if 5000 guys say 20 000 women fcked up their lives, does that mean that other 3 BILLION women are like that ? Hell no.


That **** who fcked up your life will soon enough get her life fcked up by some jerk, because most of WOMEN and MEN are COMPLETE SCUMBAGS.


Hope you guys got the point now.


Keep pushing, read for the signs and red flags, be positive, and adapt as much as you can.