Hey guys
Since im pritty new to the forum
I think i'd like to start by sharing and maybe getting some tips on my sticking point.
To put it frankly, im too F***ing nice to people.
Which isn't to say I let people walk all over, but I'm generally a nice guy. And this has resulted in my AFC life up till now.
Now that im going out with my "Live large and sarge" attitude, i find that nice guy tendency coming back to haunt me
So maybe i can get some input
After a Neg, i am lost
I feel bad! And as im thinking about how i insulted the girl, i kinda go quiet, and don't know how to continue the conversation!
I just cant seem to go anywhere after a neg without muttering some sort of apology (I always end up sayng something like, "Oh, i was just kidding, you have a beautiful smile! )
This generally happens when i'm doing a One set...in groups its easier, mainly because i can turn to one of the other people and continue conversing...
Any input would be grand
Cheers
-Post
Ps. I posted this on the MM forum two, sorry if anyones reading it for a second time.
Since im pritty new to the forum
I think i'd like to start by sharing and maybe getting some tips on my sticking point.
To put it frankly, im too F***ing nice to people.
Which isn't to say I let people walk all over, but I'm generally a nice guy. And this has resulted in my AFC life up till now.
Now that im going out with my "Live large and sarge" attitude, i find that nice guy tendency coming back to haunt me
So maybe i can get some input
After a Neg, i am lost
I feel bad! And as im thinking about how i insulted the girl, i kinda go quiet, and don't know how to continue the conversation!
I just cant seem to go anywhere after a neg without muttering some sort of apology (I always end up sayng something like, "Oh, i was just kidding, you have a beautiful smile! )
This generally happens when i'm doing a One set...in groups its easier, mainly because i can turn to one of the other people and continue conversing...
Any input would be grand
Cheers
-Post
Ps. I posted this on the MM forum two, sorry if anyones reading it for a second time.