My Situation

[PoppinDav]

So, a few weeks ago I was going after this one girl, and my homeboys already knew about it. Then my friend's girlfriend started asking about who i liked, so when she started guessing random people, one of them being her own friend, i lied and said yeah it was her because i didn't want people to know. Who would've thought that she planted a thought in my head and as time passed i started thinking about that friend she guessed. I started noticing how pretty she was and how she was perfect in the smallest ways. She's really outgoing and has a fantastic personality. The more i spent time with her, the more i noticed this. I am also a good friend to her and we've known each other for about 3 years. i've just never noticed her in a romantic way before. I think i'm starting to forget the original girl i was after since i don't know her as well. Should i take this chance to ask her out? And if i do, how can i transition from being just a good friend to something more? I'm gonna say my thanks in advance, so please help me out!

 

[S.Y.L]

Dont go after friends, it just reeks of pain and misery, and almost never works, unless you have serious game

 

[Analyzeit]

When i first saw this site, i used to have the idea that you really could help get yourself out of the friendzone you really could make her change. But you can't it's all about luck, If you suddenly change from a friend to something more your lucky or unlucky only one way to find out really.

My tip for getting out of the friendzone is make it damn obvious you don't want to be in the friendzone, without actually saying it.

Read all the advice on this website that tells you how not to be a nice guy, because being a nice guy is normally 99% of the time why you end up in the friendzone.

 

[Vogel]

If you value your friendship with her, just forget those romantic thoughts, if not... show her slowly that you wouldn't mind being more than a friend.
2 steps forward, and 1 back.