backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I make a reference to the novel Siddhartha because the book is alot like this website.. we are all on some sort of path of enlightenment, mostly having to do with women.
Bare with me becuase it's going to be somewhat difficult to put what I am trying to express into words.
As most of you... well not now, I don't come here alot anymore.. well, I bet on horses for a living. Make a great living doing it as well. That's besides the point. The point is, when I first started, I had some success (or else I would have never done it full time) and using my analyitical brain, I would try to take the reactions and make my betting conclusions according to them. Which worked to some extent. In other words...
Horse A won because had a good break from the post and had good position going into the backstretch. This is a trend alot of horses do when they win, therefore I will only bet horses that have (what I call) a Stalking racing style (sitting 2-3 lengths behind the leader).
or
Horse B Won because he moved up in class after loosing his last race by a nose. Therefore all horses loosing the last race by a nose going up in class deserve to be bet, assuming he has been well worked, etc.
And again this worked, until I came to the bigger, more broder conclusion which probably quadrupled how much i make, without anywhere near as much effort (analying mathmatical figures instead of horse races) and said...
The horse won because he was ready to race.
Seems simple enough but I will be damned. The few handicappers who actually see how i pick my horses are shellshocked at how little information I use. I just watch races. HOrses that aren't ready... just aren't ready. You can tell when a horse is going into a race he is ready to win.
Where am I going with all of this.
Well, I have a daily routine. I get up, workout, eat, read something that motivates me. I have a list of all of pooks post on my pc and I was reading over them about a week and a half ago while eating my breakfast and I was skimming though one of his old posts and something jumped out at me and slapped me in the face...
"Confidence is the broken link between dream and day".
At the time I didn't really understand it, but it just sounded like it made a hell of alot of sense. I copied it, put it in my signature here and put a copy of it as the back drop on my laptop.
Then I started to sit down and think.. why in the hell DOES it make so much sense?
All of these tips, all of this site, all started to come together. I started to realize why I was successful, why I was happy and why some people aren't. I started to realize why some good looking guys are gREAT with women while some are horrible. I started to realize why some guys can be LOSERS and get grade A Ass while some guys can have thieir **** together and not be anywhere near as successful.
Confidence is nothing but a measure to how close you are to living your dreams and women love a confident man.
This is why the fat man, well not obese, but bigger guy can get women why you and your six pack, well not you but you get the point, don't have the success that you would think all the time.
Take my life.. this is a normal day in my life. I wake up about 6ish. 6:15 I am working out to about 7. 7am to 8am i am doing sometype of cardio training. 8am to 9 I am reading. 9am to about 3 to 5, depending on what tracks are open (I only bet 3 or 4 days a week, monday though wednesday I am gathering information for my bets on the weekends.. usually just monday and tuesday i can get it all done and take a last look around to make sure I didn't miss anything.. maybe 30 mins or so wednesday morning, I try to take wednesdays off.) 5:30 to about 6:30 I usually work out again (I set a goal to be in a trialthon next year).. 6:30 on I am usually on a date, cooking or reading a book.
That day in my life, which is now my average day, is a day that 2 years ago, I literarly dreamed about having, even when I had my computer company.
Notice none of that really has to do with women (I leave some time in the evening open for activities.. not necesssarly women).; I don't workout for women, I workout because when I dream about myself, that's how I envision me, as a in shape, slim but musclar guy. I also workout becuase I want to be a triathlete. I play the violin and the piano not because it will help me score, but because I love music. I have picked up odd hobbies, one of which is deep sea fishing and snorkeling, because I am an animal nut. I love learning aobut new aninmals.
to put this in perspective.. when I was 21 and had my computer company, I had some success.. I had a GF, money in the bank and I had high interest from SOME women.. some decent looking chicks too. But as much as I hate to admit it, I never had the nerve to do anything about most of them. Why you might ask? I had a company yes, but the only reason I did it, and I really hate to admit it but I have to be honest with myself was to spite women for my AFCness.. in particular one girl.. basically to say "see you women, see what you missed out on, I am now successful" only to be somewhat miserable. Granted, it was fun, but it wasn't what I wanted to do. I was overweight.. not FAT FAT but big enough to wear I needed new clothes. Now the weight itself wasn't that big of a problem.. the fact the real me and the way I envisioned myself were worlds apart was. I grew up playing musical insterments and I had gotten away from it.. it was a pretty big part of my life growing up.
Here is the breakdown. The guy who is living his dreams is higher than the guy who is chasing his dreams (while the guy who has achieved his dreams should always be chasing something, set new goals, new desires, keep growing). The guy who is chasing his dreams is higher than the guy who has not activly chasing his dreams but has dreams. The guy who has dreams is higher than the guy who has no dreams.
The higher you are, the more confident you are. The more confident you are, the more you appeal to women.
This entire site can be rolled up into that post.
I have a friend who is overweight but sets goals for himself in his career. He is an advoid history buff and travels all over the country to see different civil war sites, buy antiques from different wars, all kinds of stuff. To be overweight, he gets a hell of a lot of women.. nice looking ones as well, on his tail.
I know what most women would call an attractive guy.. slinder (too slinder), strong jaw lines, etc. He is 21, lives with his parents, doesn't go to school, doesn't work, doesn't have a car, his parents are very very well off but won't let him smooch off of them so he can't drive their car and they wont' buy him one. He has the biggest porn collection I have ever seen.. I don't know what he wants to do with his life, and I don't think he does either. He gets interst because of his looks, but after a date, if it even gets that far, they run like the plauge. Because he doesn't live out his dreams, or at least try to, he tries to get women to confirm that they don't think he is the loser he really is, so he is clingy (alot of the problems guys here have as well), calls too much, overthinks everything.. get my point?
It's what that "loser" has over you, event hough you tried to "act DJ"on her.. DJ is more than a bunch of moves and techniques.. it's a way of live. It's living out dreams.
It's the reason why 10 percent of men get 90 percent of the pvssy
What ARE your dreams? Why AREN'T you living them? Why aren't you trying.
I met this guy and this girl yesterday. the guy was 25.. the girl was about 28. Just had a baby girl. About an 8.. pretty damn good looking girl. I was getting my car serviced at the local dealership and the guy kept test driving cars, trying to buy one for his wife. The guy ended up spending close to 900 a month on a car to please a woman who didn'[t even really want the damn car, she just wants a real man. He isn't realizing his dreams (partly because of her, she locked him up when he was 19) and he is trying to keep her happy... he is going out of town (to make extra money for her) for 6 months and slid me her number and told met o call her in a week. She (and her baby) were going gaga over me by the time I left. The difference between her husband and I were too apparant.. not a bad looking guy. Unsure of himself, he has no control over himself, his budget, his wife, etc. He is so scared of loosing her she mentioned that she might want a new car soon and he ended up plopping about 40 large on a new car that he will struggle to afford while she makes 300 dollars a week working at (literarly) an ice cream stand.
it's really this simple.. live your dreams. Dream... Then do everything possible to live it.
Bare with me becuase it's going to be somewhat difficult to put what I am trying to express into words.
As most of you... well not now, I don't come here alot anymore.. well, I bet on horses for a living. Make a great living doing it as well. That's besides the point. The point is, when I first started, I had some success (or else I would have never done it full time) and using my analyitical brain, I would try to take the reactions and make my betting conclusions according to them. Which worked to some extent. In other words...
Horse A won because had a good break from the post and had good position going into the backstretch. This is a trend alot of horses do when they win, therefore I will only bet horses that have (what I call) a Stalking racing style (sitting 2-3 lengths behind the leader).
or
Horse B Won because he moved up in class after loosing his last race by a nose. Therefore all horses loosing the last race by a nose going up in class deserve to be bet, assuming he has been well worked, etc.
And again this worked, until I came to the bigger, more broder conclusion which probably quadrupled how much i make, without anywhere near as much effort (analying mathmatical figures instead of horse races) and said...
The horse won because he was ready to race.
Seems simple enough but I will be damned. The few handicappers who actually see how i pick my horses are shellshocked at how little information I use. I just watch races. HOrses that aren't ready... just aren't ready. You can tell when a horse is going into a race he is ready to win.
Where am I going with all of this.
Well, I have a daily routine. I get up, workout, eat, read something that motivates me. I have a list of all of pooks post on my pc and I was reading over them about a week and a half ago while eating my breakfast and I was skimming though one of his old posts and something jumped out at me and slapped me in the face...
"Confidence is the broken link between dream and day".
At the time I didn't really understand it, but it just sounded like it made a hell of alot of sense. I copied it, put it in my signature here and put a copy of it as the back drop on my laptop.
Then I started to sit down and think.. why in the hell DOES it make so much sense?
All of these tips, all of this site, all started to come together. I started to realize why I was successful, why I was happy and why some people aren't. I started to realize why some good looking guys are gREAT with women while some are horrible. I started to realize why some guys can be LOSERS and get grade A Ass while some guys can have thieir **** together and not be anywhere near as successful.
Confidence is nothing but a measure to how close you are to living your dreams and women love a confident man.
This is why the fat man, well not obese, but bigger guy can get women why you and your six pack, well not you but you get the point, don't have the success that you would think all the time.
Take my life.. this is a normal day in my life. I wake up about 6ish. 6:15 I am working out to about 7. 7am to 8am i am doing sometype of cardio training. 8am to 9 I am reading. 9am to about 3 to 5, depending on what tracks are open (I only bet 3 or 4 days a week, monday though wednesday I am gathering information for my bets on the weekends.. usually just monday and tuesday i can get it all done and take a last look around to make sure I didn't miss anything.. maybe 30 mins or so wednesday morning, I try to take wednesdays off.) 5:30 to about 6:30 I usually work out again (I set a goal to be in a trialthon next year).. 6:30 on I am usually on a date, cooking or reading a book.
That day in my life, which is now my average day, is a day that 2 years ago, I literarly dreamed about having, even when I had my computer company.
Notice none of that really has to do with women (I leave some time in the evening open for activities.. not necesssarly women).; I don't workout for women, I workout because when I dream about myself, that's how I envision me, as a in shape, slim but musclar guy. I also workout becuase I want to be a triathlete. I play the violin and the piano not because it will help me score, but because I love music. I have picked up odd hobbies, one of which is deep sea fishing and snorkeling, because I am an animal nut. I love learning aobut new aninmals.
to put this in perspective.. when I was 21 and had my computer company, I had some success.. I had a GF, money in the bank and I had high interest from SOME women.. some decent looking chicks too. But as much as I hate to admit it, I never had the nerve to do anything about most of them. Why you might ask? I had a company yes, but the only reason I did it, and I really hate to admit it but I have to be honest with myself was to spite women for my AFCness.. in particular one girl.. basically to say "see you women, see what you missed out on, I am now successful" only to be somewhat miserable. Granted, it was fun, but it wasn't what I wanted to do. I was overweight.. not FAT FAT but big enough to wear I needed new clothes. Now the weight itself wasn't that big of a problem.. the fact the real me and the way I envisioned myself were worlds apart was. I grew up playing musical insterments and I had gotten away from it.. it was a pretty big part of my life growing up.
Here is the breakdown. The guy who is living his dreams is higher than the guy who is chasing his dreams (while the guy who has achieved his dreams should always be chasing something, set new goals, new desires, keep growing). The guy who is chasing his dreams is higher than the guy who has not activly chasing his dreams but has dreams. The guy who has dreams is higher than the guy who has no dreams.
The higher you are, the more confident you are. The more confident you are, the more you appeal to women.
This entire site can be rolled up into that post.
I have a friend who is overweight but sets goals for himself in his career. He is an advoid history buff and travels all over the country to see different civil war sites, buy antiques from different wars, all kinds of stuff. To be overweight, he gets a hell of a lot of women.. nice looking ones as well, on his tail.
I know what most women would call an attractive guy.. slinder (too slinder), strong jaw lines, etc. He is 21, lives with his parents, doesn't go to school, doesn't work, doesn't have a car, his parents are very very well off but won't let him smooch off of them so he can't drive their car and they wont' buy him one. He has the biggest porn collection I have ever seen.. I don't know what he wants to do with his life, and I don't think he does either. He gets interst because of his looks, but after a date, if it even gets that far, they run like the plauge. Because he doesn't live out his dreams, or at least try to, he tries to get women to confirm that they don't think he is the loser he really is, so he is clingy (alot of the problems guys here have as well), calls too much, overthinks everything.. get my point?
It's what that "loser" has over you, event hough you tried to "act DJ"on her.. DJ is more than a bunch of moves and techniques.. it's a way of live. It's living out dreams.
It's the reason why 10 percent of men get 90 percent of the pvssy
What ARE your dreams? Why AREN'T you living them? Why aren't you trying.
I met this guy and this girl yesterday. the guy was 25.. the girl was about 28. Just had a baby girl. About an 8.. pretty damn good looking girl. I was getting my car serviced at the local dealership and the guy kept test driving cars, trying to buy one for his wife. The guy ended up spending close to 900 a month on a car to please a woman who didn'[t even really want the damn car, she just wants a real man. He isn't realizing his dreams (partly because of her, she locked him up when he was 19) and he is trying to keep her happy... he is going out of town (to make extra money for her) for 6 months and slid me her number and told met o call her in a week. She (and her baby) were going gaga over me by the time I left. The difference between her husband and I were too apparant.. not a bad looking guy. Unsure of himself, he has no control over himself, his budget, his wife, etc. He is so scared of loosing her she mentioned that she might want a new car soon and he ended up plopping about 40 large on a new car that he will struggle to afford while she makes 300 dollars a week working at (literarly) an ice cream stand.
it's really this simple.. live your dreams. Dream... Then do everything possible to live it.