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My prediction for dating by 2028 and beyond the foreseeable future

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TLDR Summary....It is over for men lol. I wish I could predict a happy ending, but I simply cannot.

I might have already covered this topic before, but I wanted to give an update now that the election is over. It hasn’t even been a month yet, but I think I’ve seen enough to confidently make a prediction about the future of dating. Several factors are shaping the dating landscape, including a declining quality of life for the average American—stagnant wages, lower education levels, reduced disposable income, unstable employment, toxic work cultures in traditionally stable jobs, and rising crime rates. Honestly, I think we’re heading toward a dystopian future similar to what we see in developed Asian countries, but with a Western twist.

However, this does not apply to minorities in entrenched cultural like a black guy living in inner city Baltimore or Hispanic living in the valley.

1). Herbivore Men will now be the normal-

Your average man will be overweight, socially awkward, addicted to some substance, stuck in a dead-end job (or reliant on UBI if that becomes a thing), living with roommates at best, undereducated, mentally checked out, and clinging to some male demi-god father figure for guidance.

2). Femcels will now be a thing-

Femcels already exist, but they’ve mostly been limited to the stereotypical "crazy cat lady" type. However, this culture is now crossing over to include average and even attractive women. The era of the single, independent "boss babe" is well past its peak. Your typical dateable single woman will lead a lonely, unfulfilling life, receiving less attention from men and rejecting the corporate hustle and casual dating scene that Millennial and Gen X women once embraced. If you want a glimpse of what this future looks like, check out this video or the solo camping vlogs that many Asian women are posting on YouTube. Invest in Pet stock lol.



3). People will have less sex, and Hedonistic activities will be limited to the lower class, certain communities, and Rich People- As many men hated feminism and the boss babe caricatures, this allowed all men to have access to casual sex at ease. With this in decline, you will see less casual sex in the dating environment which will make the game less fun.

4). Social Circles and Service jobs will be the only avenues to meeting women-

If you don’t have a healthy social circle, your best bet is to become a bartender, waiter, or take any job that constantly puts you in social situations with women. Otherwise, you’re completely cooked, lol.

5). Online Dating & Cold Approaching will be in the History Books-

Online dating will basically turn into Chatroulette for women—chaotic, full of dvck pics, and unreliable and just completely unusable for men—and may even cease to exist, except for niche apps like Seeking. Cold approaching will become extinct as women become less receptive to random interactions due to rising crime rates, social fatigue, and declining self-esteem. If you’re not already part of a woman’s social circle or community, your chances of interacting with her are practically zero.

6). Chads will convert to Tradcons, resulting in the official end of the Fvck Boy era-

Gen Z has a lower tolerance for f***boys and "bad boys" compared to Millennials and younger Gen X. This is largely because they’re poorer on average, and every guy their age is trying to imitate that persona. In a world of rising crime, stagnant wages, and skyrocketing living costs, traditional "bad boys" won’t thrive the way they once did. Instead, the new "Chad" will be a Herculean, ultra-disciplined, Alpha TradCon-type figure—one who embodies strength, stability, and traditional masculinity....Of course looks will still be the main factor.


7). BOLD PREDICTON: White men will become the most active in interracial dating-

White men are going to call it quits with white women and start gravitating toward non-white women in large numbers. This shift will make things harder for Hispanic, Asian, and rogue Black men, as they’ll now be competing with white men for their own women. Meanwhile, white and assimilated women will become less open to dating in general. The only exceptions will be minority men who are deeply rooted in strong cultural or social circles where language, zip codes and traditions create a significant barrier to outside competition.


8). Men suicides, depression and violent crimes will begin to be a major concern-

Unfortunately, it is easier today then it will be tomorrow. If you think there's going to be a happy ending for men in the future, then you have not been paying attention.


In this new environment, men will have two choices:
  1. Gamble the second half of their lives by diving into hedonistic communities—becoming a bartender, server, party boy, etc.
  2. Embrace temporary monogamy while leveling up until they reach a position where attracting high-SMV women requires minimal effort.
 
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Let me tell you something. You like sometimes to poison this forum with your black pill bull$hit.

Let's say everything is true, you might think you are safe, warm and cozy with your girlfriend. But don't be fooled my friend, you might think you won big time with your girl like you've already wrote in the past, you might think you have a unicorn, but we all know there are no unicorns.

Reading this post and seeing how much invested you are in things like these, just reinforces that you don't have abundance, whether you think that's the case or not, therefore, will cave to every desire that your girl wants for fear of being put in the situation you are describing in this post, and we all know that's the beginning of the end. Death by a thousand concessions. I remember you saying your girl demanding,

1. A lease agreement to live with her
2. A proposal

And again, we all knew you didn't want any of those things. Did you cave? Cause if you did, she knows you don't have the balls to leave her. So be very careful, you might be positing your mind as well.

In this new environment, men will have two choices:
  1. Gamble the second half of their lives by diving into hedonistic communities—becoming a bartender, server, party boy, etc.
  2. Embrace temporary monogamy while leveling up until they reach a position where attracting high-SMV women requires minimal effort.
3. Develop yourself into the best version you can be, enjoy the only life we have, make a lot of money doing what you love, be happy with yourself and don't have women or dating constantly in your mind like this guy.
 

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Let me tell you something. You like sometimes to poison this forum with your black pill bull$hit.

Let's say everything is true, you might think you are safe, warm and cozy with your girlfriend. But don't be fooled my friend, you might think you won big time with your girl like you've already wrote in the past, you might think you have a unicorn, but we all know there are no unicorns.

Reading this post and seeing how much invested you are in things like these, just reinforces that you don't have abundance, whether you think that's the case or not, therefore, will cave to every desire that your girl wants for fear of being put in the situation you are describing in this post, and we all know that's the beginning of the end. Death by a thousand concessions. I remember you saying your girl demanding,

1. A lease agreement to live with her
2. A proposal

And again, we all knew you didn't want any of those things. Did you cave? Cause if you did, she knows you don't have the balls to leave her. So be very careful, you might be positing your mind as well.


3. Develop yourself into the best version you can be, enjoy the only life we have, make a lot of money doing what you love, be happy with yourself and don't have women or dating constantly in your mind like this guy.
I have no reason to leave because I have better things to focus on rather than chase a number account and go on pointless dates. Ever since I moved in, I have doubled my salary and on the cusp of launching my own startup company. So yes, I prefer my life now over having one-night stands, partying, and being a doom and gloom red piller. If a role model to you is some red pill guy living in a pointless life of sex with toxic women with nothing to show for then go follow that guy. However, If my girl were to break up with me right now, I would just replace her in a month. Would it suck....Yes, but I am over 6ft tall, make well over 6 figures, live in a top 5 metro US city, and get regularly approached by women already, so I will be fine. If this post offends you then just maybeeeee this is just the warning you need to hear before you end up a herbivore male in a dystopian dating environment.
 
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and go on pointless dates.
I would just replace her in a month.
I am over 6ft tall, make well over 6 figures, live in a top 5 metro US city, and get regularly approached by women already
Why would it take so long? A month? A guy who has all those qualities? I wish you luck man, you'll need it.

dystopian dating environment.
See, that's how I know you have no abundance.

You either experienced it yourself or read it somewhere, not good my friend.
 

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Why would it take so long? A month? A guy who has all those qualities? I wish you luck man, you'll need it.
smh

See, that's how I know you have no abundance.

You either experienced it yourself or read it somewhere, not good my friend.
Or, it's called "I'm not in my twenties anymore and have developed more mature priorities." You are 35 years old but sound like a high school kid from a "tightly knit neighborhood. I have never heard of anyone of valuable status use the term abundance lmao.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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1). Herbivore Men will now be the normal-

Your average man will be overweight, socially awkward, addicted to some substance, stuck in a dead-end job (or reliant on UBI if that becomes a thing), living with roommates at best, undereducated, mentally checked out, and clinging to some male demi-god father figure for guidance.
This has already been happening but is likely to increase by 2028.

2). Femcels will now be a thing-

Femcels already exist, but they’ve mostly been limited to the stereotypical "crazy cat lady" type. However, this culture is now crossing over to include average and even attractive women. The era of the single, independent "boss babe" is well past its peak. Your typical dateable single woman will lead a lonely, unfulfilling life, receiving less attention from men and rejecting the corporate hustle and casual dating scene that Millennial and Gen X women once embraced. If you want a glimpse of what this future looks like, check out this video or the solo camping vlogs that many Asian women are posting on YouTube. Invest in Pet stock lol.


Femcel is really the wrong term for this. Very few females under menopause age lack sex. What women tend to lack is committed sex.

Chateau Heartiste had a term for these women. Insols - involuntary solitude.

The female insol and the male incel are roughly analogous. However, the female insol is rarely a social outcast and usually has acceptable social skills. She has some female friends and usually fits in somewhat well in social situations. This doesn't happen with male incels. The female insol is able to get sex if she's under menopause age.

3). People will have less sex, and Hedonistic activities will be limited to the lower class, certain communities, and Rich People- As many men hated feminism and the boss babe caricatures, this allowed all men to have access to casual sex at ease. With this in decline, you will see less casual sex in the dating environment which will make the game less fun.
Gen Z is already having less sex. Gen Y/Millennials have not had a great record on sex either. The two most recent generations have struggled in getting sex.
 

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1). Herbivore Men will now be the normal-

Your average man will be overweight, socially awkward, addicted to some substance, stuck in a dead-end job (or reliant on UBI if that becomes a thing), living with roommates at best, undereducated, mentally checked out, and clinging to some male demi-god father figure for guidance.

2). Femcels will now be a thing-

Femcels already exist, but they’ve mostly been limited to the stereotypical "crazy cat lady" type. However, this culture is now crossing over to include average and even attractive women. The era of the single, independent "boss babe" is well past its peak. Your typical dateable single woman will lead a lonely, unfulfilling life, receiving less attention from men and rejecting the corporate hustle and casual dating scene that Millennial and Gen X women once embraced. If you want a glimpse of what this future looks like, check out this video or the solo camping vlogs that many Asian women are posting on YouTube. Invest in Pet stock lol.
Number 1 is already happening now with 60% of men 18-35(Prime Age) who are single. Make no mistake a reckoning is coming, these men are not going to sit back and live lives of not having any financial options for their future or getting laid/wives/partners without a fight. The reason Trump won the election is that a lot of men are not living the lives they were promised at a younger age(Hence Trump got a lot of Gen-Z white men, Hispanics and a record black men to vote for him). Men who don't see any hope for their future or live unpurposeful lives are some of the most desperate and dangerous men. For those who want to Know how Hitler got into Power in Germany during the 20s-30s just study his life.

2. Femcels is a myth IMO. If a woman is a Femcel IMO it's because

1. She is shooting for men above her league but can't get them due to being socially awkward, mentally ill, or just plain unattractive
I have seen ugly insufferable women in relationships, so to say attractive women are femcels is a joke. I have seen a "5" at best women go on 30 dinner dates in 30 days just "to see if She can do it". How often do you see a thread being made on this forum about a "BPD" or batshyt crazy woman putting a guy through the ringer just because she is "Hot"? which in itself is subjective because having met some members IRL what they find "HOT" I find "MID" and vice versa

5). Online Dating & Cold Approaching will be in the History Books-

Online dating will basically turn into Chatroulette for women—chaotic, full of dvck pics, and unreliable and just completely unusable for men—and may even cease to exist, except for niche apps like Seeking. Cold approaching will become extinct as women become less receptive to random interactions due to rising crime rates, social fatigue, and declining self-esteem. If you’re not already part of a woman’s social circle or community, your chances of interacting with her are practically zero.

6). Chads will convert to Tradcons, resulting in the official end of the Fvck Boy era-

Gen Z has a lower tolerance for f***boys and "bad boys" compared to Millennials and younger Gen X. This is largely because they’re poorer on average, and every guy their age is trying to imitate that persona. In a world of rising crime, stagnant wages, and skyrocketing living costs, traditional "bad boys" won’t thrive the way they once did. Instead, the new "Chad" will be a Herculean, ultra-disciplined, Alpha TradCon-type figure—one who embodies strength, stability, and traditional masculinity....Of course looks will still be the main factor.
5. Online dating will be something new, Think VR (virtual reality) dating In a new way of online dating that we haven't thought of yet, but the tech is coming. OLD is not going away it's just going to evolve into something far more shallower

6. I disagree that Gen-Z has a lower tolerance for "Bad Boys" if you are "That guy" or "HIM" you will always pull women. Gen-Z has a lack of tolerance for mediocrity. There is nothing wrong with that the problem is Gen-Z is to lazy to realize that not everyone can be a streamer ala kai cenat or Adin Ross or be Instagram famous. 99% of people are going to have to put the work in

7). BOLD PREDICTON: White men will become the most active in interracial dating-
White men are going to call it quits with white women and start gravitating toward non-white women in large numbers. This shift will make things harder for Hispanic, Asian, and rogue Black men, as they’ll now be competing with white men for their own women. Meanwhile, white and assimilated women will become less open to dating in general. The only exceptions will be minority men who are deeply rooted in strong cultural or social circles where language, zip codes and traditions create a significant barrier to outside competition.
This is true for undesirable men, You have already seen in the last 4 years the explosion of "Passport bros". Top Tier white women aka "The bougie white women" as @SW15 calls them. Will continue to go after handsome, affluent men.(regardless of race) However, the nerdy ugly guy who could get a midtier or lower upper tier white chick back in the 1950s-1990s(Think Rollo T) due to a stable career will have to bring more money, or a skillset to the table in the near future (i.e. farmers, AIniche worker etc). Hyperinflation and the cost of living within the next 5 years is going to be through the roof. Do not be shocked if women particularly white women adjust their mating strategy for more of a provider type. Also it's estimated that 41% of companies are planning to reduce their workforce by 2030 due to AI.

The "mythically magically" 1950s that Redpillers fantasize about will not come back. If you are not utilizing the time now to the next 5 years to learn how to take advantage of AI. Getting laid or a girlfriend will be the least of your worries regardless of what race you are

Men who are masculine will continue to win in the future if not moreso
Men who are whiners, complainers, blackpillers will be stuck in the VR world with a bottle of lotion
 

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For fuhk sakes that sounds depressing.

Men and women have been breeding for millions of years now. I'm quite sure unless Elon blows up the universe when his next rocket explodes that not much will change.

We have gone thru all sorts of periods. Everything comes full circle.

It will all be ok. The only thing certain is the best man always wins. Try to be one of those.
 

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I think there will be a segment of the population who will be hyper-competitive, who the future belongs to. The gap between the haves and have nots gets wider; that will cause serious problems legally and politically.

Life extension will be available to some people, that will change things in a big way. The chemical and biological sciences have been making strides while physics has been stagnate for decades.

Civilization will split into a new dark ages and a new renaissance. Those who can use their faculties effectively will own the future, those who lack self-efficacy will become increasingly superstitious and will demand institutions take care of them.

The people who 'get it' will be want things as they are, and those who are ineffective will either be pacified with technology or will be committing crimes.
 

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I bless any event or situation that will create a big enough mass of angry frustrated men that will ask themselves if following the rules, respecting the status quo and doing what they are told, is the best option they have.

We need a reset, there is so much potential overall as long as we accept to make out hands dirty.

Most of what is wrong in todays is society is the result of the average adult western male trying to avoid conflict and fit in.
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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