universitycharmer
Don Juan
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- Sep 24, 2011
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This is my first post on an online pickup forum but far from my introduction
into the art of pickup. I've always have been the type to find solutions to my
problems rather than have them bother me and 4 years ago i discovered SoSuave after going through puberty than through a few years of my teenage years yearning to become the man women want to be with and that guys want to be friends with. I can tell you that this site may have changed my life, when i discovered this site i was fat, careless about my appearance and very unpopular, this site has started my transformation. It helped inspire me to get in shape, to pay attention to my outfit and most importantly, become a people person. This site has also kept me entertained for hours as I have studied the art of Pickup for 4 years. Right now, I am in my first year of university, and one of the reasons i joined the forum was to complete my transformation into a "Ladies Man". I am also doing this to help me meet people, and most importantly, try to inspire some of the people that were in my previous position, to do what they have always wanted to, and start their own transformation into whatever they want to be to when it comes to woman whether it be a lover, a good one night stand or a charming serial dater. I want all guys on this forum, no matter the level of experience in life or in pickup, that they can control who they are and exactly what they are going to be. I also want to pass on my rules for getting women, and not just an average looking girl, but the smoking hot, really fun, babe that we all want to be with. These are in no particular order, but all must be internalized.
#1.) Confidence - Confidence is the key to everything in life, happiness,
success, meeting people etc. Notice i said confidence, not ****iness.
#2.) Become more social - You always have to focus on meeting people no matter where you are, and i said PEOPLE, not WOMEN, so don't be afraid to chat up the guys too, almost all guys have female friends, and from these friends there is sure to be a few hot ones. Not only this, but if you start talking to people at the mall, in class, at the gym, meeting people is going to become easier. Not only will you eventually meet women but you're going to meet some sick guys that you'll want to be friends with and trust me, no one can have too many friends. And guys trust me on this one, its ten times harder to find a bro that you love to hang out with than a woman you love to hang out with so don't make that excuse.
#3.) Always be respectful, no matter where you are.
#4.) Smile - Smiling is of monumental importance. When looking around a room at a group of people, what do you notice? Well, some people look frustrated, some keep to themselves but some of the people will be smiling, and these are the people that everyone wants to be around and pays attention too and in this game of love we are playing, we want attention, positive attention though i will specify. Smiling is one way to gain positive attention.
#5.) Befriend girls - I know this one seems kind of "elementary" but its absolutely crucial. By become friends with women, not only will you expand your social circle and meet some awesome people, but it will help you learn how women think in different situations. My best friend is female and she has taught me so much about the opposite sex but that is just in addition to her being an amazing friend. Anyhow this will help you so much, and if this female friends happens to be hot and other females notice, they may think you are with her which raises your value in their eyes, even though you two are actually only friends.
#6.) Body Language - Women can judge a man on whether she wants to date him or not in the first few minutes (if that long) that he walks in a room by the way he carries himself. If a man looks relaxed with his shoulders back while smiling that is automatically make you more attractive than the next guy that walks in that is staring at the floor all hunched over with a frown on his face. What is important to remember is that you cannot be walking perfectly straight, you aren't one of Hitler's followers, so feel free to feel RELAXED and not to look tense as you enter a bar, it will skyrocket your success rate.
#7.) Build up your bros, do not cut them down - One thing that seems to happen a lot in our egotistical society is guys putting down there friends to make them feel better about themselves. Seriously, why does that make us feel better about ourselves? It's so ridiculous, to become a true alpha male you need to build your friends up, to show them their own value then try to create value within yourself. But don't become the type of person that compliments everybody non-stop, that only makes you seem like you are just trying to be too nice, everybody hates people who seek attention like that, it is so fake. Also, if you happen to be chatting to some guys at the bar, don't be afraid to toss out a compliment like "Man, that is a sick shirt! Where did you get it?". That type of compliment builds up your social value quickly which is really important in pickup. The popular guy is the more attractive guy.
#8.) Never get too interested - Now i am not saying it is bad to fall in love, but please for your sake let this build over a matter of a couple years rather than being the clingy guy that tells her you love her after 10 dates. If you are the type of guy that becomes obsessed with a woman after a few dates focus on keeping your interest level lower. By this I mean focus on her flaws as well as what makes her attractive rather than just how "she is absolutely perfect for you and that you are going to have 5 kids".
#9.) Qualify her - This ties into the last point in that you need to make sure
she is the right girl for you rather than being the right guy for her. you NEED to be the prize, the goal of your interactions with her should be her trying to make herself as attractive as possible to you.
#10.) Focus on having fun - Always focus on having fun when you're hanging out with your friends and when you are with women. Having fun is so important for a woman when she is with a guy, it is what will set you apart from all the other guys that try to pick her up. Not only does it demonstrate value, but you simply become a happier person.
Feel free to let me know if you agree with my points or not. I would love to get some feedback so i can learn and so other guys can see your points of view to learn as well
- UniversityCharmer
into the art of pickup. I've always have been the type to find solutions to my
problems rather than have them bother me and 4 years ago i discovered SoSuave after going through puberty than through a few years of my teenage years yearning to become the man women want to be with and that guys want to be friends with. I can tell you that this site may have changed my life, when i discovered this site i was fat, careless about my appearance and very unpopular, this site has started my transformation. It helped inspire me to get in shape, to pay attention to my outfit and most importantly, become a people person. This site has also kept me entertained for hours as I have studied the art of Pickup for 4 years. Right now, I am in my first year of university, and one of the reasons i joined the forum was to complete my transformation into a "Ladies Man". I am also doing this to help me meet people, and most importantly, try to inspire some of the people that were in my previous position, to do what they have always wanted to, and start their own transformation into whatever they want to be to when it comes to woman whether it be a lover, a good one night stand or a charming serial dater. I want all guys on this forum, no matter the level of experience in life or in pickup, that they can control who they are and exactly what they are going to be. I also want to pass on my rules for getting women, and not just an average looking girl, but the smoking hot, really fun, babe that we all want to be with. These are in no particular order, but all must be internalized.
#1.) Confidence - Confidence is the key to everything in life, happiness,
success, meeting people etc. Notice i said confidence, not ****iness.
#2.) Become more social - You always have to focus on meeting people no matter where you are, and i said PEOPLE, not WOMEN, so don't be afraid to chat up the guys too, almost all guys have female friends, and from these friends there is sure to be a few hot ones. Not only this, but if you start talking to people at the mall, in class, at the gym, meeting people is going to become easier. Not only will you eventually meet women but you're going to meet some sick guys that you'll want to be friends with and trust me, no one can have too many friends. And guys trust me on this one, its ten times harder to find a bro that you love to hang out with than a woman you love to hang out with so don't make that excuse.
#3.) Always be respectful, no matter where you are.
#4.) Smile - Smiling is of monumental importance. When looking around a room at a group of people, what do you notice? Well, some people look frustrated, some keep to themselves but some of the people will be smiling, and these are the people that everyone wants to be around and pays attention too and in this game of love we are playing, we want attention, positive attention though i will specify. Smiling is one way to gain positive attention.
#5.) Befriend girls - I know this one seems kind of "elementary" but its absolutely crucial. By become friends with women, not only will you expand your social circle and meet some awesome people, but it will help you learn how women think in different situations. My best friend is female and she has taught me so much about the opposite sex but that is just in addition to her being an amazing friend. Anyhow this will help you so much, and if this female friends happens to be hot and other females notice, they may think you are with her which raises your value in their eyes, even though you two are actually only friends.
#6.) Body Language - Women can judge a man on whether she wants to date him or not in the first few minutes (if that long) that he walks in a room by the way he carries himself. If a man looks relaxed with his shoulders back while smiling that is automatically make you more attractive than the next guy that walks in that is staring at the floor all hunched over with a frown on his face. What is important to remember is that you cannot be walking perfectly straight, you aren't one of Hitler's followers, so feel free to feel RELAXED and not to look tense as you enter a bar, it will skyrocket your success rate.
#7.) Build up your bros, do not cut them down - One thing that seems to happen a lot in our egotistical society is guys putting down there friends to make them feel better about themselves. Seriously, why does that make us feel better about ourselves? It's so ridiculous, to become a true alpha male you need to build your friends up, to show them their own value then try to create value within yourself. But don't become the type of person that compliments everybody non-stop, that only makes you seem like you are just trying to be too nice, everybody hates people who seek attention like that, it is so fake. Also, if you happen to be chatting to some guys at the bar, don't be afraid to toss out a compliment like "Man, that is a sick shirt! Where did you get it?". That type of compliment builds up your social value quickly which is really important in pickup. The popular guy is the more attractive guy.
#8.) Never get too interested - Now i am not saying it is bad to fall in love, but please for your sake let this build over a matter of a couple years rather than being the clingy guy that tells her you love her after 10 dates. If you are the type of guy that becomes obsessed with a woman after a few dates focus on keeping your interest level lower. By this I mean focus on her flaws as well as what makes her attractive rather than just how "she is absolutely perfect for you and that you are going to have 5 kids".
#9.) Qualify her - This ties into the last point in that you need to make sure
she is the right girl for you rather than being the right guy for her. you NEED to be the prize, the goal of your interactions with her should be her trying to make herself as attractive as possible to you.
#10.) Focus on having fun - Always focus on having fun when you're hanging out with your friends and when you are with women. Having fun is so important for a woman when she is with a guy, it is what will set you apart from all the other guys that try to pick her up. Not only does it demonstrate value, but you simply become a happier person.
Feel free to let me know if you agree with my points or not. I would love to get some feedback so i can learn and so other guys can see your points of view to learn as well
- UniversityCharmer
