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Master Don Juan
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So we talked much about muscles and how being bigger than others may help, so here my experience.
Will compare this last summer with summer 2013 since summer 2014 I was somewhere in the middle and had a gf so didnt hunt much.
During summer 2013 I was in good shape but nothing special, when dressed with normal clothes nobody would have say that I was working out, I was hard enough but surely didnt have muscle fullness, an average guy with some tone lets say.
This last summer I became quite different after the previous 6 months of hard training, it is obvious wearing a t-shirt that I lift, even with a sweater I had both guys and girls grabbing my arms to feel them, back and arms grew considerably.
Amazing how just approx 10kgs (22 pounds), 90% of which are muscle can change the frame of a man.
Height 180cm (5'11) moving from 74kg (163) to 84 (185) approx, also keep in mind Im using pump supplements now so the days I train I look much fuller for the whole night.
Now lets talk about the results which Im sure will surprise most of you.
So in terms of cold approches I had a much higher success ratio when I was skinny, not sure why, either cause I look more intimidating or they take for granted that a guy that lifts is more arrogant and superficial, which actually is true since I changed also in taste and priorities.
On the opposite side, the girls which I already knew shown a much high interest in the bigger version of myself, girls with which I was just flirting came and rubbed their asses on my croach giving me green light to escalate, girls that needed few drinks to get intimate where then taking initiative by themselves.
Girls introduced to me from friends were much more prone to show interest and being talkactive, talking about sex topics came faster and from their side.
So if it wasnt for other factors I would say that muscles surely made me more attractive but at the same time gave girls the idea that Im somehow dangerous or arrogant or simply superficial or not interested in anything more than sex thus complicating my attempts.
Im also considering other factors like different clothes I wear and a different body language, a stronger body makes you subconsciously more confident but at the same time less concerned about being accepted.
Could be also the case that I was two years older or the skinny version looked younger.
The group of girls I mostly dealt with were aged 18-25 with few late 20s.
When it comes of guys I get much more credit in the bigger version, no jokes or disrespect but acknowledge of the fact that I play in the strong guys team altought in the lower league, that alone was a good satisfaction worth the effort in the gym also because women notice how mean interact with each other and buy the hierarchy.
Will compare this last summer with summer 2013 since summer 2014 I was somewhere in the middle and had a gf so didnt hunt much.
During summer 2013 I was in good shape but nothing special, when dressed with normal clothes nobody would have say that I was working out, I was hard enough but surely didnt have muscle fullness, an average guy with some tone lets say.
This last summer I became quite different after the previous 6 months of hard training, it is obvious wearing a t-shirt that I lift, even with a sweater I had both guys and girls grabbing my arms to feel them, back and arms grew considerably.
Amazing how just approx 10kgs (22 pounds), 90% of which are muscle can change the frame of a man.
Height 180cm (5'11) moving from 74kg (163) to 84 (185) approx, also keep in mind Im using pump supplements now so the days I train I look much fuller for the whole night.
Now lets talk about the results which Im sure will surprise most of you.
So in terms of cold approches I had a much higher success ratio when I was skinny, not sure why, either cause I look more intimidating or they take for granted that a guy that lifts is more arrogant and superficial, which actually is true since I changed also in taste and priorities.
On the opposite side, the girls which I already knew shown a much high interest in the bigger version of myself, girls with which I was just flirting came and rubbed their asses on my croach giving me green light to escalate, girls that needed few drinks to get intimate where then taking initiative by themselves.
Girls introduced to me from friends were much more prone to show interest and being talkactive, talking about sex topics came faster and from their side.
So if it wasnt for other factors I would say that muscles surely made me more attractive but at the same time gave girls the idea that Im somehow dangerous or arrogant or simply superficial or not interested in anything more than sex thus complicating my attempts.
Im also considering other factors like different clothes I wear and a different body language, a stronger body makes you subconsciously more confident but at the same time less concerned about being accepted.
Could be also the case that I was two years older or the skinny version looked younger.
The group of girls I mostly dealt with were aged 18-25 with few late 20s.
When it comes of guys I get much more credit in the bigger version, no jokes or disrespect but acknowledge of the fact that I play in the strong guys team altought in the lower league, that alone was a good satisfaction worth the effort in the gym also because women notice how mean interact with each other and buy the hierarchy.
