My no masturbation - get laid journal

[jookins]

So basically I haven't been laid in over a year. I'm going to quit masturbating and get laid in the next 3 months. I'm on day 6 of no masturbation right now and thought I should start a journal to keep it up.

The reason that I decided on this was because I thought that I just couldn't get any action because of who I am or some stupid ****. But last Saturday(about 2 weeks ago) I was at a party, drinking, and was going all out socially. There were about 60-70 people there and I only knew a few of them. I made my rounds around the place talking to everyone about anything that I wanted to. I was on a social high, I could approach any girl. I had girls just hugging me, talking to me, basically begging to get my attention, and the guys were looking at me like i'm a star, and all respected me. I kissed one girl and grinded on her. The night came to an end, and the next day I was back to my old self, wondering why I had no fear the night before. One reason of course was the alcohol, but another was I hadn't masturbated in a couple days and actually had the desire to go meet girls and was in a sexual state. The reason I haven't gotten any in a while isn't because I have no personality, but because when I get a sex drive I take care of it the second I get home and have no desire to meet girls after that ! So anyways..

Day 6: I'm really damn horny and want to go out and meet more girls, but its only 1:40 p.m. so they're all at work or school right now anyways. Gonna wait about 2 hours and head up to the mall and bookstore.

 

[B4IFURU18?]

What's up with all these posts about guys becoming less horny after frequent masturbation? WTF is wrong with you?

I jerk my junk daily and want to bang every girl I see. Maybe I'm not normal or something...

Good luck on your quest...

 

[jookins]

Or maybe i'm not. LOL

 

[B4IFURU18?]

By all means do what you want to do.

But, I find it very weird that one of the most popular topics for discussion lately are these threads regarding masturbation and how it leads to a less active sex life.

It certainly doesn't for me.

Masturbating less isn't a ticket to more sex. Abstaining from it won't get you laid. Sorry.

Talking to more women, and escalating the physical contact will get you laid.

Good luck.

 

[Crazy Asian]

i tried to stop masturbating a couple times, never lasted more than a day though

 

[kingwilliam]

I've jerked off twice in the last 30 seconds and I am about to go to this girls house and dump some kids on her face, too.....

Don't deprive yourself with weird abnormal theories.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I've tried that route. Although I am unsuccessful having an absolute abstinenence from masturbation, I have managed to seriously take down the amount of times I do it substantially to the amount that I can count how many times I may do it within a month, and it's usually averages to a few times to several. With a high or low sex drive, it's all the same result with me, nadda.

I have been quite successful, however, at banning porn from my life. No noticable impact.

 

[OregonDuckJuan]

I think masturbation can be used to your advantage. How, you may ask:

You said that it makes you less horny, or that you lose desire. Good, go with that.

Let's say you are stressing about a girl, or really are getting impatient with calling a girl back. Masturbate. You're issues with the girl will die down with your sex drive. Or I have been in a situation where I want to call a girl to mess around with, but I don't like her and am trying to cut off contact. I may have to service myself and then the desire to call her goes away, and I don't have to deal with the other issues that comes with bringing a girl over for sex.

Secondly, it can provided stamina in the sack. Be careful, though. Sometimes frequent masturbation, especially before a lay, can make your guy go for a long time (good). But if you have a condom (you should) and you have recently beat it, it could take awhile for you to climax.

Masturbation isn't bad. Chronic masturbation is bad. It can also help you from being a one-minute man.

Seriously, if you go three months without orgasming, the minute you are with a girl and she so much as blows on your penis, you are going to explode---that's not impressive.

How about you just go out, be social, have some drinks, and relax. If you are worried about your sex drive how about you don't masturbate on the nights you are going out, or even the day before. If nothing works out, you can always go home and enjoy yourself if you need to.

Everything in moderation.