My 'nice guy' problem

[donkdidonk2]

To cut a long story short: I really fancy this woman at work. She really fancies someone else but like sme because I am 'nice'. She would never say the things about me as she says about him. I ****ing hate him. H ekeeps giving me bad looks and I want to pop the c**t one.

I digress. This woman speculated on whether I was gay when I first started. Apparently it was because I was 'nice' and well dressed and I look very boyish.

How can I start coming across as sexy and masculine without being a tosser?

 

[spider_007]

Start reading the DJ Bible

And quit messing with chicks at work, if it goes bad (and it always does) you still have to work with them. Get them to introduce you to their friends

 

[flexion_]

2nd that - don't mess with a chick at work.

Read the DJ bible.

 

[flyinshark]

Talk to her as if u were talking to one of your male friends. For example, if u feel like swearing, swear..just dont hold back or change your vocabulary when u are talking to her. But this is just the tip of the iceberg..more in the bible, as others have indicated.