my mom and sisters are crazy

[spang]

they occasionally annoy me about "when are you going to get married" or "when are you gonna have some kids" or wheres my grandchildren" kind of stuff. i usually laugh and fire back with "when i find a girl whos not crazy".
it usually sparks the same argument. like i will tell them about how women here are ridiculous and hardly any will talk to me when i make the approach. its like they cant grasp it, and say "thats not true" blah blah, "what are you talkin about", "well im not like that blah blah". i simply cannot win...we could argue all day but i can NEVER convince them of how hard it is. IT IS ALWAYS MY FAULT.

but today i really let them have it. i argued back about how we men have to do everything, and women do nothing but be themselves. men have to make the approach, we have to make a good living, we have to go out in the world and find ways to make money and support a family, men have to work worse jobs, men have to endure tons of rejection until we find someone, etc...

the battle of the sexes ensues....:box:
they fired back with well..uh...we bear children blah blah, we raise children and do house work. yak yahk...
to top the rest of it off, my mother and sisters are all highly religious. i would rate them all as good women, but they feel its their mission to pound all of this entire gospel into my head, that god has someone for me.
theres little sympathy. its never "it must be frustrating for you". they live in this little bubble, where they dont have to live like i do. they will never understand.
i go out and talk to girls, get my shiat shot down, then come home and listen to their crap. then i turn on the tv and hear feminist propaganda about how women are superior to men. my god.....this is complete madness. help.:nervous:

 

[cablecow15]

this is why i dont tell me family anything about who or what im doing , they annoy the crap about me , im not gonna tell them how my night went , idc how nosey they are its my business , don't tell them when girls reject you and you wont have to hear their crap

 

[BMX]

You're gonna have to move out and go no contact. Find a new path. Remind them in an aloof manner that all of that sh!t is not top priority.

 

[Fly By Night]

All this "finding a good woman" talk is just more examples of how our society is geared towards women. They tell you to be a chump and believe that only ONE woman in this entire world would say yes to you and I bet they also tell you to be a great gentleman to them and give her everything she wants.

They are really looking out for their fellow women more than they are looking out for you.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Women are solipsistic. They believe the entire world functions in a way that corresponds with their own personal experiences.

All that propaganda about women being more nurturing and empathetic is nonsense. They are only those ways towards things they have also experienced.

And one thing they can and will never experience is what it is like to walk this planet in a man's shoes.

Since it is not their job to approach, they never have. So, they have no clue what it like to be in that role. And by extension, they have little desire or ability to understand it from your point of view. Worse, explaining it to them logically and rationally does get you very far, as you have learned.

And because they are women, they have spent their lives receiving male attention. Their solipsistic minds thus conclude that it should be easy to meet someone of the opposite sex. It's like they completely lack the ability to grasp the world from what men have to go through.

Finally, the fact that they argued with you and would not listen to your point of view shows how little they actually understand or even care about the difficulties you are having. Men are always at fault.

 

[SoSuave666]

Man I literally had this same argument with my mother the other day. The power was out at both our houses (Storm on the Eastern Shore) so I decided it would be a good time to play some cards and have some beers with the family. I was eventually asked when I was going to find a GF. Now my mother is one of the smartest people I know. She has her phd and JD from two VERY prestigious institutions. She has experienced so many things in life and been all over the country. Just in general very culturally and cognitively aware.

The one thing she will never understand though is being a dude. I told her all the same things you told her. We approach, we make the move, we put ourselves out there. Women are entitled brats, club slvts, everything I could think of. My mothers answer to all of this was: women have the right to do whatever they want just like men. It's all about finding the "one girl" and being a "nice guy to attract her." I was like, "ma, these chicks now a days aren't like you old school girls. They want a dude who is ****y and funny, sure of himself, and generally successful. He also needs to treat her like a little bit of an ******* too."

My mom went off on how women deserve more respect than men and how they still don't have it after all these years. My mom is no feminist but she sure sounded like it after a few drinks. She got so heated at me and then decided to end the argument with this: "a lot of good being an ******* has been in getting you a GF."

I thought for a while about this, and let her have the final say. At the end of the day, I don't want a GF, I want to simply bang broads and just you know, have a good time. If I told my mom this, she may have disowned me. So I let it slide. I guess the point is that women ALWAYS stick up for other women. Even if they are arguing with their own blood. It's nuts.

 

[Down Low]

Adult women operate on about the same mental level as a 13-year-old boy. Their typical mindset is "I can do whatever I want, whenever I want." Whenever you press them in an argument, it always comes back to this supposed univeral truth. (It would be true only if hedonic calculus were a valid form of reasoning. It isn't.)

Women can't abstract a concept from their personal involvement in it. Even worse, women associate ideas with their own current emotional states. For women, there is no such thing as a pure abstraction. So, even though you, the man, can go in some direction "for the sake of argument," women vulgarize it to "picking a fight" with her.

It isn't just a matter of you taking responsibility and being the leader. Women aren't even capable of being followers in the sense that an adult man can. They are totally incapable of understanding and living the concepts of honesty, honor, dignity, fidelity, responsibility, duty, and all the other traits that we expect as a matter of course from our fellow men. Women can't be led through reason and an appeal to altruism. They must be told what to do. In this disgusting liberal society, it means manipulating them to believe that what you wanted them to do -- was their idea all along.

If you want women to shut up, don't raise any discussions with them. If you want women to have sex, tease them into sexual responses.

 

[Burroughs]

Adult women operate on about the same mental level as a 13-year-old boy. Their typical mindset is "I can do whatever I want, whenever I want." Whenever you press them in an argument, it always comes back to this supposed univeral truth. (It would be true only if hedonic calculus were a valid form of reasoning. It isn't.)

Women can't abstract a concept from their personal involvement in it. Even worse, women associate ideas with their own current emotional states. For women, there is no such thing as a pure abstraction. So, even though you, the man, can go in some direction "for the sake of argument," women vulgarize it to "picking a fight" with her.

It isn't just a matter of you taking responsibility and being the leader. Women aren't even capable of being followers in the sense that an adult man can. They are totally incapable of understanding and living the concepts of honesty, honor, dignity, fidelity, responsibility, duty, and all the other traits that we expect as a matter of course from our fellow men. Women can't be led through reason and an appeal to altruism. They must be told what to do. In this disgusting liberal society, it means manipulating them to believe that what you wanted them to do -- was their idea all along.

If you want women to shut up, don't raise any discussions with them. If you want women to have sex, tease them into sexual responses.

yes 100%...consider how much time this manipulation of women takes, time that could be spent in far more productive matters..this is why india and china outpace us, their women are under control (for now)

this is why all civilizations since the dawn of time regarded women as theproperty of their men.

this is the only status they are suited for. women are not suited to lead or follow. they are suited to raise kids, cook, and give blojobs.

 

[spang]

yes 100%...consider how much time this manipulation of women takes, time that could be spent in far more productive matters..this is why india and china outpace us, their women are under control (for now)

this is why all civilizations since the dawn of time regarded women as theproperty of their men.

this is the only status they are suited for. women are not suited to lead or follow. they are suited to raise kids, cook, and give blojobs.

haha..awesome. sometimes i wonder about all that myself. ive seen a lot of people theorize about this...i know in india and parts of the middle east they keep their women down a lot. they make women cover themselves and their faces, and they are not allowed to go anywhere without their man. sometimes i think they do that for a reason, like they have already realized that women have to be restrained. no voting, no ownership of property, no career for them. that sounds harsh and oppressive, but maybe there is some truth to it. asian women are not treated so bad, but they seem to have a bit more respect for people because they are raised differently.
here in the US, their is so much feminism, it has ruined everything including dating. women here are in their free, completely unbridled, unrestrained form. i do know that men and women have completely different roles in society.
honestly ive never been to another country, so i can say for sure if the grass is greener.

 

[spang]

My mom went off on how women deserve more respect than men and how they still don't have it after all these years. My mom is no feminist but she sure sounded like it after a few drinks. She got so heated at me and then decided to end the argument with this: "a lot of good being an ******* has been in getting you a GF."
It's nuts.

thats what grinds my gears. they all demand respect for some unknown reason, when they continually go for losers who treat them like crap. it rings true even with the intelligent women. even with religious women...my mom is always trying to get me to go back to church and join the singles group...but it is the same crap, the girls there act EXACTLY the same as others. but she thinks it will be better. ive tried dating girls at church and it is the same game.
then she has to make the argument religious and bring god into it. the girls at church who act like dumb *****s....youre telling me god is in that?? if god is out there, he did not mean for it to be this way. we are told he created woman as a "helper" for man, but i think that word can be defined in different ways. i just dont know....