My Mature men breaking your plans for a woman?

[women haze]

Let's say you have a plate and she text you she's at the bar, or whatever, but you are still at work and after work you have a routine to go to the gym.

Do you say F!@# the gym and get on that plate? or do you tell her you got something going on afterwards and reschedule or what?

I mean I am a stubbron guy who breaks my routine for hardly anyone...is this a good trait or a bad one?

maybe I could lose out on this plate by not cancelling?

 

[Poonani Maker]

Let's say you have a plate and she text you she's at the bar, or whatever, but you are still at work and after work you have a routine to go to the gym.

Do you say F!@# the gym and get on that plate? or do you tell her you got something going on afterwards and reschedule or what?

I mean I am a stubbron guy who breaks my routine for hardly anyone...is this a good trait or a bad one?

maybe I could lose out on this plate by not cancelling?

If I'm not gettin paid to lift weights, I'm on the pvssy. Why suffer when you can have pleasure? Fvcking girls is all I care about. Pvssy comes first, but I'd never turn down "work" or "money" just to make time for a woman. Money comes first, but during my free time when I ain't makin dough, pvssy overrides everything else.

 

[PokerStar]

If im going to the bar to meet the boys for a drink and an opportunity came up to meet up with a plate, the boys can take care of themselves.

 

[Zunder]

Do your workout.
Are you that cvntstuck that you change your plans for this plate at the drop of a hat?

 

[Victory Unlimited]

"Plates", "Cups", and "Saucers" aside (sorry, I couldn't resist...), I don't think there's anything wrong with a man exercising flexibility with his schedule as long as whatever he opts to do really is HIS choice, and not due to any kind of coercion or desperation.

 

[Mr.Positive]

I mean I am a stubbron guy who breaks my routine for hardly anyone...is this a good trait or a bad one?

That's a good trait! WTF. Don't sacrifice your routine for anyone...ever.

Tell her you'll meet her for drinks after the gym.

Don't ever sacrifice the gym for a gal. Never. Each time you do God kills a kitten.

 

[Colossus]

Women haze, It depends.

Generally I would NOT break my gym routine for a girl, but for example yesterday I had been procrastinating the gym all day. I knew my gf was probably going to come over around 7, so 630 rolls around and I hadnt heard from her so I reluctantly headed out the door. Just then she texted saying she was on her way. I said ok, no big deal, I'll do a little cardio and catch up with the gym tomorrow.

Usually though, If I'm going, I'm going. I dont ever make a habit out of putting that on the back burner, because sometimes that's all you've got!!

 

[Jariel]

Depends what YOU want to do more. There seems to be this attitude problem with some guys that they won't put themselves out for a woman and get all paranoid that it's a sign of weakness etc.

Personally if it was a woman I liked and she seemed keen, I'd go and meet her. And if you play your cards right, you might get a nice cardio session at the end of the night.

It's when you put your life on hold or put things off constantly to fit in with her plans that you need to put your foot down.

 

[Lexington]

It's pretty simple: you should do exactly what you feel like. If you're not really up for hanging out, don't get pressured by this broad. Personally, I'd value working out more than a date with this girl. If anything, it would make you more desirable in her eyes. You're not just another chump that would change his plans at the drop of a hat. If she's truly interested she'll understand that you have priorities and she'll stick around.

 

[Strelok]

My gym routine is based on a 3 day split, I get pissed off when I have to skip any.

Anyway the key is the one Samspade shown, it depend whos the girl.
I would interrupt my routine for my girlfriend cause she does any possible thing to make me happy,in any other case the answer would be no.

The gym is not a purgatory, the gym is a great place where you can grow and test yourself, even challenging yourself in pushing something you didnt believe you were able to is gonna give you satisfaction.
The fastest way to ignite your nomore afc self- help program is to push it to the limit in the gym.
If you week after week see yourself finally able to bench your own weight you realise that a stupid cvnt is no goddesses as much as that barbel full of weights is no unbeatable monster.

Those men who seem to be in the gym because a court ordered them to are really annoying "omg this is soooo hard and painful"....no dumbass it's painful cause you're painful, if you were awesome your workouts would awesome too.

 

[Zunder]

Read this post I made of Henry Rollins on the Health & fitness forum, and perhaps you might change your mind about missing that workout....

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185715

 

[women haze]

Thank you Zunder that Article hit it home deeply

 

[Solomon]

Ill keep it real

It depends on two things, 1. When was the last time I got "some" and 2. How hot she is

 

[zekko]

It depends on two things, 1. When was the last time I got "some" and 2. How hot she is

This is what I was thinking.
If it had been awhile, it might do you more good than the weight room.

 

[Desdinova]

Do you say F!@# the gym and get on that plate?

The only time I would do something like this is if it's a first date. Here's why...

Contacting a woman on the phone, through text, or through email will only get you so far. It is much easier to raise a woman's IL when you're interacting one-on-one with her. The first date / meeting is extremely important when you're working on attracting her. Based on that alone, that is the only time I will put aside my plans to be with a woman. I've had many missed opportunities solely because I turned down a woman for a first meeting due to my schedule.

Once you've interacted with the woman in person and have her IL elevated, you have no reason to disrupt your schedule to spend time with her. Her IL will NOT drop solely because you didn't jump when she tells you to. In fact, the opposite is likely to happen. When a woman focuses her mind on you (even when you turn her down for something) her IL will likely be raised.

 

[FairShake]

The two most important characteristics in life are reliability and flexibility. You have those down and you are golden.

A little flexibility in your schedule in this case and you will probably have a great time. Just be reliable enough to fit in the rest of your schedule when you can.

Man some guys take this alpha sh!t way too seriously.