My life during the recent years has been a total disaster. People consider me weird. Have no idea why. My social skills suck. Not much friends. Last year I fell in love for the 1st time. And blew it up, as you can probably expect. That girl basically laughed over me. I was just so stupid. 1st she was too good for me then, 2nd my game was tooo weak. Even did not existed. Then I found this site, it has helped me a lot. Things have gotten better, but now this all ends, unless I do something.
This summer I duked out with one of my best friends. I had only a few good friends and he was one of them. He just went crazy. Just added some girls on MSN and let his friend,whose kinda player. talk with them. He is just so loser, he goes to clubs just sitting around. And then his ego grew. He started to just pick on me when we were out with our group. I basically just laughed over that. Ignored that. Why should I care what such guy thinks of me. Then he got angry. And the "war" began :
First of all he added her on MSN.He decided to dig out the old thing with that girl. He let his friend add her and basically told her all kinds of bull**** about me, just made up things. They both just laughed over me. And what really pisses me off, he doesn't care of that girl at all. He just bullies her in front of his friends, that she is such a *****, so easy to get. After that I decided to end our friendship. I just told him that. And he got even more angry. He just starts to tell eveyrbody what a loser I am. I am not, but he just makes things up and everybody believe him instead of me. He tells them how pathetic my life is in his opinion. Btw he doesn't tell it himself, he lets his friend talk. Yesterday when I was coming back from training he just came with a few friends and beat me up. That was more of a joke for me. Nothing special. But he tells everyone how he just really beat me up. Lucky not to have to go to hospital. Everybody is just laughing over me at the moment. It is not a big town, so if I go out, then I usually see someone I know. So I can't just ignore him. And there is only six weeks, then the school begins, my last year. I don't want this to be hardest for me. I want something good from it, but this is hard. Really hard to clean my name in front of everybody.
Any suggestins from you guys? I am planning to have him beaten up first for waht he did to me. But what next, when no one believes me? I am not such a real popular guy or something. He is not either, but he talked first so eveyrone are believing him. He is trying to win all my friends to his side, so I had no one to talk to. I have only 1 friend whom I can trust. Others would probably just tell him these things. I know a lot about him. Things that would not like to come out. He is such a geek. Was. I have some tapes of what he has told. Even what he has told about that girl. How easy she is. But what should I do witht them, when she even does not believe me. Eveyrbody are at his side so I have no idea on what should I do. Could someone here please give me some advice please. Thank you.
This summer I duked out with one of my best friends. I had only a few good friends and he was one of them. He just went crazy. Just added some girls on MSN and let his friend,whose kinda player. talk with them. He is just so loser, he goes to clubs just sitting around. And then his ego grew. He started to just pick on me when we were out with our group. I basically just laughed over that. Ignored that. Why should I care what such guy thinks of me. Then he got angry. And the "war" began :
First of all he added her on MSN.He decided to dig out the old thing with that girl. He let his friend add her and basically told her all kinds of bull**** about me, just made up things. They both just laughed over me. And what really pisses me off, he doesn't care of that girl at all. He just bullies her in front of his friends, that she is such a *****, so easy to get. After that I decided to end our friendship. I just told him that. And he got even more angry. He just starts to tell eveyrbody what a loser I am. I am not, but he just makes things up and everybody believe him instead of me. He tells them how pathetic my life is in his opinion. Btw he doesn't tell it himself, he lets his friend talk. Yesterday when I was coming back from training he just came with a few friends and beat me up. That was more of a joke for me. Nothing special. But he tells everyone how he just really beat me up. Lucky not to have to go to hospital. Everybody is just laughing over me at the moment. It is not a big town, so if I go out, then I usually see someone I know. So I can't just ignore him. And there is only six weeks, then the school begins, my last year. I don't want this to be hardest for me. I want something good from it, but this is hard. Really hard to clean my name in front of everybody.
Any suggestins from you guys? I am planning to have him beaten up first for waht he did to me. But what next, when no one believes me? I am not such a real popular guy or something. He is not either, but he talked first so eveyrone are believing him. He is trying to win all my friends to his side, so I had no one to talk to. I have only 1 friend whom I can trust. Others would probably just tell him these things. I know a lot about him. Things that would not like to come out. He is such a geek. Was. I have some tapes of what he has told. Even what he has told about that girl. How easy she is. But what should I do witht them, when she even does not believe me. Eveyrbody are at his side so I have no idea on what should I do. Could someone here please give me some advice please. Thank you.
