My good friend who is 5'4 just started dating an awesome chick from online

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She is super cute, super nice, makes 180K a year as a dentist, nice body, 29 years old, no kids. He is 5'4 but good looking all American white boy face and jacked, makes like 70K a year as a cop, super nice guy of course

That just proves that being white and having that all american face really is everything with online (and even real life dating). I am 5'10, 196 but look more Mediterranean. I am handsome myself and I make more than twice what my buddy makes and I have a very similar personality to him, yet when I tried online dating several years ago, I couldn't even get a single reply from any of the women on there who weren't hideous or obese. Here's the great kicker - she is middle eastern herself (she is Lebanese, I am Armenian). Even women who are my ethnicity strongly prefer pure white boy looks. That is just so demoralizing.

Seriously guys I think it's just time for me to learn to accept living as a celibate man. Some people are meant to never have any companionship. It's terrible but maybe I can get great fulfillment from completely dominating all the other aspects of my life?
 
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Some women have a cop fetish. "Badge Bunny" is the term. Maybe she just likes handcuffs.
that's a lame excuse

being white and having that classic white boy handsome face is everything in dating, even to ethnic women
 

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No, it's definitely the "cop" thing that raises his points higher.

Nobody was making an excuse, just stating facts.
So a professional white collar woman making 200K a year wants to date a blue collar worker making 70K?

how much you want to bet if he was Indian or Arab, she would have wanted nothing to do with him?
 

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So a professional white collar woman making 200K a year wants to date a blue collar worker making 70K?

how much you want to bet if he was Indian or Arab, she would have wanted nothing to do with him?
Sounds like your another guy on here that's obsessed with race. You need to get over that shVt. It is what it is. Stop putting white women on a pedestal. There not as great as you think they are.

You should be happy for your friend. Stop complaining. Don't ever compare yourself to other people. There will always be someone better then you.
 
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So a professional white collar woman making 200K a year wants to date a blue collar worker making 70K?

how much you want to bet if he was Indian or Arab, she would have wanted nothing to do with him?
I don't know her preferences on race. You may be right. But cop isn't blue collar like a laborer is.

Btw, these females have such ridiculous standards.
 

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Sounds like your another guy on here that's obsessed with race. You need to get over that shVt. It is what it is. Stop putting white women on a pedestal. There not as great as you think they are.

You should be happy for your friend. Stop complaining. Don't ever compare yourself to other people. There will always be someone better then you.
she is not white, are you blind? She is middle eastern - my ethnicity

even ethnic women prefer white men
 

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Learn from him he has game.

"No mid-east woman i know would date à guy under 7 figures salary :p" (mid-east joke on mid-east girls)
 

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You got all the excuses down pat...

The one constant in all of this is you. Thats where the problem begins and ends.

You are obviously disqualifying yourself to a lot of women I'd probably start trying to figure out why
 
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Learn from him he has game.

"No mid-east woman i know would date à guy under 7 figures salary :p" (mid-east joke on mid-east girls)
But he makes a cop salary. Not rich, not poor. Long hours, possible potential of death depending on the position.
 

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I might have missed that part but the rest of the stuff I said is the truth. Don't compare yourself to others and stop being so hung up on race.
I don't even like white chicks dude unless they're Italian/French/Greek/etc... I like women with dark complexion, mostly into Latinas and middle eastern girls

but the problem is even the ethnic girls like white guys
 

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I don't even like white chicks dude unless they're Italian/French/Greek/etc... I like women with dark complexion, mostly into Latinas and middle eastern girls

but the problem is even the ethnic girls like white guys
What about the white girls who loves ethnic guys?
 

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What about the white girls who loves ethnic guys?
next you will talk about unicorns

but I don't even like light skinned white girls. They age absolutely horrific. White girls at 45 look older than my 60 year old mom
 

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being white and having that classic white boy handsome face is everything in dating
You mentioned being Armenian. A friend of mine who used to live near me moved to Southern California. I talked to him and he was telling me about the Armenians he knew. He said he can't tell them apart from white people, but that they tend to have a complex about their ethnicity, mostly due to the US government siding with Turkey and officially still denying the Armenian Genocide. On top of that, there is a long history of bad treatment of them as immigrants to the US. Maybe you have every right to have whatever race issues you have, logical reasons well-founded in history, but they are fvcking up your dating life.
 

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You mentioned being Armenian. A friend of mine who used to live near me moved to Southern California. I talked to him and he was telling me about the Armenians he knew. He said he can't tell them apart from white people, but that they tend to have a complex about their ethnicity, mostly due to the US government siding with Turkey and officially still denying the Armenian Genocide. On top of that, there is a long history of bad treatment of them as immigrants to the US. Maybe you have every right to have whatever race issues you have, logical reasons well-founded in history, but they are fvcking up your dating life.

I don't have any complex about my race, I feel that I'm basically white and Americans all think I'm a good looking Puerto Rican or Spanish dude


but it doesn't seem to matter in dating. Women would still prefer my 100% white friends even when they are inferior to me in almost every way or at best, equal to me in most ways
 
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