My girlfriend just told me she was bisexual.

[DO NOT ENTER my butt]

She is beggin' me not to break up with her (after she told me she was bi) but I told her I need to sleep on it. I just don't know. I think her being a bisexual is fine, as long as she doesn't have an emotional attachment to her female partner. But the other partner she has in mind is her good friend. I think it's very possible that my girl's friend can turn her into a full-on lesbian (pushing me out of the picture).

So, just gimme some opinions on how you guys would react if your girl told ya she was bi.

PS- dont say something with a "3-way" remark, okay? replying with a "3-way" remark is so cliche that it lost its comedic value. so, to save us all time let's just not have 10 people reply with a "3-way" remark.

 

[Vincent]

Honestly?


If my gf told me she was bi, i would immedietely think "3-way".

Most chicks in hs think they're bi, when in fact they are just having trouble with their sexuality. Don't let it bother you, just have fun with it

If she's a lesbian, she's a lesbian, as you saw in friends (oh god i thought i'd never quote friends). You can't change her, so enjoy things while you can.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

One of the best lays (er girlfrind) that I ever had was a woman who was bi. Didn't bother me at all. Not until I realized she was a far left recovering feminazi...

 

[Patrick124]

She has a "female-partner" in mind? Tell her you would still consider this cheating if she messed with someone else. So tell her just to involve you

 

[splinterkb]

Dude thats like the best situation to be in! You can have sex with her and another girl at the same time and not get in trouble!
Wait a little while, and then casually bring it up.. dont just ask about it straight up or she'll prolly get pissed.

 

[Jester]

OK. Take what everyone who replyed just said and put it in a place in your mind. Now, set that place on fire and put it in a dumpster.

Im gona call you mark because i dont care to refer to your handle.


Mark, or whatever your name is, If you care about your girlfriend at all, then you must dump her and not look back.

If you TRUTHFULLY, do not give a **** about her, then it is your prerogative to make the decision. If you want to you could certainly have a 3-some with her and her "partner". In this DJ's not-so-humble opinion though i do not see the value in a 3-some. Seems redundant to me. And way too much effort for sex.

But based on what you said its pretty obvious you would have liked to care about this girl.

So it is my advice to you, and also the knowledge ive gained from being in this situation my self, is to dump this girl. Whatever you may think, there is something inherently wrong with bisexuality There is no religious influence on my opinion. I have observed many of these people, and they seem to all be very confused and very mentally unhealthy.

Dump this girl, she does not care for you, she does not know what she is, and she will hurt you if you care about her.

Do the right thing.

 

[iMat]

She said bisexual, not homosexual.

So if she says that's why she's breaking up, she really means that you're boring or don't interest her anymore.

--iMat

 

[Thraxeh]

think of it this way. say u have 200 ppl in ur school(just say) 100 girls, 100 guys, instead of having the 100 chances of her cheating on you, its now 200

 

[Recluce]

Originally posted by Thraxeh
think of it this way. say u have 200 ppl in ur school(just say) 100 girls, 100 guys, instead of having the 100 chances of her cheating on you, its now 200

hahahaahahah

 

[The Antichrist_Star]

Originally posted by Thraxeh
think of it this way. say u have 200 ppl in ur school(just say) 100 girls, 100 guys, instead of having the 100 chances of her cheating on you, its now 200

Comedy...

Some people say dump her, some people say screw her and her friend and tell all of your friends about it. I say... do what you want to do. Some men cannot handle the fact that their girlfriends (see: more than you think) are bisexual or even bicurious. If you think you are one of those men... then break up with her, plain and simple. However, if you are sexually liberal, and open to explore the various avenues of sexuality.... then see where your relationship may take you. Really know how you would handle that before you do anything.

Good luck...

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