guitaronfire411
Senior Don Juan
OK, so in the past I have told my girl straight up if I'm not happy with her behaviour and she almost always apologizes straight away or within an hour or two.
The other day we were moving into her new place. I had a massive headache so I'm relaxing on her bed while she's making the place clean, etc. Everything is cool until Tuesday morning. We wake up and check out the freezer and the cheap-o $10 wine I had placed there -- when I was suffering from a massive, borderline migraine-headache -- had blown up from the rear and the champagne had frozen.
Yes, what I did was bad. Yes, there was mess. My girl goes ape**** and shouts that I'm going to clean it up the next time I come over. She's already in a rush to get to work and missed the original bus because she's disorganized and never plans things in advance.
She pushes the Scope I bought the night earlier into my hands and gruffly tells me to take it. She has never been this *****y before, although she has zero ability to handle stress. So sometimes she loses her cool and praises my level-headedness.
We walk out her new place, she locks the door and ...get this... goes ahead without me to the bus stop. Ok, so she's pissed. Her knees are buckling and I said something like, 'Hey, you're cold...' and move close to her. She shouts, "I'm pissed!" and I walk away from her and don't say another word.
The bus comes and I sit down beside her. She puts on her ear-plugs.
Short trip to Billings Bridge. I get up and off the bus and get this... she, probably seeing the 111 bus she needs, RUNS AHEAD, looks back (presumably for me) and KEEPS ****ING GOING AND RUNS UP THE STAIRS AND OUT OF VIEW. I'm wearing steel-toed boots, so obviously I'm going to be walking after her and NOT RUNNING.
I make my way up the stairs and she's NOWHERE TO BE SEEN. A bus I could take comes seconds later and I get on.
NO CONTACT FROM HER OR MYSELF. She's changed her profile picture from HER AND I to a picture of her new apartment from the outside.
She updated her subject line text talking about how she loves fixing up her new apartment...and how it's so satisfying.
We're technically together on Facebook still but I'm wondering if I should just dump her over it?
My close work-buddy in his late 60's agreed that she's over-reacting by 500%. My PUA-like buddy from class says she's acting like she's five and I should just **** everything and blame my actions on her behaviour.
Thoughts?
My intuition says to make a decision and dump her soon.
The other day we were moving into her new place. I had a massive headache so I'm relaxing on her bed while she's making the place clean, etc. Everything is cool until Tuesday morning. We wake up and check out the freezer and the cheap-o $10 wine I had placed there -- when I was suffering from a massive, borderline migraine-headache -- had blown up from the rear and the champagne had frozen.
Yes, what I did was bad. Yes, there was mess. My girl goes ape**** and shouts that I'm going to clean it up the next time I come over. She's already in a rush to get to work and missed the original bus because she's disorganized and never plans things in advance.
She pushes the Scope I bought the night earlier into my hands and gruffly tells me to take it. She has never been this *****y before, although she has zero ability to handle stress. So sometimes she loses her cool and praises my level-headedness.
We walk out her new place, she locks the door and ...get this... goes ahead without me to the bus stop. Ok, so she's pissed. Her knees are buckling and I said something like, 'Hey, you're cold...' and move close to her. She shouts, "I'm pissed!" and I walk away from her and don't say another word.
The bus comes and I sit down beside her. She puts on her ear-plugs.
Short trip to Billings Bridge. I get up and off the bus and get this... she, probably seeing the 111 bus she needs, RUNS AHEAD, looks back (presumably for me) and KEEPS ****ING GOING AND RUNS UP THE STAIRS AND OUT OF VIEW. I'm wearing steel-toed boots, so obviously I'm going to be walking after her and NOT RUNNING.
I make my way up the stairs and she's NOWHERE TO BE SEEN. A bus I could take comes seconds later and I get on.
NO CONTACT FROM HER OR MYSELF. She's changed her profile picture from HER AND I to a picture of her new apartment from the outside.
She updated her subject line text talking about how she loves fixing up her new apartment...and how it's so satisfying.
We're technically together on Facebook still but I'm wondering if I should just dump her over it?
My close work-buddy in his late 60's agreed that she's over-reacting by 500%. My PUA-like buddy from class says she's acting like she's five and I should just **** everything and blame my actions on her behaviour.
Thoughts?
My intuition says to make a decision and dump her soon.