My GF is acting mad ..:rolleyes:

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Hey everyone,

I've been on these forums for ages, and rarely ask for advice, but right now I'm in a weird "I don't give a rat's ass" kinda mood.

The Deal:

We went out with friends for the evening, celebrating Canada day watching fireworks...etc...

Alcohol is involved...

Now, nothing was out of the ordinary and she(for some reason) gets quiet and sorta acts mad. I smell a test.

Walked her home and she gives me a tiny peck and goes to bed...usually it's a make out session and she won't let me leave...lol

WTF?

Weird.

Anyways,

I could really care less, but I'd like your outside opinion on what i should do. We've been together for about a yr and I'm still not in love with her, but I do really enjoy her company. Don't wanna get in a fight over nothing, but this is strange.

I won't call her. She's gonna have to make the first move. I'm kinda pissed 'cause this is incredibly stupid....Gimme an outside view of the situation. For once, I can't look at it from another angle...

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[Bonhomme]

I'm as stumped as you are

Could be her cycle. See how she is in a few days.

 

[Clint Eastwood]

Don't know all the details, but I smell trouble. Unless you do have feelings for her, I'd start looking for other girls. I went through something very similar with my ex GF. She seemed to be mad about something, and since I didn't really love her, I never pushed her to tell me what it was. Things gradually fell apart from there. She started acting more cold and disrespectful, until I had enough and just got rid of her.

Wait for some other opinions, and try to post more on her attitude recently, etc. You might want to give it more time before jumping to any conclusions.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

I must add that we were with my friends that she doesn't usually hang with, though she knows them well enough.

I was a bit more ****y in front of her than I usually am.....I never show her my smart mouthed side too often, though she finds me intruiging and intelligent, when I do.

We actually got on the topic of seduction/dating and I expressed my views on the subject....I got many funny faces when I mentioned some stuff that we discuss on this site. It was very broad and everyone agreed with me once I elaborated on it, so I don't think that was it.........or was it?

She knows I have a player rep, so wtf?

I don't give a ****, either way.

All i want to know is what do I say when she phones, and says why are you ignoring me/haven't called me/not answering.....etc.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Wait for some other opinions, and try to post more on her attitude recently, etc. You might want to give it more time before jumping to any conclusions.

Attitude-wise things have been great.

I'm on the road alot, and not able to be around as much as I'd like....which is good, IMO.

I'm not jumping to conclusions, just kindof annoyed at the whole thing.

Her move.

I can wait.....hehehe

 

[Lt dan]

id not worry about it if i were you. i dont think you are but what im saying its its probably nothing. sometimes chicks do things and they dont even know they did anything. and if she calls and says why have you been ignoring me . say, well why have you been ignoring me?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Yeah that's pretty much it, but I won't tolerate this kinda ****.

I'd like a way to put her in her place, without comiong off as a complete jackass...(God does that sound puzzified, or what? )

Man I'm getting old.......Maybe I should change my name to the dumbass Canadian as somebody on here already called me once....lol jackass.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[digitalrat]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
We've been together for about a yr and I'm still not in love with her, but I do really enjoy her company.
The Bad Ass Canadian

For some reason that statement you have made caught me. Now, I havent been with this girl for a year, actually it hasnt been 4 days that I've been really putting it on.

I just got a call from her friend 2 minutes ago and she asked me if I like her. So I gave her the "its possible" routine etc.. Then she goes "She has a boyfriend, but let me give you hint, having a boyfriend isnt a brick wall, I could tell you liked her last night." Then I said "Well, you didnt see me hesitate did you?" "No."

Now, today I had a kinda depressed day. I dont know why because I know not to get caught into the blackhole of desperation.

But, I wasnt being desperate I dont believe. I just LIKED her company and everything that goes with it. I mean, we saw each other 3 days in a row. Now, she lives 5 houses away.

I have been fighting with myself all day. "ANTHONY, YOU NEED TO STOP SEEING THIS GIRL FOR ATLEAST 3 DAYS"

Now, My DJ inside of me won. I have to say, its VERY hard when you just start hanging with guys and chill etc..

Then you start hanging with girls and its something different and you like that. Its fun and it has an advantage, the sexual part. I feel my best and the happiest and ON TOP OF MY GAME when I'm around women and it makes me feel good.

Now, I know that women shouldnt be the reason why your happy and I see why the rule is in the Bible.

2 years ago, I was FAT and had pimples all over my face. I didnt do anything but play video games and eat **** all day. I had friends, but there was something missing.

Well, I started to go to the gym and I'm lucky enough to be in the position that I can have a trainer. Everything hit me at once. I found this site and I started my self-analyzing and started improving myself. Now, I have never gone out with a girl or even kissed a girl. But I have got *******s. Yay.

Well, for the first time a girl was laying on top of me on a couch. It has just hit me, but when I'm actually there I'm a stright DJ. I mean I have never experienced that before and I was acting like a fukking pro. I was massaging her inner thigh, blowing on her neck, rubbing her stomach.

I was funny as **** and it came out natural. I dont know if I'm a natural DJ that needs to come out because I'm losing weight or that I've read so much great stuff here that it got implanted in my subconcious.

I have never kissed a girl, but I bet I can pull it off for the first time like I've kissed thousands of women.

The last girl that I was going after was kinda of a oneitis. I mean I used to dream up **** in my head all the time. "Us doing this, Us doing that" etc.. It made me depressed and I couldnt handle it. I used to dream of sitting on the couch with her and just cuddling and watch a movie. Now, I walk into my friends house one day and she laying on the couch with this guy doing what I wanted to be doing.

Now I actually am doing that and it feelings great. I've been missing something in my life and now I'm experiencing it. Its hard not to be desperate and I'm fighting it to best I can.

All I can say is, its hard to not act desperate and always being over ther with her because I really enjoy holding her in my arms.

Let's look at Pook's list of sighs of desperation.
-always giving the women attention.
*I can say I dont do this, by attention I mean when youre in the situation with her and she's around. Her and her friend were both over and I would flirt with her friend alittle just for this rule exactly

-calling all the time (and calling immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, etc.)
*Now this is something I just can't do. I might WANT to call her but I would never do it. I might not call enough.

-taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself)
*This is something that I dont do also. I like to be vague and let her think and wonder.

-always available.
*Now now, this is something I might suffer from. During summer it can be very boring when all youre friends are working during the week and on vacation. It's hard not to be always available, but I have worked on this a lot today. I have come with, if you were sitting at home doing nothing, you dont have to tell people that.

-NEVER willing to walk away (NEVER willing to disagree, ALWAYS supplicating).
*Now this is something I'm good at. I disagree just to disagree sometime. I love fukkign with them and just giving their ***** attitude back at them. I dont put up with that **** and I never will. I have seen guys that are whipped and I promised myself that I will never be like that.

I can't believe I just wrote all that stuff. Does it have to do with anything that you even posted about? Sorry for my rant. Hope you learned something even if it was your question.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Digitalrat,

Everything you talked about (though not on topic), is stuff I've known for a longtime. It's not info that I need to tell myself.
It is a part of me, and has been for a long time.

I'm happy to hear that you've got this knowledge under you belt.
it'll serve you well, that's for sure.

I'm gonna let this thing slide, and blame it on Alcohol and the fact that she needs to work in the morning.....Perhaps she's a bit drunker(is that a word?) than she would like to admit.

We'll see tomorrow.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[digitalrat]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Digitalrat,

Everything you talked about (though not on topic), is stuff I've known for a longtime. It's not info that I need to tell myself.
It is a part of me, and has been for a long time.

I'm happy to hear that you've got this knowledge under you belt.
it'll serve you well, that's for sure.

I'm gonna let this thing slide, and blame it on Alcohol and the fact that she needs to work in the morning.....Perhaps she's a bit drunker(is that a word?) than she would like to admit.

We'll see tomorrow.

The Bad Ass Canadian

Dude my post had pretty much nothing to do with your post. Sorry about invading your post, but it made me feel a lot better. I knew you knew all that stuff, its common knowledge around here. Forgive my rant.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

on a different topic B.A.C (sorry for hijacking your thread lol)


How was your CAnada day celebration? mine was cut short because of sever thunderstorms...damnit i hate this region..

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Originally posted by SLIKKER_THAN_AVG
on a different topic B.A.C (sorry for hijacking your thread lol)


How was your CAnada day celebration? mine was cut short because of sever thunderstorms...damnit i hate this region..

I was actually out there playing the Camrose Festival last year in August, and I froze my Ass off.....lol. Alberta sure has some freak weather.

We had a good Canada Day. Lotsa beer and nice warm weather..hehe


The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Originally posted by digitalrat
Dude my post had pretty much nothing to do with your post. Sorry about invading your post, but it made me feel a lot better. I knew you knew all that stuff, its common knowledge around here. Forgive my rant.

Hey, no worries.

It wasn't a boring read, and might help others.

 

[silverwex]

Hey man, i agree with Bonhomme - it's prob. just her time of the month. Ignore it. My girl was really off with me last nioght but i just acted normally with her, not asking what was up and being (in a DJ way!) nice to her.

Itll pass.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian

We actually got on the topic of seduction/dating and I expressed my views on the subject....I got many funny faces when I mentioned some stuff that we discuss on this site. It was very broad and everyone agreed with me once I elaborated on it, so I don't think that was it.........or was it?

I think this is what put your girl off.

Its been said many times before but very few people (especially women) react positively to discussing the techniques from this forum or others.

Just look at the nasty reaction women have when they first hear about Doc Love's wait 5 to 9 nine days to call rule. They really blow a fuse. (Nevermind the fact that they use the same sh1t on us all the time.)

With your girl, you even "elaborated" on some of the techniques. She was probably sitting there thinking "He's pulled this exact same thing on me before and it worked. Have I just been played for over a year?"

Don't worry about it though. It'll blow over. Just ignore it, don't bring it up. Give her some time to get over it.

When she brings it up (she will), just tell her that your friends are really bad with women and you were just trying to help them out. You don't use this stuff with her. You are so comfortable with her, that you are just being yourself. Stick to this kind of line and it will blow over in no time.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Originally posted by Clint Eastwood
I went through something very similar with my ex GF. She seemed to be mad about something, and since I didn't really love her, I never pushed her to tell me what it was. Things gradually fell apart from there. She started acting more cold and disrespectful, until I had enough and just got rid of her.

This is almost a carbon copy of what happened me with my ex...

Osc.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
I think this is what put your girl off.

Its been said many times before but very few people (especially women) react positively to discussing the techniques from this forum or others.

Just look at the nasty reaction women have when they first hear about Doc Love's wait 5 to 9 nine days to call rule. They really blow a fuse. (Nevermind the fact that they use the same sh1t on us all the time.)

With your girl, you even "elaborated" on some of the techniques. She was probably sitting there thinking "He's pulled this exact same thing on me before and it worked. Have I just been played for over a year?"

Don't worry about it though. It'll blow over. Just ignore it, don't bring it up. Give her some time to get over it.

When she brings it up (she will), just tell her that your friends are really bad with women and you were just trying to help them out. You don't use this stuff with her. You are so comfortable with her, that you are just being yourself. Stick to this kind of line and it will blow over in no time.

The discussion was more about nice guys, and how that label is insulting. It wasn't about picking up women...more so I was discussing the way that people tell you to be yourself(when they really mean be nice).

She was fine the rest of the night, until tyhe walk home. *shrugs*


Awww well,

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[jive]

See, that's the problem - your Canadian.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

LOL

 

[Elimidate]

JustDoItAlways advice was dead on.

The reason she acted differently was to test you.

You have THREE options:

1) Whats wrong sweety, I didn't mean to make you mad.

lol..we all know thats going to sink your ship!

2) Get mad at her and overeact - "Whats wrong with you!"

You'll get your answer but this is exaclty what she wants you to do so that she can start yappin....or pull the classic 'If you don;t know then I'm not oging to tell you" line

3) Ignore it and assume as if nothing has happened at all.

Your best route!

You are who you are and thats why she likes you...you're intitled to your own point of view! If she didn't like it, then she should have debated your opinions instead of sulking and testing. Nonetheless, she will bring it up later for discussion next time you're alone.

Elimidate