Ok guys hopefully this will clear up some things for you regarding how and why I would get into the situations mentioned in my last post, and why they messed up my plan. I'm gonna keep this as brief as possible, because the STRUCTURE is what's important and not the words. Half of this is my own stuff, and half of it is from David DeAngelo.
Onward...
Here's the plan.
1. Meet girl. Memorize number. Call in 2-3 days.
2. BS on the phone. Be the first to end conversation WITHOUT making plans and WITHOUT saying, "I'll call you later" or "Call me this weekend". A simple "Ill talk to you later" shows your not desperate AND leaves the door open for her to call you.
3. If she hasn't called me, call her 2-3 days later, and invite her to do something THAT DAY.
If she is available, proceed to step 4.
If she can't, dont make other plans yet. Call again in a few days (or hopefully she will call you). Make plans this time to get together on a specific day. Leave it at that, then call her on that day around noon (or around 10:00 if its a lunch thing).
Sidenote: When you invite her out, don't say, "Do you want to..." Say , "I was thinking about _________. Sound good?"
4. Tell her to meet you at your place and you will drive from there. That way she has to come back to your place at the end. Give her directions and tell her to call you if she gets lost.
5. When she gets to your place open the door and say, "Let me turn off my computer real quick". Bring her inside and give her a QUICK tour, then rush her out.
6. Take her to your car, and open the door for her. Make sure it's clean.
7. Go to place. You pick the table. A GOLDEN TIP from David D. - If you know the place well, say, "Ok now don't look at the menu...You're just gonna have to trust me
" and order for both of you.
8. Lay back, make ****y funny jokes, tell funny stories and get her to do the same. Try to avoid the "Interview Script" (Where are you from, what do you do, have any siblings, etc.)
9. PAY for it, and leave a good tip. ( Please don't argue with me about this...I get more action then you do) If she offers to pay (which she should...One of my tests) say, "Don't worry about it. You can get the next one"
10. Either continue date somewhere else or skip to step 11.
11. Open car door for her (and all other doors of course). Drive back to your place. Park. Use DYD line, "Hmmm, I've got to get up early tomorrow and I've got some work to do, but I guess you can come in for a minute."
12. Keep distance from her and act uninterested while you get settled in.
13. Put on music.
14. Ask her if she'd like a glass of wine. Pour RED. I recommend Blackstone Merlot. Bonus points if you HAPPEN to have strawberries in your fridge.
15. Drink wine and have fun for a few. Kick back.
16. Smell her, and tell her she smells good. Stroke her hair and use David D. Kiss test.
17. Make sure you have fresh breath, a made bed, condoms, and an extra toothbrush. You're going to need it!
And gentlemen, that's how it's done!
P.S. I can only take credit for half of this stuff, cause half of it is taken directly from the Double Your Dating Advanced Series and the newsletters. If you're not on the free newsletter list you need to go to the website and sign up now, and if you haven't gotten the Advanced series and DYD book yet then you need to do so. He's even doing a free 30 day trial now, so no excuses!
Onward...
Here's the plan.
1. Meet girl. Memorize number. Call in 2-3 days.
2. BS on the phone. Be the first to end conversation WITHOUT making plans and WITHOUT saying, "I'll call you later" or "Call me this weekend". A simple "Ill talk to you later" shows your not desperate AND leaves the door open for her to call you.
3. If she hasn't called me, call her 2-3 days later, and invite her to do something THAT DAY.
If she is available, proceed to step 4.
If she can't, dont make other plans yet. Call again in a few days (or hopefully she will call you). Make plans this time to get together on a specific day. Leave it at that, then call her on that day around noon (or around 10:00 if its a lunch thing).
Sidenote: When you invite her out, don't say, "Do you want to..." Say , "I was thinking about _________. Sound good?"
4. Tell her to meet you at your place and you will drive from there. That way she has to come back to your place at the end. Give her directions and tell her to call you if she gets lost.
5. When she gets to your place open the door and say, "Let me turn off my computer real quick". Bring her inside and give her a QUICK tour, then rush her out.
6. Take her to your car, and open the door for her. Make sure it's clean.
7. Go to place. You pick the table. A GOLDEN TIP from David D. - If you know the place well, say, "Ok now don't look at the menu...You're just gonna have to trust me
" and order for both of you.8. Lay back, make ****y funny jokes, tell funny stories and get her to do the same. Try to avoid the "Interview Script" (Where are you from, what do you do, have any siblings, etc.)
9. PAY for it, and leave a good tip. ( Please don't argue with me about this...I get more action then you do
) If she offers to pay (which she should...One of my tests) say, "Don't worry about it. You can get the next one"10. Either continue date somewhere else or skip to step 11.
11. Open car door for her (and all other doors of course). Drive back to your place. Park. Use DYD line, "Hmmm, I've got to get up early tomorrow and I've got some work to do, but I guess you can come in for a minute."
12. Keep distance from her and act uninterested while you get settled in.
13. Put on music.
14. Ask her if she'd like a glass of wine. Pour RED. I recommend Blackstone Merlot. Bonus points if you HAPPEN to have strawberries in your fridge.
15. Drink wine and have fun for a few. Kick back.
16. Smell her, and tell her she smells good. Stroke her hair and use David D. Kiss test.
17. Make sure you have fresh breath, a made bed, condoms, and an extra toothbrush. You're going to need it!
And gentlemen, that's how it's done!
P.S. I can only take credit for half of this stuff, cause half of it is taken directly from the Double Your Dating Advanced Series and the newsletters. If you're not on the free newsletter list you need to go to the website and sign up now, and if you haven't gotten the Advanced series and DYD book yet then you need to do so. He's even doing a free 30 day trial now, so no excuses!
