My Friend

[InsidiousNstinct]

Alright to try to explain this as short as possible...

I got this friend and he was goin out with this girl, we'll call her "kim." Well my friend askes me to Instant message Kim and try to flirt with her to see if she'll flirt back and stuff.

Few days later kim breaks up with my friend, but we continue to talk. Now my friends mad because I talk to his EX.
Ive tried to explain to him that I don't want to date her we just talk online and on the phone.

He wants me to cut off all contact with her and I don't see why unless he's like insecure or something.

I told him I would, cuz like I said he's my friend.

I also told him that if she called me, or talked to me I wasn't gonna be out rude to her. Thats when he really got pissed about the whole situation. And said.....

"use logic and think about it.....i mean ur friend is talkin to your ex-girlfriend wut would you think about it and if you would remember i told you just to play her for a little while and get back to me on it but no you went beyond that......way beyond....you broke the code.. you just dont talk to your friend's ex. i mean think about it. now you are friends wit her..........my ex.........do you not think that pisses me off.....why wouldnt it."

I just don't know what to do I'm going through enough problems right now as it is being a senior and all.

I thought girls only had drama....sigh

Just tell me what u would do if you was in my shoes. Thanks

 

[icallug]

dude, who the **** cares. YOUR JUST TALKING TO HER! does he still care about her? do you want to be more than friends with her? if not then just tell him straight up that you are just friends with her, and he has no right telling you who your friends are. personally, like early this year a chick broke up with me, (usual, "things arent working") it wasnt until the summer i found out she broke up with me for my friend. but i dont really care. i have no feelings whatsoever towards this girl, so i could care less. they are happy together so i wont bother them.

 

[Drowning]

So...you have no interest whatsoever in dating this girl?

 

[Engetsu]

"Bros before hoes."

I'd say try cut off contact with her, even though it's his ex, since he asked you to. Normally, that's what I would do.

Had he not said a thing, you should've asked if he was okay with you still talking to her and pursuing a relationship with her.

This guy is your friend, and this situation may deteriorate your friendship. Strong frienship bonds between guys are hard to forge, while you can talk to any of the 3 billion minus one other girls on this planet. Think about it, what's losing one little fish going to do.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

I Don't want a relationship with her, we just talk. I really don't see why he's all pissed over all this.

 

[Gold Heart]

If he can't accept the fact that you don't have feelings for her, he's just being a jealous, insecure friend.