My friend. Weird natural DJ style???

[Demon of the Fall]

Hey ya'll I'm new here. I'll give a free cookie to the member who will guess which band's song is my user name Anyways, I'm 19 from Israel and I'm pretty new to the DJ ways, but don't worry I'm not going to annoy you guys with dumb question since if there's one thing I learned from reading around here is that it's much better to just find things out on my own, and since I'm really enjoying the game right now, I think I'll enjoy learning from my mistakes rather then asking dumb questions...

Anyways I wanted to tell you guys about my best friend. I read around here and though I found similar examples to what he used to do, I think he used really weird techniques that you guys might call AFC, but the final result was that this guy could get whatever chick he wanted. He is simply amazing and I saw him get one-night stands from girls after only saying about 15 words to them. I remember making a bet with him involving these two chicks that were new to our school. Basically it was that the winner will be the one to kiss close his girl first and the loser will buy him lunch. Somehow I knew I would lose, but I went on with it. So the next day it just so happens that him and me are walking in the park and we see a female friend of ours walking with the two aforementioned chicks. We can't believe our luck and we end up just the four of us hanging out. While I had some successes with my girl, my friend managed to have a full make-out session with his girl after about 2 hours. Bare in mind we have not said a word to these girls until that day. Just to show you how good he is. Here are some things about him that will make you understand how he is and how he makes his moves. Maybe we can come to some nice techniques out of this...

Lets start with the things that I find similar to the general DJ Idea:

• He is fairly good looking, is extremely in shape, he used to play in his country's national junior hand-ball team. That's about the physical aspects. I don't think it will matter much, hell people told me I look better than he does and it didn't get me anywhere...
  
• He is EXTREMELY competitive. He just has to be the best in everything he does, we would play soccer with some girls for fun and he'd be playing like his life depended on it. It obvious he was good at every physical game he wanted. I remember when he first came over we'd play basketball, now he wasn't too good, but then he'd just go and play everyday with any random guys he'd find at the court. Of course he was the best player in no time.
  
• He cooks really well, he is somewhat artistic and uses it to impress girls. Basically he makes these skills make him stand out from the rest.
  
• He is a kino master. He is always touchy with girls and I never saw anyone get a girl to be flirtatious as well as he does.
  
• He seemed to know exactly what to do in order to get a girl. I remember we were in Spain once and we were hanging with this group of girls. He was flirting with the hottest one, a blond HB10, but he told me he won't take it further because he had a g/f at that time. He told me exactly where and when he had to touch her for her in order for her to fall for him. Quote: "you know how simple this is? I just need to bump into her and that's all". So he kept this girl exactly where he wanted, he never used kino to make her cross the line. It's simply artistic...

So basically (there are more traits but I'll sum it up) this guy has a lot of skills, which he uses to stand out from the rest. He has to be good at everything he does and just projects ambition. He can flirt really well using kino and can get any girl to be playful. Add to that the fact that he is in shape and looks all right and you already have a successful DJ going on. But then there are some things he does I just didn't quite understand...

weird **** I don't understand:

• He used to get crushes (!), I know totally AFC, but let me tell you this story. When he first got to our school he couldn't really speak English and everyone thought he was a geek. So then he has this crush over this girl and he always talks about her. When he makes his move she shoots him down. Pretty bad eh? Well a month later he makes out with her and she's like his puppy. He then loses interest and she's just all over him and gets really obsessed... This happened a bunch of times; he would have a crush on a girl and would either get her right away or will have her fall for him later on. Thing is, he would be in-love all over his head with that girl.
  
  Then on the other hand when he didn't have a particular target on his mind he would be at his best, then he would just flirt with every girl in sight (we had a debate once on flirting and I said back then that I don't like it and I rather just get to the end result of the girl being mine. He replied that the game is all the fun in the relationship and through the game you find out if the girl is worth it, he said that the fun lays in trying to get the girl and see if you're up to it. Boy was he right). So basically he really enjoyed flirting and did it naturally.
  
• He had this weird flirting way, I can't find a better way to describe this other than the "little cute brother" way... He would act extremely immature, will get girls to little brother and sister fights. He would always pick on girls, will make dumb not-funny jokes and then get pissed off when people laughed at him. But he will always do this in a very no-threatening way. Its like girls would never be mad at him because everything will be on this childish level...
  
• Here's another example of the weird way he used to flirt: We were in France at this youth hotel and we were both kinda drunk so I just played along with everything he did. On our way to our room he decided to just start knocking on other people's doors. So he knocks on this door and this chick opens up looking really tired and weirded out. He then asks her if she's Austrian since earlier we talked about how we hated Austrian people (long story). And she's like "no" but he doesn't stop and keeps going on and on about it. We then go and knock on every other door at the whole corridor and he uses the same question. 10 minutes later we sit on the floor of the corridor with about 15 girls all around us and we just crack everyone up. He managed to get girls out of whatever things they were doing, in their pajamas to sit with us and crack up to whatever drunk joke we'd make, only using the Austrian joke thing... I still don't understand how he'd do that.

Any input on this guys? I never quite understood how he managed to do the things he did, and being the master DJ he was, I really want to understand it...

 

[Julian]

Damn man, how do you get to travel to these different countries? Now thats some international pimpin. Im goin back home to germany next year and my uncle and i (hes 24) are going to do mad pimping in Paris and London and whereever ya heard.

On to your question...

Why not just attempt to emulate his style? I knew a dude who was kind of like this but he never got chicks so i guess that doesnt count lol.

 

[Demon of the Fall]

Haha well I lived abroad a lot and at the end of my 12th year I travelled with this guy for a month and a half all over Europe. It was most definatly the best time of my life...

As for emulating his style, well I've tried that a few times and it simply doesn't work. It's probably because I don't really understand everything about it. That's why I asked for you guys' help. I can try imitate him, but I can't get in his mindset, I can't get girls to feel this free about flirting on this childish, almost annoying level...

 

[IrReSiStIbLe]

Maybe ur friend is... Pook.... DOOM DOOM DOOM...

 

[Ill_Nino]

GOTDAMN MAN

My best friend is exactly the same way. He gets way more girls then I do and people say we looks alike. I guess some people are naturally born like this.

 

[thecraftylefty]

Demon of the Fall,

I suggest you stick around your friend and learn as much from him as possible. Wing together. Just watch and observe what he does and integrate it into your style. You'll get so much more from seeing it in action than ever reading and comtemplating about it on here. Trust me.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty

 

[becker]

Much of what I've learned was from my cousin, who was like my brother when we were growing up. However, he was always the outgoing one while I was more shy and reserved.

After being around him a lot, I found that when I was on my own, I'd incorporate his type of attitude into my personality. It just sort of starts to grow on you, and you pick it up just by being around it. You don't need to be a carbon copy, you just need to get his "vibe" or attitude, and the rest you play by ear.

 

[Mr. Mystery]

Your friend reminds me of well...me.

My style is similiar in the way that I act very childish and goofy, but I always get everyone around me involved in the fun.

Usually whatever I'm doing is kinda stupid, and people make fun of me for it, but I'm confident in myself enough to not care what they think and laugh along with them. Eventually they are joining in on whatever goofy thing it is at the time.

The secret to your friends success is that he knows who he is and is just being himself regardless of what others around him think, and he is enjoying himself and getting others around him to join his little fun reality.

And his use of kino throughout his escapades brings out his sexual side.

So you end up with a guy that is very self assured, fun, and sexual.

I wouldn't reccommend that you copy his style. Very bad idea. Figure out your own style and let people into your fun little reality.

Mr. Mystery

 

[Enduro]

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