My eyes just opened

[prowler13]

Hey Guys,
Ok. I had a friend refer me to the book & I can't stop reading. Now that I'm analyising what I do, I went looking on the web & found you guys, so you can imagine my enthusiasm. Anyway, one of the major questions I had, or problem I seem to keep running into is not meeting some chick & getting her number. I'm not great at it yet or anything, but I can manage to grab my balls and talk to some chick thats starring at me. Most of the time I'm bored out of my mind with the conversation, but my problem lies between the time I get her # and getting her into bed. They always seem to loose interest, loose my number, lol, or both. Since you guys have been at this longer than me.... what do you think. PS. I'm 24, so these girls are generally at bars, clubs, etc
Prowler

 

[Mintyfresh]

everybody is gonna tell you to read the DJ bible, and probably 'double your dating' by david deangelo as a starting point for your path to becoming a DJ

so get to it

 

[flexion_]

Well why is the conversation boring? Most likely because you are boring... fix that.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Originally posted by flexion_
Well why is the conversation boring? Most likely because you are boring... fix that.

Uh no. Conversation between two people involves two people.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Originally posted by flexion_
Well why is the conversation boring? Most likely because you are boring... fix that.

Uh no. Conversation between two people involves two people to each other, about each other, and asking questions about each other.

 

[flexion_]

Good conversation skills involve making the other person talk. Remember we are talking about the timeframe from when he gets her number to sex that "they" lose interest. It must be all the woman's fault each time right?

 

[Bible_Belt]

these girls are generally at bars, clubs

Try approaching someplace else, and see if the women work out a little better. I don't expect much out of anyone I meet in a bar.