My Experiences with Cold Approaching Part 3

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In part 2 I defined success based on two categories..

1. Percentage of women of whom I successfully obtained their phone numbers.

2. Percentage of women of whom I successfully had physical, sexual contact with.

Lets talk about those percentages, as to what defines a high percentage?

Well, think I was watching a MrLocario video, and he stated that a good success rate/percentage would be 30% or better. I think this is a honest and fair goal to obtain.

What is 30%?

That means that for every 10 women that I ask for her number, I must manage to get at least 3 of them. And out of those 3, I must get into physical contact with at least one of them.

Very obtainable goals, don't you think?

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Now, I've kept some stats on 6 months worth of cold approaches...from September 2021, to March of 2022, and I am PROUD TO SAY that when it was all said and done, I was above 30% in both categories!! I accomplished my goals.

Before I share with you all the stats, just need to set some parameters...

I've cold approached between 75-100 women in 6 months...it is hard to tell the total number of women that I approached, because I only cared about the women who meet the qualifications of..

1. Having big titties (relative to her body size)
2. Identified as being single

So, the magic number is 48.

Out of 48 women that I approached that meet the above 2 criteria...

48 total
Rejected: 31
Accepted: 17
Percentage: 35%

I am pleased that I was able to never drop below the 30% mark. There was one time where I was in the low 40's, which had me feeling great about myself. However, the rejections came lol. But, "when you pray for rain, you got to deal with the mud too".

Nevertheless, the 6 months was a success.

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However, we all know that once you get the number and even if you and her have those meaningful conversations, that STILL does not guarantee you will accomplish #2 (sexual, physical contact). That is a whole new ball game. Just because you make the playoffs doesn't mean that you will win the championship or even make it to the finals. You still got some work to do.

But still, even with that being said, I am PROUD TO SAY that I was over 30%, even in the #2 category.

So, out of 17 women that I got the number and had meaningful conversations with...

17 total
No go: 11
Go: 6
Percentage: 33% (it is supposed to be 35%, but there was wildcard type of situation that dropped the percentage down a bit)

And looking back in hindsight, the percentage could have been higher had I been a little more direct/assertive with some of the women (more on that in another post), but nevertheless, I am over 30% and that is all that matters.

So, that is 6 women that I had sexual contact with in 6 months. That is one fresh piece of puzzy per month.

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That may not seem like a lot, but I wouldn't even have gotten the 6 if I didn't have the balls to approach the women in the first place.

Those results were based on my own confidence and determination to go after what I wanted. You will win some, and you will lose some. But you can't win if you don't. play.

In the wild, lions don't eat if they don't hunt. They may not win the pursuit every time, but they continue to hunt.

As men, we are to go after what we want; win, lose, or draw.

Remember, at the end of the day, it is all a numbers game..the more you play, the more of a chance you have to win.

Part 3 I will take you through every single one of my successes...all 17 of them.
 

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So, that is 6 women that I had sexual contact with in 6 months. That is one fresh piece of puzzy per month.
One new vag per month based on simple conversations at Walmart with big breasted women is good.

With the big breasts on women who are not overweight, do you prefer big naturals or big breast implants?
 

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Essentially, talking for one minute or less cold to 2 women a week, and pulling down 1 sexual encounter a month as a result, is possibly the most effective use of time I may have ever heard of. Nice work.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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One new vag per month based on simple conversations at Walmart with big breasted women is good.

With the big breasts on women who are not overweight, do you prefer big naturals or big breast implants?
Nahhh man I like naturals and despise implants lol.
 

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Essentially, talking for one minute or less cold to 2 women a week, and pulling down 1 sexual encounter a month as a result, is possibly the most effective use of time I may have ever heard of. Nice work.
Thank you.
 

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Posts like this are the reason I return to this site. Way to go!

Have you been able to convert any of your lays to plates and put them on rotation, or have they been one night stands?

I prefer in-person approaching to OLD, though I believe it has its merits. I’ll post some field reports in the near future.
 
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It is painful for me to talk alpha-game to guys that ain't alpha-males.
Man, there's nothing alpha in going to Walmart and begging for pvssy. ;)
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don’t be a ****. Support our guy. Write your own field report
What he's doing is demeaning for a man and potentially dangerous for one's reputation. Imagine if he gets filmed/photographed and shared on social media....who wants to be known as 'that guy' that walks around Walmart bothering women with
"Dang, you cute. Are you single?"
He might not give a shyt, but there are young, impressionable guys reading this, that's why I commented on it.
 

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Man, there's nothing alpha in going to Walmart and begging for pvssy. ;)
See, that's how I know you ain't an alpha...because all true Alphas know that you can cold approach ANYWHERE.

You can cold approach at a damn funeral if the bytch bad enough.

But this high level of game aint meant for low level mentalities, as only true alpha-wolves can understand, appreciate, and execute these concepts.
 

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What he's doing is demeaning for a man and potentially dangerous for one's reputation. Imagine if he gets filmed/photographed and shared on social media....who wants to be known as 'that guy' that walks around Walmart bothering women with
How in the F#CK is asking a woman if she is single bothering her?

Beta males are running rampant on this forum...and it is disgusting.

He might not give a shyt, but there are young, impressionable guys reading this, that's why I commented on it.
Look, a white knight is here to save the worlddddd.

Foh.
 

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How in the F#CK is asking a woman if she is single bothering her?
How are beggars asking 'spare some change' bothering anyone? People go to Walmart or any other supermarket to shop, not be annoyed by people asking them for access to their wallet or their pvssy.
 

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How are beggars asking 'spare some change' bothering anyone?
"You are cute...are you single?"

*Yes*

"Bet. May I have your number for a dinner/movie thing?"

If you call that begging, then you and I have different definitions of the word "begging".

You obviously don't have a logical, fact-based critique of anything I've been saying, so all you can do is manipulate the situation by making it something that it clearly isn't, which goes to show the lengths people will try to do to discredit something that they've never tried and/or know nothing about.

People go to Walmart or any other supermarket to shop, not be annoyed by people asking them for access to their wallet or their pvssy.
That's the point; the women go there to shop, but they come out with a fine, stud of a man (me) that has just come into their lives.

I don't expect you to understand sh!t like that, because you don't have the mentality that is needed to understand.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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"You are cute...are you single?"

*Yes*

"Bet. May I have your number for a dinner/movie thing?"

If you call that begging, then you and I have different definitions of the word "begging".
https://www.thefreedictionary.com/begging you approach strangers, not for money but for pvssy (dinner/movie...yeah right, who do you think you're kidding?) :lol:
That's the point; the women go there to shop, but they come out with a fine, stud of a man (me) that has just come into their lives.
If that was the case, you wouldn't have to resort to cold approaching, because: 1. you'd have women from your social circle putting themselves in your orbit. 2. women from Walmart, the gym or wherever you go would signal (looking at you, smiling, etc) that they want to be approached.
 

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Cold approaching is how it has always been done. I did my first cold approaches in 1996.

This site is called SOSUAVE. A suave approach is not begging. It is normal and natural. A player is not afraid to approach a woman.

I’m 45, so I don’t know if it’s a generational issue, but I do know my millennial/gen z coworkers are shy AF. Maybe that explains the resistance to this form of game?

It takes time to get comfortable with it and you learn to read the room and know when and when not to approach and how to proceed based on feedback you’re receiving.
 

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https://www.thefreedictionary.com/begging you approach strangers, not for money but for pvssy (dinner/movie...yeah right, who do you think you're kidding?) :lol:
Ok, I am begging.

I am begging for puzzy, and I am getting the puzzy that I beg for.

I can live with that.

If that was the case, you wouldn't have to resort to cold approaching, because: 1. you'd have women from your social circle putting themselves in your orbit.
Oh, you have a social circle? Did you have to beg everyone in your social circle to be friends with you and accept you?

Sounds beta to me.

2. women from Walmart, the gym or wherever you go would signal (looking at you, smiling, etc) that they want to be approached.
"Unless a woman smiles at me, I will never get puzzy".

That is basically what you are saying.

Beta talk, beta mentality.

We need to change that kind of sucka mentality if we want to increase our chances with women.
 

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Cold approaching is how it has always been done. I did my first cold approaches in 1996.

This site is called SOSUAVE. A suave approach is not begging. It is normal and natural. A player is not afraid to approach a woman.

I’m 45, so I don’t know if it’s a generational issue, but I do know my millennial/gen z coworkers are shy AF. Maybe that explains the resistance to this form of game?

It takes time to get comfortable with it and you learn to read the room and know when and when not to approach and how to proceed based on feedback you’re receiving.
I agree. Most guys are just afraid to approach women, plain and simple.

And they have the nerve to hate on other guys who have the BALLS to do something that they are terrified to do.

Blows my mind.
 

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I agree. Most guys are just afraid to approach women, plain and simple.

And they have the nerve to hate on other guys who have the BALLS to do something that they are terrified to do.

Blows my mind.

I think I read somewhere the profession that gets the most sex are sales people. The least, are the professions that deal with "analyzing" -- (scientist, researcher, etc.)

Huhm... I wonder what would make sales people have so much sex? I mean they do "beg" to have people buy their products, etc... That's basically what they do for a living. What skill do they have that makes them get so much sex? I just can't put my finger on it... Maybe those dorks at the neighborhood research department may know. They do a lot of thinking, but for some reason never seem to get laid. I'll ask them for advice, and do the complete opposite.
 
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