my EX girlfriend who I had broken up with the previous year is coming to visit this holiday season during break from college. she's comin back to her hometown and she wanted to visit me and hang out again. we were talkin the other day for hours on AIM and cell and it seems like she wants to rekindle an old flame or at least see if I had changed. I haven't seen her since I broke up with her last february. do u think there's anything I should expect? I want to **** her badly but I want to take it slow, its quite obvious that she wants to mess around. any advice would be appreciated greatly.