my ex called me last night wanting to hang out

[foomee]

So I get a call last night from my ex and she's complaining that she's bored. I ask her why and she goes into all this detail explaining how her life sucks... apparently she's been playing 5 guys at once and they all sorta know each other and they found out and got mad. So she can't be with them anymore. She begged to come over to my place, but I said... "no sorry. I have better things to do" and she's like, "why are you being so mean? what's that supposed to mean?" and i'm like, "you know what? you're the one who broke up with me, and until i'm ready, we can't hang out" then she says fine and hangs up.
Did I handle this alright?
...except later on last night I was drunk and texted her to come over...... she said no.

 

[backbreaker]

you had it until the last part. and I doubt you were drunk

 

[inzone50]

i would've said i got things to do...i'll call you sometime...when i'm bored(jokingly)

Be a challenge, but you said you got better things to do so you basically dissed her. And you texted her to early when she was still mad at you.

and the "untill i'm ready" shows you still got feeling for her sounded wussy to me.

 

[In2theGame]

you had it until the last part. and I doubt you were drunk

LOL funny how the things i am thinking, you already post. J/K

 

[mrRuckus]

Did I handle this alright?

That was terrible. The correct response would have been the call going to voicemail.

 

[In2theGame]

So I get a call last night from my ex and she's complaining that she's bored. I ask her why and she goes into all this detail explaining how her life sucks... apparently she's been playing 5 guys at once and they all sorta know each other and they found out and got mad. So she can't be with them anymore. She begged to come over to my place, but I said... "no sorry. I have better things to do" and she's like, "why are you being so mean? what's that supposed to mean?" and i'm like, then she says fine and hangs up.
Did I handle this alright?
...except later on last night I was drunk and texted her to come over...... she said no.

You handled it good until the end. i would have not said "you know what? you're the one who broke up with me, and until i'm ready, we can't hang out" if she broke your heart, i would of strung her along and act like i care, get a lay and then leave her alone. CAUTION:<~~ That type of attitude will have her calling you again to "hang out". Funny how girls like getting treated like crap sometimes. She played 5 guys and "Her Life sucks" Give me a Fvcking Break!

 

[pimpaholicskip]

STOP ANALYZING

all you had to do was let her come over cuz she obviously wanted to have sex

you are a player, a man, why did u reject her if u obviously wanted to **** her???

just go with the flow and stop caring or analyzing

you are upset at her for being your ex or somethin? Why do u hate her so much?

A chump will say what you said.
A player would say "sure come over", then have a few drinks with her, give the slut what she wants, and then kick her out

and then she'll call you 10 times the next day

 

[DJDamage]

apparently she's been playing 5 guys at once and they all sorta know each other and they found out and got mad.

You did the right thing. It didn't really matter how you said it, the thing that mattered is that you didn't go out and see her. She doesn't deserve your presence.

This b1tch is bored at this moment because none of the 5 guys want to talk to her so here she is calling you (wow you must have felt special). Since she broke up with you, she called you because she wanted you to entertain her until business will pick up again (and I am not talking sex, in all likelyhood you would be her pet dancing monkey to make her laugh and amuse her). As soon as business picks up she will disappeared again.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

... and i'm like, "you know what? you're the one who broke up with me, and until i'm ready, we can't hang out" ....

You were good until this point. You sound as if you aren't over her and that there is a chance of the two of you getting together. Could have just said "Way too much drama for me to be involved in even if we were still dating."

 

[Master Bates]

She dumps you from her life, then after five guys she's playing don't want to hang out with her, she resorts to asking you. Yeah I'd say it's a good idea to stay away from her.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

She dumps you from her life, then after five guys she's playing don't want to hang out with her, she resorts to asking you. Yeah I'd say it's a good idea to stay away from her.

What he said.

 

[mintxx]

despite being functionally illiterate, skip2mylou/pimpaholicskip/other skip alias is on the money. do what he says.

 

[foomee]

You did the right thing. It didn't really matter how you said it, the thing that mattered is that you didn't go out and see her. She doesn't deserve your presence.

This b1tch is bored at this moment because none of the 5 guys want to talk to her so here she is calling you (wow you must have felt special). Since she broke up with you, she called you because she wanted you to entertain her until business will pick up again (and I am not talking sex, in all likelyhood you would be her pet dancing monkey to make her laugh and amuse her). As soon as business picks up she will disappeared again.

That makes a lot of sense. But yeah, having sex and playing 5 different guys is not something I really respect. For a second I thought she may genuinely miss me or still have feelings for me, but now I realize that she's just an attention seeking ***** that doesn't deserve my company for one second. :]