my dad claims that he had a lot of women chasing him when he was young

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hes also very vulgar


yet i saw him crying many times and now hes really sad,insecure, jealous (towards my mom, about nothing) and paranoid person


was he really "Chad"?

so chads can degrade to normie/incel?

or hewas not chad at all?
 

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hes also very vulgar


yet i saw him crying many times and now hes really sad,insecure, jealous (towards my mom, about nothing) and paranoid person


was he really "Chad"?

so chads can degrade to normie/incel?

or hewas not chad at all?
Chads can degrade to normie and later oldcel.

He probably was a Chad or Chadlite back in the day.
 

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Times were definitely different. My dad tells me all kinds of stories. He was a boy scout when he was young and worked hard. From what he has told me he doesn’t sound like he was ever chad like at all but he had many women come on to him.
 

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He probably had a lot of women chasing him but didn't act on it, or didn't believe in himself enough to take advantage. Now he's looking back in regret wishing he could've been the man he know's he could have been. So he cries looking back knowing he is still the weak beta that never broke free from the shell that's been holding him in his entire life.
 

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You are looking at your future pal
 

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I have a friend who is convinced women are always hitting on him even when they aren't. I can just imagine the BS he will shovel to his kids someday about being a real ladies man when nothing could be further from the truth
 

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I have a friend who is convinced women are always hitting on him even when they aren't. I can just imagine the BS he will shovel to his kids someday about being a real ladies man when nothing could be further from the truth
We have a poster here who thought that another female poster was leading him on or hitting on him, when she is clearly not, more towards having pity on him.

And he keeps messaging her.

The poor fool keeps getting rejected but he can't accept a no as a NO.

Then he got banned for harassment.
 

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OP this is like the 3rd or 4th thread abt ur dad?

And its always nothing nice you say abt him.

You might not like him but you need to respect him for feeding, housing and protecting you when you were a defenceless baby up until you're an adult who basically does nothing.

Perhaps it's time you buck up, get a job, prove to ur dad that u r a man by bravely moving on with ur own life rather then leaching on his.
 

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I don't know you or your father, so I can't make a conclusion. However, it is highly possible that your father did, in his day score many victories with women.

Times change and so do people. Sometimes both.

Personally, I now have to put forth effort. In the past, it was rare if I did. As mentioned above Times (attitudes) change and so do people (which includes all of us).

In the above postings, where you are criticized (but with no constructive advice) or where your father was criticized, consider the source(s).
Seriously.
These people are blatantly walking more wounded than your father ever will be. The only way they believe that they can increase their own self-image (and sadly, to unknown forum members) is to post in a flexing, yet self-telling manner.
 

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In the above postings, where you are criticized (but with no constructive advice) or where your father was criticized, consider the source(s).
Seriously.
These people are blatantly walking more wounded than your father ever will be. The only way they believe that they can increase their own self-image (and sadly, to unknown forum members) is to post in a flexing, yet self-telling manner.
This must be directed towards Spaz.

You must still be bitter since our last exchange of words.

Can't press the ignore button and make a proud announcement that you did it?

Just so you know, you have my permission to do so.
 

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I still have to find an old man that when was young didnt had a lot of women, they are as common as old men at the gym that remind us that when they were our age they were lifting more than us or the same weight but more times.
 

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I think Chad gets softer in their old age. OP, what you posted about your dad is similar to my stepdad. He was a 6’3 buff alpha male. Army vet. Up until he got cancer at 80 he never looked a day over 65. Had young women hitting on him all the time. He talked about how much pvssy he got when he was in the army over in Korea. Then when he got back he was slaying women like crazy up until my mom in 1984 who somehow managed to strap him down. But one thing that did change is that the last couple years of his life when he got cancer he really softened up a lot. He got an emotional side to him that took the whole family by a strong surprise. He’s the last guy I would have ever expected to be like that.
 

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