EVU
New Member
I have been reading the forum for a while and was very impressed with the community here, so i decided to join in.
Here it goes... I am 20, quite good looking, and definitely confident. My "career" with women has been moderately successful and I consider my DJ ability to be relatively decent.
Recently I have gotten in contact with a girl that I went to school with, although we didn't know each other while there, I was quite aware of her existence. Nothing new, right?
However, after a lot of communication (btw I study abroad and we are in different countries atm) I think I have fallen for a girl OVER THE INTERNET! Nothing new, again... All of us have been there.
In this situation I actually am sure that she is what I need! Not bang and boot, but genuine human attraction...
So what is curious about this? I am about to step into a "new" territory here... She is a strong individual, with good upbringing. Has a very strong father figure (her dad) and thus far no obvious complexes. Yes, academically smart, very attractive and very clever. To top it of she has a very feisty personality.
For me this is treading into unknown. I will see her in a week and for the first time in my life I am intimidated by a girl. She is definitely responding in a positive way to me, but I genuinely want to make it work.
My issue is that I have little to noting to plan a strategy with. I am fully aware that in person communication is different. And I am certain that more will be revealed when we get more acquainted. But for now I have no plan... How do i go upon conquering a girl like this?
P.S. Sorry if i sound desperate, no matter how much i like her i will not lose my "cool" and by no mean seem desperate. I just want to make it work.
Any ideas? Experiences? Suggestions?
Thank you guys in advance.
Here it goes... I am 20, quite good looking, and definitely confident. My "career" with women has been moderately successful and I consider my DJ ability to be relatively decent.
Recently I have gotten in contact with a girl that I went to school with, although we didn't know each other while there, I was quite aware of her existence. Nothing new, right?
However, after a lot of communication (btw I study abroad and we are in different countries atm) I think I have fallen for a girl OVER THE INTERNET! Nothing new, again... All of us have been there.
In this situation I actually am sure that she is what I need! Not bang and boot, but genuine human attraction...
So what is curious about this? I am about to step into a "new" territory here... She is a strong individual, with good upbringing. Has a very strong father figure (her dad) and thus far no obvious complexes. Yes, academically smart, very attractive and very clever. To top it of she has a very feisty personality.
For me this is treading into unknown. I will see her in a week and for the first time in my life I am intimidated by a girl. She is definitely responding in a positive way to me, but I genuinely want to make it work.
My issue is that I have little to noting to plan a strategy with. I am fully aware that in person communication is different. And I am certain that more will be revealed when we get more acquainted. But for now I have no plan... How do i go upon conquering a girl like this?
P.S. Sorry if i sound desperate, no matter how much i like her i will not lose my "cool" and by no mean seem desperate. I just want to make it work.
Any ideas? Experiences? Suggestions?
Thank you guys in advance.