Some of you might remember the thread I made about this last summer.
My cousin is an older guy who is fat, ugly, and balding. He owns multiple businesses in another state that are run by his business manager.
His "girlfriend" is a 41 yr old Latina who smokes meth. They met on Seeking Arrangements. She has been doing meth most of her life. It's hard to tell she does meth besides that she is really thin. He thinks she is super hot and is obsessed with the porn style sex they have. She has no job and he pays for everything in her life including her meth and trips to the casino. The woman is a master manipulator. Last summer, she stole thousands from him and he kicked her to the curb. He cried about her and said he was in love with her. Within a couple months, she was able to weasel herself back in.
It's none of my business what he spends his money on but he's ruining his life. He thinks he will live happily ever after with her. My dad and I have tried to talk to him recently about what he's doing. It didn't go well. It is now to the point where he has unfriended my parents on FB and is not speaking to them. The rest of our family already stopped talking to him and his parents are both dead. My parents and I were the only ones that hadn't given up on him. Now my parents don't think I should speak to him. I'm kind of confused on what to do. I'm now the only family member he has left but I'm sick of what he's doing and I'm not happy about him cutting my parents off.
What would you guys do in this situation? Just walk away? What he doesn't realize is that he will have no one once things go to shVt with this girl.
My cousin is an older guy who is fat, ugly, and balding. He owns multiple businesses in another state that are run by his business manager.
His "girlfriend" is a 41 yr old Latina who smokes meth. They met on Seeking Arrangements. She has been doing meth most of her life. It's hard to tell she does meth besides that she is really thin. He thinks she is super hot and is obsessed with the porn style sex they have. She has no job and he pays for everything in her life including her meth and trips to the casino. The woman is a master manipulator. Last summer, she stole thousands from him and he kicked her to the curb. He cried about her and said he was in love with her. Within a couple months, she was able to weasel herself back in.
It's none of my business what he spends his money on but he's ruining his life. He thinks he will live happily ever after with her. My dad and I have tried to talk to him recently about what he's doing. It didn't go well. It is now to the point where he has unfriended my parents on FB and is not speaking to them. The rest of our family already stopped talking to him and his parents are both dead. My parents and I were the only ones that hadn't given up on him. Now my parents don't think I should speak to him. I'm kind of confused on what to do. I'm now the only family member he has left but I'm sick of what he's doing and I'm not happy about him cutting my parents off.
What would you guys do in this situation? Just walk away? What he doesn't realize is that he will have no one once things go to shVt with this girl.
