hello i'm new here.
i am getting closer and closer to the end of college and i will have had no dates or anything from girls at this school (although i have hooked-up before but mainly with girls who have less self-respect than me and are maybe a 6/10 at the highest -- i'll admit it). plus it doesn't help that this campus is so dry. hardly any clubs or social activities going on on-campus, especially during the weekends. it is especially dry here on the weekends and it's annoying. and i can never find anyone to go to a bar or club with. i hate going to those places alone. i have hardly any friends and the friends i do have never seem to want to go with me to a bar or some place so i can maybe meet some more girls.
and yes, i did read some of the DJ Bible. good read by the way. my main problem with all of this is that i have been so unmotivated to even have a social life or a gf lately because of my situation. so obviously it would be why i have no social life or gf. but i don't know what it is. i just feel so unmotivated to do it because i rarely connect with people. my interests are so different from other people. i just feel like an idiot when i try to meet new people. i start saying some random **** pertaining to their topic and then all of the sudden they are like wtf. so then it makes me just more quiet. i just never know what to talk about with people. i am in a club for one of my interests, but i still don't even connect with them very well. i've totally lost any interest in even trying with this stuff lately and i guess i just need some help with all of this.
i am getting closer and closer to the end of college and i will have had no dates or anything from girls at this school (although i have hooked-up before but mainly with girls who have less self-respect than me and are maybe a 6/10 at the highest -- i'll admit it). plus it doesn't help that this campus is so dry. hardly any clubs or social activities going on on-campus, especially during the weekends. it is especially dry here on the weekends and it's annoying. and i can never find anyone to go to a bar or club with. i hate going to those places alone. i have hardly any friends and the friends i do have never seem to want to go with me to a bar or some place so i can maybe meet some more girls.
and yes, i did read some of the DJ Bible. good read by the way. my main problem with all of this is that i have been so unmotivated to even have a social life or a gf lately because of my situation. so obviously it would be why i have no social life or gf. but i don't know what it is. i just feel so unmotivated to do it because i rarely connect with people. my interests are so different from other people. i just feel like an idiot when i try to meet new people. i start saying some random **** pertaining to their topic and then all of the sudden they are like wtf. so then it makes me just more quiet. i just never know what to talk about with people. i am in a club for one of my interests, but i still don't even connect with them very well. i've totally lost any interest in even trying with this stuff lately and i guess i just need some help with all of this.