MDgood
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I just saw the post about www.guygetsgirl.com. haha... what a riot... "only a woman knows what a woman wants", eh? BULLSHYT! I was in the process of responding to that post, but I figured a better one would be to describe my own AFC story to show how much crap that quote is. It's a tearjerker, guys, so be ready to grab the tissues.
I grew up in a family with a five extremely strong willed, confident women, along with my dad and my brother. My sisters and mom coddled me... I was obviously the favorite boy in the house. My brother, however, hated them, and they hated him. One sister would ignore the nice guys and opt only for the guys with a lot of money... she's now married to the CFO of a huge, major Fortune 500 company. Two sisters would ignore the nice guys and go for the "bad boys"... one got pregnant at an early age, the other married one of these bad boys and divorced him after 7 years of verbal and physical abuse. They're now both married to "nice guys". One sister, believe it or not, was a very nice girl, went for the nice guys, married a guy who was good to her, and now has a nice life with three nice kids and a nice husband... but the other three were typical.
I would listen in as my older sisters would return from dates, trashing the very guys who earlier had been such gentlemen to them. They would mock them and pick at every little detail of what they did. They would soak up the attention from these guys, brag about it to each other, and to their friends... they relished their control over these guys and played with them like toys. They would lie to them and make purposefully lame excuses about why they didn't want to go out with them. It was all about their control and their power over guys.
At the same time, they would be brainwashing me with crap like, "make sure you treat women really nice", "women want a guy who respects them...", "be a gentleman...", "women like to be romanced..." Looking back on it, it was absolutely awful. Yeah, they're right about these things when it's an LTR who you want to marry, but doing these things won't get you a damned first date to begin with.
My brother, however, would have none of this brainwashing crap, went out and did as he pleased with women, more than likely because he was sick of the shyt he was putting up with at home. This is why my brother got laid more times than a mattress tester, and I am by far the better looking of the two of us. My brother once phucked three roommates in one night, in two hours' time... the roommates did not find out about it for a month. On more than one occassion he met a waitress at a restaurant, and was phucking her in the back before the check came. He has well over a hundred conquests, but even he has no clue how many women he's done now. Years later I still find myself being backed away from by women who were totally taken advantage of by my brother, and are scared that I'm going to do it to them, too.
Me? Ahhhhh... I RESPECTED women! I would try to TALK to them and see what they were FEELING! I would try SHARING with them! I would bring them FLOWERS if I were interested in them!
AND I WAS A TOTAL FAILURE THROUGHOUT HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE!!! I ONLY GOT LAID BY ACCIDENT!!! IT WAS AWFUL!!!! I was blown off by women outright, ignored, treated like dirt, and even though I was a very goodlooking guy (my female friends put me at over a 9), I wasn't given the time of day. I was played with and given the LJBF thing over and over again. I was AFC.
And why was this? How could one brother have put porno stars to shame while the other couldn't get laid in a *****house? The answer is easy: I listened to women about what women wanted!!! I ate that crap up hook, line, and sinker! And I paid a heavy, heavy price. I ended up becoming shy, bitter, and emotionally broke.
But there's a happy ending to this story. Sometime in my mid-20s I realized just how much bullshyt I had been told when I was younger, I reflected back on all those things that girls had said and done to me, I thought about my brother, and it all clicked. I understood women. I suddenly recognized that it's not so much that women have no clue what they want. It's the fact that they are traditionally the pursued gender, the keepers of the "yes/no" when it comes to a guy, they choose, they pick, it's all about them, they control, and they become arrogant with this power. And I realized something else that's very, very important: Women are so arrogant with this power that they never consider for a second that a skilled guy can use this to his advantage, and twist her emotions to give him anything he wants. In a sense, victory and conquest does not go to the man who merely knocks the woman off her high horse, it goes to the man who knows how to lead the horse! Since that day, life has been fun, and it's been on my terms.
I grew up in a family with a five extremely strong willed, confident women, along with my dad and my brother. My sisters and mom coddled me... I was obviously the favorite boy in the house. My brother, however, hated them, and they hated him. One sister would ignore the nice guys and opt only for the guys with a lot of money... she's now married to the CFO of a huge, major Fortune 500 company. Two sisters would ignore the nice guys and go for the "bad boys"... one got pregnant at an early age, the other married one of these bad boys and divorced him after 7 years of verbal and physical abuse. They're now both married to "nice guys". One sister, believe it or not, was a very nice girl, went for the nice guys, married a guy who was good to her, and now has a nice life with three nice kids and a nice husband... but the other three were typical.
I would listen in as my older sisters would return from dates, trashing the very guys who earlier had been such gentlemen to them. They would mock them and pick at every little detail of what they did. They would soak up the attention from these guys, brag about it to each other, and to their friends... they relished their control over these guys and played with them like toys. They would lie to them and make purposefully lame excuses about why they didn't want to go out with them. It was all about their control and their power over guys.
At the same time, they would be brainwashing me with crap like, "make sure you treat women really nice", "women want a guy who respects them...", "be a gentleman...", "women like to be romanced..." Looking back on it, it was absolutely awful. Yeah, they're right about these things when it's an LTR who you want to marry, but doing these things won't get you a damned first date to begin with.
My brother, however, would have none of this brainwashing crap, went out and did as he pleased with women, more than likely because he was sick of the shyt he was putting up with at home. This is why my brother got laid more times than a mattress tester, and I am by far the better looking of the two of us. My brother once phucked three roommates in one night, in two hours' time... the roommates did not find out about it for a month. On more than one occassion he met a waitress at a restaurant, and was phucking her in the back before the check came. He has well over a hundred conquests, but even he has no clue how many women he's done now. Years later I still find myself being backed away from by women who were totally taken advantage of by my brother, and are scared that I'm going to do it to them, too.
Me? Ahhhhh... I RESPECTED women! I would try to TALK to them and see what they were FEELING! I would try SHARING with them! I would bring them FLOWERS if I were interested in them!
AND I WAS A TOTAL FAILURE THROUGHOUT HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE!!! I ONLY GOT LAID BY ACCIDENT!!! IT WAS AWFUL!!!! I was blown off by women outright, ignored, treated like dirt, and even though I was a very goodlooking guy (my female friends put me at over a 9), I wasn't given the time of day. I was played with and given the LJBF thing over and over again. I was AFC.
And why was this? How could one brother have put porno stars to shame while the other couldn't get laid in a *****house? The answer is easy: I listened to women about what women wanted!!! I ate that crap up hook, line, and sinker! And I paid a heavy, heavy price. I ended up becoming shy, bitter, and emotionally broke.
But there's a happy ending to this story. Sometime in my mid-20s I realized just how much bullshyt I had been told when I was younger, I reflected back on all those things that girls had said and done to me, I thought about my brother, and it all clicked. I understood women. I suddenly recognized that it's not so much that women have no clue what they want. It's the fact that they are traditionally the pursued gender, the keepers of the "yes/no" when it comes to a guy, they choose, they pick, it's all about them, they control, and they become arrogant with this power. And I realized something else that's very, very important: Women are so arrogant with this power that they never consider for a second that a skilled guy can use this to his advantage, and twist her emotions to give him anything he wants. In a sense, victory and conquest does not go to the man who merely knocks the woman off her high horse, it goes to the man who knows how to lead the horse! Since that day, life has been fun, and it's been on my terms.
