Moving

[disfunktional]

If you were to move to a big city, where you knew pretty much no one, and you could afford to rent your own place, would you rent your own place or would you share with others in order to have some people there you knew?

 

[Hot Ice]

Alone. Living with other people is ****. You don't have your privacy...

I just moved to another city and I don't know anyone from there.
Take it as an opportunity, now you can have a clean start and have better friends, practice your new social skills, etc.

I'm assuming you are moving from your post right?

 

[disfunktional]

Yep, moving to London. I don't know anyone though, a few people from work but mostly not the sort of people I would want to hang around with. I just wondered peoples opinions. I do like my own space, and I have lived on my own before, but sometimes I find it can get quite lonely.

 

[Hot Ice]

Yep, moving to London. I don't know anyone though, a few people from work but mostly not the sort of people I would want to hang around with. I just wondered peoples opinions. I do like my own space, and I have lived on my own before, but sometimes I find it can get quite lonely.

I felt lonely couple of years ago sometimes too (I've been living practically alone since I was 16).

You just have to start over and make new friends. Try to find some alpha males to make friends with. A new hobby might help, something that requires other people, like martial arts for example.

I imagine there are many kind of social clubs in London as well.
Remember to explore and keep your eyes open and socialize. And don't get stuck on first people that are friendly to you. As you evolve as yourself (being a DJ), you should make your social circles evolve, don't hang out with losers, try to find the winners.

I'm facing the same challenge man, it's not easy to start from nothing without knowing anyone going to a work that doesn't involve much socializing...

Hey, there are always bars and clubs

 

[disfunktional]

thanks Ice

 

[diablo]

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