Moving out

[oakraiderz2]

For the past year ive been trying to find some way that i can move out of my parents house. Ive saved up money to move to florida or to potentially get an apartment where i live now. At times i want to stay living with my parents, but then there other times when i need to get out. Theres just certain things that they do that drive me crazy. I started having this one girl come over and we would just hang out and watch tv. So a few days later my dad decides to take apart the banister in the living room and moving the couch. I thought it was kinda a ****blockish move figuring he hasnt started working on it. I feel like im a growing fish in a not so big pond. I understand that i should wait until i finish college but i dunno if i can. My moms lack of logic and reasoning skills irritate me like nothing else. I cant have conversations with her cause i have to explain everything with her. And sometimes my dad acts like i dont even live here by going to the bathroom with the door open and his cbing stunt. Isnt it natural for some one to grow out of where theyre living? I need to grow on my own in a different enviornment.

 

[Bible_Belt]

If you have a job, you should be able to live on your own. Roommates make it easier.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Roommates make it easier.

NUH-UH!

 

[Vulpine]

NUH-UH!

:crackup:

Definitely worth the extra cash to live alone. You thought the parents are bad? Wait until some jackazz roommate starts trashing your place and leaving it a mess. Becoming roommates ruins friendships - keep that in mind.

 

[WesCottII]

Yeah man, it's totally natural to want to go. Don't know what other advice to give you...good luck.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Let me add that when you first move out there's no shame to having a studio or efficiency apartment on your own. Women will appreciate that more than you coming home to a huge multi-bedroom home and having to go to your room because your roommates are having Nerf-Assassin game in the dining room and watching a Star Trek Deep Space 9 marathon in the living room.

Don't laugh, you guys know it could happen....

 

[AC/DC]

I don't share rooms with queers.

My stuff is so soaked with THC, putting on my jacket gets you high.

 

[OzyBoy]

I'm going to forget moving out on my own for now, I am just going to share for the time being. I am going to be moving in about 4 weeks time.

 

[Doctormad]

:crackup:

Becoming roommates ruins friendships - keep that in mind.

Truer words have never been spoken.

 

[Desdinova]

Roommates make it easier.

NUH-UH!

I've gotta agree. You've adapted to living with your parents, but adapting to living with other people is difficult because of their personalities, habits, hobbies, and activities. You're better off staying with your parents until you're finished school, and then forking out the money for your own place.

My moms lack of logic and reasoning skills irritate me like nothing else. I cant have conversations with her cause i have to explain everything with her. And sometimes my dad acts like i dont even live here by going to the bathroom with the door open and his cbing stunt.

If that's the worst of it, count yourself lucky. I had to GTFO of my parents place when they tried to control who I was spending time with, and when I was spending time with them. I would have loved to stay there longer and make a better life for myself, but it was just too damn stressful. I had to go out into the world and do everything the hard way... make sure I had a job to pay my bills, pay for my schooling, etc. It was difficult, but I managed.

If you actually get along okay with your parents, stick around until you finish school. Then get yourself a decent job, and a nice place of your own. You've put up with their bad habits for 20+ years, what's another year or two?

However, if you and your parents don't get along, move out.

 

[spider_007]

look on the bright side, at least you don't have to take care of them.

 

[oakraiderz2]

I've gotta agree. You've adapted to living with your parents, but adapting to living with other people is difficult because of their personalities, habits, hobbies, and activities. You're better off staying with your parents until you're finished school, and then forking out the money for your own place.



If that's the worst of it, count yourself lucky. I had to GTFO of my parents place when they tried to control who I was spending time with, and when I was spending time with them. I would have loved to stay there longer and make a better life for myself, but it was just too damn stressful. I had to go out into the world and do everything the hard way... make sure I had a job to pay my bills, pay for my schooling, etc. It was difficult, but I managed.

If you actually get along okay with your parents, stick around until you finish school. Then get yourself a decent job, and a nice place of your own. You've put up with their bad habits for 20+ years, what's another year or two?

However, if you and your parents don't get along, move out.

I dont just want to move out for my own sake, i feel like ive become somewhat of a burden to my parents. My mom doesnt have a job and my dads supporting us. I figure if i leave it'll be a little more stress off of their backs. All i do is chill in my room. Having girls come over is an ordeal cause i really dont wanna tell my dad to let me use the basement. Last time i did that he came down twice to "check on his dvd." I have 3 years left of school, and to be honest i dont know if i can live here the whole time. Its like my parents are ignoring the fact that im getting older. My mom actually told me a few weeks ago not to have sex. Thats the kinda of crap that comes out of her mouth. I dunno what ima do.

 

[Desdinova]

My mom actually told me a few weeks ago not to have sex. Thats the kinda of crap that comes out of her mouth.

Dude, my mother called my gf a wh0re. Well, actually she called a few of them wh0res.

I figure if i leave it'll be a little more stress off of their backs

Have you actually tried talking to your dad about this? If worse comes to worse, offer to pay rent to help cover some of the expenses.

Also, who says you have to hang out around home? When I was getting sick of living with my parents, I stayed out as much as possible. It eventually just became a place to store my stuff for $250 a month, as I was sleeping with the women I was dating.

I had to stay away because the negative atmosphere is what was killing me.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Dude, my mother called my gf a wh0re. Well, actually she called a few of them wh0res.



Have you actually tried talking to your dad about this? If worse comes to worse, offer to pay rent to help cover some of the expenses.

Also, who says you have to hang out around home? When I was getting sick of living with my parents, I stayed out as much as possible. It eventually just became a place to store my stuff for $250 a month, as I was sleeping with the women I was dating.

I had to stay away because the negative atmosphere is what was killing me.

No i havent tried talking to him about it. I dont have any other place to go. Seeing my mom layin on her bed at 4 pm on perkaset (sp?) or some other medicine because her knees hurt takes its toll. Ive told her to stop poppin that sh*t to enable her to work but she doesnt understand what i mean. Seeing my parents sleeping in seperate rooms, no matter what the cause is, is a little hard to witness also. The rabbit hole only gets deeper.

 

[dannowillbookem]

ask them for a lil cash everymonth to help you get your own place...reason with them i mean it means you arent around anymore

actually they may want you aroudn

 

[Desdinova]

Seeing my parents sleeping in seperate rooms, no matter what the cause is, is a little hard to witness also.

That was normal at my house. My mother was happy I moved out because she didn't have to sleep on the couch anymore. My parents hate each other, but stay together "for my sake." What a load of 5hit that is.

If anything, you'll just be trading one stress for another: your toxic parents for a d1ckhead roomate or financial stress. You might have to experience the other two before you can make a decision on what's worse.

If you think you'll be better off on your own, try it and see what happens. I've been in all three, and I'm pushing for what my option would be if I was in your situation (even though my parents are a55holes.)