moving in

[jardine]

Would you let a girl move in with you after barely 1 month? I found out an ex of mine moved in with a guy she meet after barely 1 month . Its not official since she still has her apartment, but pretty much just stops back to pick up clothes and belongings.

Its 1 thing to stay at someones house a couple of nights a week, or move in after say 6 months.But to stay 7 nights and days a week? Im really baffled by this. It kind of breaks all dj principles.I kind of think she has a motiff. do you see this as crash and burn? Did you ever hear of moving in that quickly?opinions?

And in case it wasnt implied I have 0 interest in having anything to do with her. It just has me surprised.

 

[cactus3178]

Oh, HELL no.

I'm sure it's actually worked out sometime in the history of the world, but that's a big ass risk. After one month, you don't know somebody. Hell, I'd say your getting a good grasp of it after one year.

I've had two ex's live with me, and let me tell you; you'll never know a chick until she's living with you. Can be good, can be bad, but after one month, that's insane.

 

[Captain Popular]

**** thats home boy...using you and you're letting her

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Yes it's definetely a motive. When a girl forces her way into your house - you have much less chance to break up with her and she becomes instant friends. Girls that have experienced living with someone know this. A friend of mines OWNED a condominium and DID not let his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years to move in even though she requested and he had space. A couple months later though he did, he cited to me "I've had experiences with girls where they just bum off free rent or they start owning the place, I gotta make sure that this girl is the one for me to spend life with before letting her shack up - he recommend that I spend at least a year with her before making a decision"

Guys/Girls who are quick to move or get you to move in less than 6 months have insecurity issues and down the line the probs may show up in unpredictable ways especially if you live with her, once you do.. you are fubared.