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a typical rule for me now is never hit on her if shes with a parent, just too weird for me and her, have any of you guys said the hell with it and go for the prize? typicaly i wouldnt bother hitting on a girl with a guy that clearly looks like a boyfiend, but there one time at the gym id been noticing this new girl coming in with a couple differnet friends guys and girls, and she was noticing me too, one of the guys looked like he could possibly be a bf, but this girl could obvisly do way better so i convinved myslef that this guy had to just be friend like the others, one day at the gym she was walking with that one guy and another girl friend and i walked up to her infront of the others told her id been noticing her and asked if she cared if i chat with her a sec, but she said she had a man, the guy didnt say ****, but i was bigger than him thoe so maybe thats why, i know i would say something to any guy that did that, but to me this was a good obstacle for me to overcome cuz he may have just been a freind and i could have been ****ing her next week or 2 weeks lol.

so i wana hear some of yalls must rarest or unual approches youve made, or how whats the most amount of friends that have been in the setting when you approached a girl, ive approached a girl that was with 3 of her other girl friend at most but when the crowd starts to get to like 6 or more thats just too much of a audeince for me and i wana break that and holla at a chick when she with like a crowd of 20, striaght up dj
 

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It was a closed jewelry store, the girl was vaccuming the carpet, and I walked up to the window and tapped on it. Motioned for her to come to me, and I got her number. Less than 60 seconds invested.
 
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As you continue to approach, you will begin to realize that it's not really a results oriented thing. If you view yourself as the prize, you will not be seeking results from an interaction with a woman (ie, the validation having completed a successful approach).

That being said, as you continue to approach you will also blow out a lot, and some of your stories will be awesome :)

I think one of the worst things that happened to me was when I was very successful with a girl I didn't realize was only 16 years old (I was 24). She said she was a junior in one of my upper level college classes, so I figured she had to be of age. She ended up inviting me over to her house and her parents found us together. In the midst of their rage as I was trying to exit, they asked me if I had any idea how old she was and promptly told me she was only 16!!!

Maybe I've just been lucky, but I've never been beat up, had a drink thrown at me, or really faced anything negative besides a slightly awkward disinterest when I've approached. Despite what a lot of people have convinced themselves of, approaching a girl, even if the guy next to her is her boyfriend, dad, or personal body guard is probably not going to result in anything catastrophic happening. I guess that might depend on what you say... something like "nice lips, wanna suck on my c*ck" might cause you some issues :eek:

In my experience, the real ridiculous things don't start happening during the initial approach, but as you learn how to escalate and form relationships with girls.
 

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Rubato said:
Maybe I've just been lucky, but I've never been beat up, had a drink thrown at me, or really faced anything negative besides a slightly awkward disinterest when I've approached. Despite what a lot of people have convinced themselves of, approaching a girl, even if the guy next to her is her boyfriend, dad, or personal body guard is probably not going to result in anything catastrophic happening.
I've approached girls and had their boyfriends roll up with a confused look on their face. I back off and tell him "Sorry dude, I was hitting on your [girlfriend/wife]. Didn't know you were together. You're a lucky guy." Nothing ever happens, the situation has been defused, and everyone's karma is good; mine for approaching, hers for still "having it", and her boyfriend/husband for being with a sought after girl. It's a win-win-win situation.
 
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