The women that have given me the most trouble and mixed signals have been attention *****s. A large number of the posts here are about attention whoring women.
These women are a distinct type of women. They are fundamentally different from your relatively normal girl. In order to minimize dating suffering I recommend avoiding these types of women.
Attention *****s share these qualities, among others:
1.) They can emotionally bond with multiple men. Your normal girl has a hard time doing this. Normal girls will obsess over one guy until they eventually move on. Attention *****s have a small army of orbiters that act as a surrogate boyfriend. She emotionally bonds with all of her orbiters.
2.) Attention *****s cuddle with men that they don’t intend to reward with sex. They also share intimate situations with guys that they do not necessarily want to sleep with.
These are the girls that sleep in guys beds and don’t put out at all. Normal girls do not have cuddle buddies. To a normal girl, the thought of sharing a cuddle session with a guy she isn’t sexually interested in is ridiculous.
3.) Attention *****s accept attention from guys that they don’t intend to reward with sex. This means answering texts and going out on “dates”. Normal girls do not entertain romantic attention from males that they don’t like.
4.) Attention *****s are often attractive but constantly single. Their love lives are in shambles. If a hot girl is always single and always getting pumped and dumped, she is probably an attention ***** (exceptions do apply).
5.) These girls use their sexuality as a bargaining chip. They dangle sex in front of orbiters in order to get their time. Normal girls don’t look at sex as a bargaining chip. If they use their sexuality it’s because they genuinely like you.
6.) Attention *****s accept dates from guys they don’t like. Normal girls don’t do this.
7.) Attention *****s are often attracted to men that are in relationships. They become more attracted to guys that have a girlfriend. Attention *****s act on this attraction. Normal girls shy away from these guys because they don’t want the drama associated with it.
8.) Normal girls do not send mixed signals! If a girl is sending mixed signals she is an attention *****. Normal girls either like you or they don’t.
9.) Attention *****s have a large social media presence. Duh!
10.) Attention *****s have shi**y friends who have equally messed up love lives. If a girl is surround by other girls that ride the CC she is going to mimic those behaviors. She will also be getting very bad advice from these girls. Quality girls usually have friends that are in fulfilling relationships.
It’s uncanny how good my female friends are at spotting these women a mile away. This is one of the few benefits of having female friends. They are aware that attention *****s are a very dysfunctional and dangerous type of girl. These attention *****s behave distinctly differently from you average normal girl.
If we avoid this type of girl we will eliminate much of the bitterness we feel towards women. Normal girls are straight forward and add positively to your life. Attention *****s are confusing and subtract from your life.
America breeds attention *****s at such a large rate that most men on SoSuave confuse them for the norm. They are definitely common, but they are not the norm. Not yet at least. Spend time with “quality” girls from a strong 2 family household. You will see the difference is night and day. Spend time with foreign girls and you will see the difference is night and day.
Word of Caution: Normal girls may exhibit some attention whoring qualities. But true attention *****s are normal girls behave very differently in terms of dating.
These women are a distinct type of women. They are fundamentally different from your relatively normal girl. In order to minimize dating suffering I recommend avoiding these types of women.
Attention *****s share these qualities, among others:
1.) They can emotionally bond with multiple men. Your normal girl has a hard time doing this. Normal girls will obsess over one guy until they eventually move on. Attention *****s have a small army of orbiters that act as a surrogate boyfriend. She emotionally bonds with all of her orbiters.
2.) Attention *****s cuddle with men that they don’t intend to reward with sex. They also share intimate situations with guys that they do not necessarily want to sleep with.
These are the girls that sleep in guys beds and don’t put out at all. Normal girls do not have cuddle buddies. To a normal girl, the thought of sharing a cuddle session with a guy she isn’t sexually interested in is ridiculous.
3.) Attention *****s accept attention from guys that they don’t intend to reward with sex. This means answering texts and going out on “dates”. Normal girls do not entertain romantic attention from males that they don’t like.
4.) Attention *****s are often attractive but constantly single. Their love lives are in shambles. If a hot girl is always single and always getting pumped and dumped, she is probably an attention ***** (exceptions do apply).
5.) These girls use their sexuality as a bargaining chip. They dangle sex in front of orbiters in order to get their time. Normal girls don’t look at sex as a bargaining chip. If they use their sexuality it’s because they genuinely like you.
6.) Attention *****s accept dates from guys they don’t like. Normal girls don’t do this.
7.) Attention *****s are often attracted to men that are in relationships. They become more attracted to guys that have a girlfriend. Attention *****s act on this attraction. Normal girls shy away from these guys because they don’t want the drama associated with it.
8.) Normal girls do not send mixed signals! If a girl is sending mixed signals she is an attention *****. Normal girls either like you or they don’t.
9.) Attention *****s have a large social media presence. Duh!
10.) Attention *****s have shi**y friends who have equally messed up love lives. If a girl is surround by other girls that ride the CC she is going to mimic those behaviors. She will also be getting very bad advice from these girls. Quality girls usually have friends that are in fulfilling relationships.
It’s uncanny how good my female friends are at spotting these women a mile away. This is one of the few benefits of having female friends. They are aware that attention *****s are a very dysfunctional and dangerous type of girl. These attention *****s behave distinctly differently from you average normal girl.
If we avoid this type of girl we will eliminate much of the bitterness we feel towards women. Normal girls are straight forward and add positively to your life. Attention *****s are confusing and subtract from your life.
America breeds attention *****s at such a large rate that most men on SoSuave confuse them for the norm. They are definitely common, but they are not the norm. Not yet at least. Spend time with “quality” girls from a strong 2 family household. You will see the difference is night and day. Spend time with foreign girls and you will see the difference is night and day.
Word of Caution: Normal girls may exhibit some attention whoring qualities. But true attention *****s are normal girls behave very differently in terms of dating.
