most mature way of handling games

[Unprez]

As girls like to play hot and cold, what is the best way to say enough you either show me interest or you don't. I brought it up before and got something like ' I dunno', just want to be 'friends for now' etc. How would someone respond to that.

Now i know ppl will say just walk away when a girl plays games, but i wanna do it in a way that makes a man look dignified than in a manner that is like 'oh i give up'

 

[Colossus]

As girls like to play hot and cold, what is the best way to say enough you either show me interest or you don't. I brought it up before and got something like ' I dunno', just want to be 'friends for now' etc. How would someone respond to that.

Now i know ppl will say just walk away when a girl plays games, but i wanna do it in a way that makes a man look dignified than in a manner that is like 'oh i give up'

"Friends for now" is your exit cue.

Paradoxically, walking away when you have been put (or put yourself in) this position IS the dignified way to handle things. I know what youre thinking---you want to stick it to her in a way that's not childish but will leave an impression on her like "wow, I just got owned".

Take it from me, trying to go out like this will only make you look bad. By walking away---not calling, not texting, and moving on with your life, you are implicitly telling her you dont have the time nor care for this rubbish. You dont need to have that last word, because you have the last ACTION.

Her: "I dunno...let's just be friends for now."
You, with a smile: "Thank you, but no. Good day, mrs. HB."

And that's it. If she decides she wants you she can call your as$.

 

[Sandow]

First of all, never tell a girl you like her. After you tell her you like her and she rejects you, just walk away and use social proof to your advantage. In other words, let her see you flirting and having fun with other girls!

 

[radiodude]

You can persist and soldier thru while seducing her regardless. With a 50/50 shot.

Or, you can in a mature way explain that her games are innappropriate and not the way a grown man wants a grown woman to be.

In short, she needs to grow up and be honest. It's childish to play games like that. Let her know your dissapointed and you expected more from her character.

 

[guru1000]

It takes maturity to accept when a girl is just not that into you. When a girl holds you in high regard, she will make her interest level known covertly/overtly. If she plays games, she is covertly stating "LOW IL".

Move on. If you sell yourself short just one time, one thing is for certain; it was won't be your last time.

 

[jophil28]

"Friends for now" is your exit cue.
You dont need to have that last word, because you have the last ACTION.

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" ...you have the last ACTION ".. yep, love it.

 

[jophil28]

. If she plays games, she is covertly stating "LOW IL".

Move on. If you sell yourself short just one time, one thing is for certain; it was won't be your last time.

Good advice...If you do signal your willingness to engage in her early frame grab , you can expect more of the same.
Women feel ( foolishly) that they are entitled to control relationships with men from moment#1 and so they go to work immediately.

THis is where indifference or resistance to her attempts at control works for you ( C and F works well here ). It sends her the message that she cannot easily control the interaction AND it creates a challenge for her. If her attraction level is moderate to high to start with, your tactics will amplify it even further.That puts you in control, and as LMS would say. "That is the natural order of things ." :yes:

 

[sodbuster]

"I have plenty of friends",then walk

 

[Zonder]

Put her in a situation where she has to either show additional interest in you or leave you. This works perfectly for every situation I can imagine.