What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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If I was a dude where the males outnumber the females big time...the smarter move would to simply make as much female friends as you can, build your social circle and get a few Wing women, as social proof, to go out to venues with you to go cold approaching. I've done it before, great way to socialize. Get a social circle going to keep you company, go to the gym, get a few hobbies going and enjoy your life until you meet her.
You seriously can't make this thing up. A public ad campaign encouraging people to be friendly with each other in general and the feminist idiots have to ruin that too. No wonder guys are checking out.
How do you get female friends in the first place? It looks like women are upset with guys being friendly with them in Toronto, lol.If I was a dude where the males outnumber the females big time...the smarter move would to simply make as much female friends as you can, build your social circle and get a few Wing women, as social proof, to go out to venues with you to go cold approaching. I've done it before, great way to socialize. Get a social circle going to keep you company, go to the gym, get a few hobbies going and enjoy your life until you meet her.
Church, taking art classes in a Community College or Michael's for fun, neighbors.....I got lucky, I'm still in contact with my childhood neighbor who moved to San Antonio as an Elementary School Coach.....were still friendly, it looks like we might hang out soon sometime when I get back to America. The other one is an old High School classmate, I asked her to go to Karaoke bar and sing with me the other day and she was down lolHow do you get female friends in the first place? It looks like women are upset with guys being friendly with them in Toronto, lol.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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Perhaps I should reframe the issue. Where else have you seen such a negative response to what is a socially positive ad campaign just based on discouraging guys from approaching women? For the record, I have been to church and never found anyone there. You are there to worship the Lord in a communal setting because if you go expecting to meet someone, you'll feel ignored, invisible. At best the most I have gotten out of that might be a forced handshake when they encourage everyone to greet each other.Church, taking art classes in a Community College or Michael's for fun, neighbors.....I got lucky, I'm still in contact with my childhood neighbor who moved to San Antonio as an Elementary School Coach.....were still friendly, it looks like we might hang out soon sometime when I get back to America. The other one is an old High School classmate, I asked her to go to Karaoke bar and sing with me the other day and she was down lol
All this is very difficult at 30 years old, when most of them are already engaged.Church, taking art classes in a Community College or Michael's for fun, neighbors.....I got lucky, I'm still in contact with my childhood neighbor who moved to San Antonio as an Elementary School Coach.....were still friendly, it looks like we might hang out soon sometime when I get back to America. The other one is an old High School classmate, I asked her to go to Karaoke bar and sing with me the other day and she was down lol
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Lol....It's not like Im making 6 figures, I live comfortably in a developing country but you live with more luxuries compared to me. I'm living the simple, quiet life out here. But we have something in common, were both living with our parents and I'm also taking care of them in one way or another. I'm a diagnosed Schizophrenic and in a way they're also my caretakers and watch after me when I'm sick. Cherish the time you got with your parents man, they won't be around forever.Perhaps I should reframe the issue. Where else have you seen such a negative response to what is a socially positive ad campaign just based on discouraging guys from approaching women? For the record, I have been to church and never found anyone there. You are there to worship the Lord in a communal setting because if you go expecting to meet someone, you'll feel ignored, invisible. At best the most I have gotten out of that might be a forced handshake when they encourage everyone to greet each other.
The culture of a place tends to seep into the church as well. If you are a reject outside the church you are also one inside there too. Art classes? You have to be into art in the first place. Doing things you are not into in order to meet women seems inauthentic. I went to an all boys school. I have childhood friends on facebook, but they are married and have their own lives. I assure you, my situation is much more bleak and hopeless than yours is. You have some money, you are not broke and having to look after two elderly parents.
But that is aside the point. The issue is what other city would have a backlash over such a prosocial campaign like that unless something is really wrong? Can you imagine a Philippina woman complaining on social media that guys like her? Here you are literally seeing videos where women don't want guys to approach them even on a friendly, pleutonic, social level. It's like wow. .
Why? We both live in Southern, Sun Belt American cities.I’ll take my chances there over any southern sun belt American city
Canadians in general are no longer fans of your authoriaruan country. We boo your national anthem during games and stores around are dropping your products.I’d be okay if the USA denied entry of all people from Toronto.
I despise public transportation.
What luxurious do I have here compared to where you are at? The Philippeans has sanitation, toilet paper, and has modern cities around. It's not like you are in a desert island in the middle of nowhere where you have to survive on fish and rain water. In some ways, I'd say you have more luxuries then I do if it involves being in an atmosphere conducive to meeting women. I consider anything involving women to be a luxury with me.Lol....It's not like Im making 6 figures, I live comfortably in a developing country but you live with more luxuries compared to me.
I don't have an issue cherishing the time with my folks. The issue is meeting or dealing with any women in the first place is totally incompatbile with my set-up here. It's just the fact that women are a luxury within my set-up. When women become any sort of luxury (e there is barriers to meet, socialize or find anyone genuinely interested in you), then it a hard sell to say that I have more luxuries compared to you. In fact, having a woman seems to fit into a criteria of a basic human need. If that is a luxury to me, then it points that I have a way more difficult set-up then you do.Travel menoir21" I'm living the simple said:But we have something in common, were both living with our parents and I'm also taking care of them in one way or another. I'm a diagnosed Schizophrenic and in a way they're also my caretakers and watch after me when I'm sick. Cherish the time you got with your parents man, they won't be around forever.
Curious as to whats wrong with sun belt American cities? They aren't receptive to black guys?I’ll take my chances there over any southern sun belt American city