Game Observations.
Last night I had a photo shoot with one of my models. 22 years old, hippy artist chic, bounces from job to job either serving or working with animals. I would put her at 6-7. Mainly she's just young and skinny not terribly pretty or feminine, but cute enough for some practice photos. She can't stand other girls, she has mostly guy friends and one female friend. Lives with two guys.
I make it a point to friend zone myself with them. I do not need the reputation of the leech photographer this early in the game.
So she kept checking her phone during the shoot. I told her to turn it off for the duration. My shoot, my rules. After we finish, we step outside to smoke, her phone blows up with missed texts. Turns out that some guy wants to take her to the movies and wanted to come pick her up and was checking to see if she wanted weed or food. This guy was so deep in the friend zone it's not even funny. She tells me how he always wants to hang out with her, if she posts on FB that she's bored he will text her and take her out to eat or to the movies. When she's posted art supplies or clothes she wants he buys them for her. She says he awkwardly hits on her but she always shuts him down quickly. She doesn't see him that way. Then she tells me how she messed up by saying that she's single and she hopes he doesn't think these are dates. lol. Beta Bux.
I told her 'but you aren't single'. She denies it. So I explain, every halfway decent girl has somebody. Even if it's just someone they are fcuking. She then tells me about 2 guys in two different cities. One in prison and the other who "won't get serious" but will come in town once a month to hit it. lol. Alpha Fux.
I ask her about this beta orbiter guy. He's a nice guy, kinda boring, skinny. No real hobbies just hangs around the art scene not really fitting in. No game. No manhood. No mission.
I ask about the other guys. One a scumbag lowlife junkie thief but he's really a good guy deep down, the other owns a bar in another city and always has girls around. Dark Triad. Game. Mission.
I asked her had she ever hooked up with her male friends. She said a couple, but either they got weird on her or they stopped hanging around after a while. Dat one-itis yo, dat hit it and quit it yo. I asked her had she ever slept with a photogher. She said 2. Then I asked her how many had she worked with. She said I made number 3. LOOOOOL. Dat attention yo.
She asked me if I was single. I explained that I was, my last two plates spun out (I phrased it differently of course). And that I'm working on my screenplay, my hustle and saving up money for my business so I really don't have time for it. I made sure she knew I only saw her as a friend.
We talked further about life careers and the future. She really has no idea what she's doing in life. Just following the flow maaan (girls use man and dude way to much these days, not very feminine).
It's fun to watch the game play out in real life from the side lines. I know it would be even more fun to play, but right now the goal is to stay on mission.