If you want to save money, stop being a p*ssy and tell her that she needs to bring some money. Tell her beforehand that you expect the girl to pay for herself.
If you don't feel like spending money on a girl, DON'T! Don't try to impress her. Would you pay for your friend? Most likely no. Sometimes you might, if you were in the mood or if you were spotting him some cash, so why act differently with a girl?
I've taken a girl to a resturaunt and we pigged out. Then when the check came I put in the money for my amount and told her we needed "xx" amount for her half. She was like "WHAT?! Are you kidding me?!". I said no, I wasn't kidding. She got pissed but paid for her meal. She was pissed the whole ride home saying that I didn't treat her like the princess she was(her exact words). Said that she felt I didn't care about her at all. Then I sternly told her, "Look, if I didn't care about being here with you, I wouldn't have drove 45 mins to get here in the first place. In the second place I wouldn't have spent all day with you. I could have been somewhere else but I CHOSE to be here with YOU. I've been driving us around all day. We were getting along great till now. If you really feel that it's me spending money on you that counts then it's obvious to me that this isn't gonna work. I've shown you that I care about being here with you in ways that REALLY count. You don't see that though. It was nice, for the most part, meeting you. Goodbye.". Then I dropped her off and went home.
Know what? This "princess" called and apologized. Said she thought about what I said. That it really isn't spending money on her that shows I care. She knows it from the other ways I showed. She was sorry and hoped we could see each other again.
So there you go. Who says you HAVE to spend money on the girl?! Would you really expect her to spend money on you? No, that would be absurd. And it's the same when a girl expects a guy to just pay for her based on the fact that she has a vagina and he has a penis. Don't be scared of the girl rejecting you. Do what YOU want. Not what you think the girl expects you to.
P's
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I danced till midnight when the sky turned black,
It is hard to dance with the Devil on your back.
They buried my body and thought I'd gone,
But I am the dance and I still go on.
[This message has been edited by Shadow Dancer (edited 09-09-2002).]