Modifying the DJ LifeStyle?

[Paid Laid & Made]

The root of my problem lies within the depths of this post. The problem which I am facing is this, I have a female aquaintance, who I have tried to DJ last year at homecoming and got obliterated by. We both hated each other after that, but tried our hardest to be friends. We are right now on attempt number 8. At one point she decided to hook me up with her best friend, who I dated for two months, but ended up getting dumped by due to the "not connecting problem", I got LJBF, tried it and failed miserably at it. I could not let go of the ex and had one-initis. I have now stumbled on a "6" at school. She is alright, shows high interest and is sexually open minded. I have date with her Friday. The issue is this within the last week, I have obliterated an okay relationship with the ex and apparently declared war on our friend (aquaintance). I came on these forums always complaining about the EX and posted more then my share of posts about the issue. I am done with it. I have been labeled a push-over and AFC with a bad case of one-initis. Now, I want to just move on and let things fall into place. Problem is that the girl which I am planning to go out with has a bad reputation at school, mostly referring to her sexual openess, should I just ignore what they say and give the girl a try or will going with her mean the demise of my reputation (goody two shoes) and therefore ruin any chance of maybe getting another girl at my school? I am a senior. Second I do not let things slide easily and have a reputation for developing bulldog tendencies about issues, such as making out with my ex. She discovered about a bet in the amount of $150 which included her making out with me at the movie drive in. The date never happened but she is furious and will not talk to me and dragged our friend into it. I now just want her to be happy and us just to be able to move on, this happened On Sunday. I found her a guy but I dont know how to make it look, so that she will not think its a setup. Any suggestions?

 

[CoreD11]

wow

eight tries and you never next her? I would have after the obliteration at homecomming...Thats just what i would have done. If you have an itch, and you keep scratching it, it will us get worse. So I would just foget about that one. As for the "sexually open " girl; who gives a flying **** what anyone thinks? Id get on it, if it was me. Regardless of the reputaton thing, Your a senior you should be having a good time. Most girls though (from my experience) dont really like goody-two shoes guys. So maybe it will be good for you.

My 2 cents

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Goody Two Shoes, I mean everyone knows me as the guy who dates virgins who have no intention of experimenting. I dress nice and take AP courses. I should have NEXTED the friend after 8 tries, but something keeps dragging us back together. People always say we'll end up marrying, but we both quickly dismiss it and then diss each other again. I will give the girl a try. She has been with 4 guys or that's how many she has admitted to having been with.

 

[SomethingCreative]

Did you go out with the girl for a long time before that homecoming. If not, then you have some major problems if you have tried to get with this same girl eight times and havent succeeded. Obviously she isn't the girl for you and there are millions of other girls out there just waiting for you. Let go of the past, get over ur oneitis and move on.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

No, I tried hooking up with her last year once. It was never actually a date just a friends going to homecoming together. She was hung up on a guy and I just stopped talking to her. Rumors got spread and we fought. I have no intention of hooking up with her and I dont have oneinitis about her. We just get in each others face. Plus, she is not my main problem, read the first post, she is more like a road block in the way of me figuring out my other issues.

 

[blienk]

If this is such an ongoing problem, why don't you just COMPLETELY IGNORE everyone you mentioned in the first post and move on to a new group of people? Seems obvious to me.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

This site gives advice for complicated problems. I am the type of person that has always 2 choice. A is easy, B is the hard way. I always choose B cause it makes things more interesting. I need better advice then ditching my "friends".