Mixed signals?????

[bignick79]

Hey Don Juans!!

Well, i had a date the other nite with a hottie from school. We been "friends" for a while cuz she was as we would say "unavailable" cuz she had a b/f. But about 3 months ago they broke up and we been talking and going out over the last 2 months I'd say. Hanging out with her and her friends, and also dates were it was just the 2 of us.

Anyhow, there has always been a lotta signs that she was into me, even when she was with her b/f, touching, holding hands, flirting, sexual inuendo, etc., but when i tried to kiss her, she would always back away which makes no sense??? And to top it all off she tells me this time, i dont wanna move too fast, i just wanna be friends. WTF??? I know this isnt good guys, i been reading this site for a while, but every other indication is telling me she's into me. Gimme some guidence here guys!!

Thanks
Big Nick

 

[GirlCrazy]

You're in the dreaded "friend zone", and she's not interesting in anything more.

If she were into you, she wouldn't pull away when you try to kiss her. Look at her actions, not her words.

My advice would be to go find other chicas who *are* interested in you, and don't get hung up on any one chica.

 

[Metro3pilot]

hey man you're lucky ... imagine all that shiyat with the lets take it slow
same situation to a T
but not mentioning the lets be friends thing ...........

when you wish she would say ljbf so you knew exactly where you stand welcome to my hell

 

[flexion_]

You are in the friendzone. Move on.

 

[joekerr31]

she was flirting with you while she had a bf, doesnt that tell you what you need to know?

ill give you some advice for the whole "chics gives me all the signs but says she wants to be friends" thing.

here's the thing. if she really likes you as a person, is even attracted to you, but isn't ready for a relationship (ie. she just wants a guy to stuff her holes now and then) then she's not going to act on her attraction to you. In her mind, your the nice guy to settle down with - which means your only worthwhile if shes ready to settle down with.

here's the key to getting out of the friends zone. CUT CONTACT OFF.

see, to a woman having "friend" is like having her options close at hand. if you start to pull away, she'll start to worry that she's losing her option. which will then draw her closer to crossing the line from seeing you as a friend to something more.

the thing is though, this isnt fulproof. it only works if she really likes you but is afraid of losing you as a friend by messing around. or sees you as LTR, but she isnt ready for an LTR.

so the answer is you just move on. forget about her, get new girl itnerests.

this will spark her to move on you, and if it doesnt, oh well, no loss, you've spent your time chasing after women that ARE options.

J

 

[TheTrimReaper]

Big Nick,

I do not talk to girls with boyfriends or husbands, for there are plenty of single women out there who want to suck my d1ck.

Spend more time finding the available ones. I know it's hard, but they are out there. Don't waste your time on a girl who was flirting with you like that while she had a boyfriend. It's clear what kind of woman she is.

And if you do find a woman that puts you in the friend zone ever again, don't waste one more minute of your time thinking about her because your status isn't gonna change. Women do not change! Move on!

 

[OpenMind]

Mixed Signals?

Bro, I don't get what is so mixed about trying to kiss a girl and getting rejected? Doesn't sound too MIXED to me???? Sounds more like an OBVIOUS signal to me.... she isn't interested bro...

 

[joekerr31]

take her to the movies and order popcorn. rest the popcorn bag on your lap. when she goes to the washroom, pull your pecker out and push it through the bottom of the bag.

when she comes back and eats all the popcorn she'll find yoru **** at the bottom.

haha, i dont know if this has anything to do with this thread, but its some odd memory i have from some movie i saw in the past.

any know what movie that scene is from?

haha
J

 

[bossdog]

TOUCH HER AND SHE BACKS OFF= SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU

NEXT!(sorry for caps but thisone is obvious)